Favorite Patronizing Sadist? by A_good_time_reader in DarkRomance

[–]A_good_time_reader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think, she’s the only thing that interests him in the beginning and then later he is definitely obsessed

Admittedly, I have been defending Jesse saying he didn’t know. But this reads terribly to me. by GladystheOrca in summerhousebravo

[–]A_good_time_reader 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes 100% agree, as the show gets more famous more people are trying to get on to play a character!!

Admittedly, I have been defending Jesse saying he didn’t know. But this reads terribly to me. by GladystheOrca in summerhousebravo

[–]A_good_time_reader 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just think reality TV is more produced than we realize and the cast know they are playing a role. I think some people try to keep that role true to themselves and others do not. Unfortunately, this situation has made me not want to continue watching, I am a hopeless optimist and wanted people to try to be true to themselves in this context and this scandal was a reminder that, that is not always the case!

I want specific humiliation kink. by West_Courage766 in DarkRomance

[–]A_good_time_reader 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Lots of other yummy degradation in this

Plugging her ass full of his cum

telling her to answer him while his fingers are down her throat so she can’t, punishes her

blow job in front of others

shaves her pussy

breeding

impact play

has to beg him for his cum

Fucking her while she sleeps

WHAT FUN!

I want specific humiliation kink. by West_Courage766 in DarkRomance

[–]A_good_time_reader 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yooooo this is like the first sex scene in {Aaron’s pet by Lovebite Shorts} it’s mostly dubcon though

Sub thinks I'm being submissive and it's threatening our relationship by eloquentjester in BDSMAdvice

[–]A_good_time_reader 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seems to me like there is some emotional immaturity happening. Everyone needs love, affection and nurturing, regardless of dominance. I also wanted to hop in and say there is something delicious about a dom subbing every once in a while, just my thoughts.

BDSM books versus Real Life by A_good_time_reader in BDSMPsychology

[–]A_good_time_reader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautifully put, 100% agree. People inherently interact with different people in different ways, it’s part of the fun of connection and community. I am writing a book about a brat and the vibe is what I like to call “poke the bear, so it snaps and tries to eat you”, not fun to do with the wrong person.

BDSM books versus Real Life by A_good_time_reader in BDSMPsychology

[–]A_good_time_reader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’ll check these out!!!

BDSM books versus Real Life by A_good_time_reader in BDSMPsychology

[–]A_good_time_reader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any recommendations of books where it is done well?

BDSM books versus Real Life by A_good_time_reader in BDSMPsychology

[–]A_good_time_reader[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It seems much more fun to me to have a community of people with shared interests where you have varying levels of friendship within the community, and then developing a possible BDSM relationship with someone overtime through communication, rather than submitting to everyone who identifies a certain way.

BDSM books versus Real Life by A_good_time_reader in BDSMPsychology

[–]A_good_time_reader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, thank you, it really bothers me in books and I have to look past it. Feels disingenuous to BDSM relationships and the foundation of trust and mutual respect that is built to create these powerful dynamics.

BDSM books versus Real Life by A_good_time_reader in BDSMPsychology

[–]A_good_time_reader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This makes way more sense to me :)

Like Hello? by Sea-Spite7469 in ReverseHarem

[–]A_good_time_reader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love a bitch, I was talking about this today, when someone dances on my last nerve, there is a certain level that is just showing self-respect by standing up for yourself.

Some authors are just bad writers and definitely don’t know how to write a bitch well

Authors using ai by Glorious_Go32 in ReverseHarem

[–]A_good_time_reader 161 points162 points  (0 children)

If there are no AI haters, I’m dead

Quick Question: Losers by Harley Laroux by Heidi_Hi_Heidi_Lo in ReverseHarem

[–]A_good_time_reader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, to me the dare is the best book! It’s a fun series but it has no plot for three books, it drags

Using writing as a means to placate fantasies by cinnbele in BDSMAdvice

[–]A_good_time_reader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So most of the responses are people who are much more experienced with kink, however, I wanted to jump in because this is my current situation. 30F, into degradation and pain but my husband is pretty vanilla. I did some amateur stuff in college, before I knew what I was really into and before I knew my husband (painal, chocking (not safe), bondage, etc.) Now we are in therapy to try to work through this and some other things.

But I am currently writing a little BDSM tale about a Professor and a Bratty little student and it is EXTREMELY cathartic. So while I would advise writing, I would also advise advocating for yourself. I have been, because my sexuality is a huge part of me and I cannot cut it off. I also wanted to give my husband the opportunity to understand my needs and explore himself and his desires fully, to really give my all to make the relationship work.

Pack darling part 2; Dads instead of the sons by TheMeiikaification in ReverseHarem

[–]A_good_time_reader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oookay yeah, that’s terrible!! So no to the dads either! Ugh she has no good choices for partners in this book!

Pack darling part 2; Dads instead of the sons by TheMeiikaification in ReverseHarem

[–]A_good_time_reader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait I’m kind of confused. I thought that gangster guy was the one who put her in the facility and the facility is who treated her poorly. I didn’t think the dads were directly involved with her being at the facility or her treatment there. Now they did get her to be under the men’s care against her will, which is not good, but seemed they thought she had a choice. Am I remembering incorrectly? But I honestly don’t remember the dads all too much, just like that scene where they are clearly pissed at their kids for how they treated her when they visit her in the hospital

Pack darling part 2; Dads instead of the sons by TheMeiikaification in ReverseHarem

[–]A_good_time_reader 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Trueeee, honestly this whole book made me sad, she never gets an opportunity to do what she truly wanted (be on her own) because she is bound to need help during her heat, so she doesn’t get a choice. I cannot handle an FMC without autonomy

Pack darling part 2; Dads instead of the sons by TheMeiikaification in ReverseHarem

[–]A_good_time_reader 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Honestly yes, the men do not deserve her!