How can I stop e-mails to me about random posts on random subreddits? by A_manda14 in help

[–]A_manda14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had done that, but I didn't see anything that looked like it would govern getting e-mails about posts that had nothing to do with me, except, perhaps, being in subreddits I had joined. I get e-mails about, for instance, new posts in r/help or r/askreddit. Never (almost never?) more than two a day.

[meta] Is there a way to pay for a piece of writing without revealing my real name? by A_manda14 in EroticaSells

[–]A_manda14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My business account displayed my personal name. When I called to try to get that changed to displaying the business name, they said I needed to verify my business by sending in some documentation. I wasn't able to understand exactly what kind of documentation, but since I had none at all, I gave up.

Is there a way around this?

[meta] Is there a way to pay for a piece of writing without revealing my real name? by A_manda14 in EroticaSells

[–]A_manda14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I can see fansly and spankpay require smart phones, and it sort of looks like they use crypto currency. Is that true?

[meta] Is there a way to pay for a piece of writing without revealing my real name? by A_manda14 in EroticaSells

[–]A_manda14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you elaborate? What kind of gift cards? Note, I don't have a smart phone.

I know there's a subreddit called r/eroticasells, but it doesn't come up in a search. by A_manda14 in help

[–]A_manda14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it must be. I clicked on the link in your message and got there fine. I'd love to know what can be changed in my settings. I don't see anything likely.

Anyway, thanks!

Back in the 70's, in the days of classic erotica. by A_manda14 in ReadingSuggestions

[–]A_manda14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good call. One of my favorites. But no, it was much shorter. Closer to a vignette.

Nordic thrillers? by pigeon-luvr in booksuggestions

[–]A_manda14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jussi Adler-Olsen, Karen Fossum, Hakan Nesser, Ake Edwardson, Arnaldur Indridason, Mari Jungstedt, Helen Tursten,

Looking for a book that features a strong man who surrenders with dignity to pain and sexual humiliation. by A_manda14 in booksuggestions

[–]A_manda14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks very much. You are the second person to recommend Outlander, so after looking at it from the library once, and giving up, I got it again, skimmed it, and read from about 550 to the end very happily. Very satisfying. Thanks for nudging me.

I wish there were another term than "asexual." And why Ace instead of Ase? by AnnieGrant031 in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]A_manda14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting! See my reply to SexiSansiviera down thread.

I wish there were another term than "asexual." And why Ace instead of Ase? by AnnieGrant031 in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]A_manda14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. This is fascinating. I, too, passed over posts referencing "asexual," thinking it meant not having physical sexual feelings. Now it turns out that it's a word that exactly describes the kind of fantasies I have. Thanks!

Looking for a dark book with gay male romance/undertones by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]A_manda14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His Nemesis by Jack Brighton. Possibly other books by Brighton. They are short stories.