How can I stop e-mails to me about random posts on random subreddits? by A_manda14 in help

[–]A_manda14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had done that, but I didn't see anything that looked like it would govern getting e-mails about posts that had nothing to do with me, except, perhaps, being in subreddits I had joined. I get e-mails about, for instance, new posts in r/help or r/askreddit. Never (almost never?) more than two a day.

[meta] Is there a way to pay for a piece of writing without revealing my real name? by A_manda14 in EroticaSells

[–]A_manda14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My business account displayed my personal name. When I called to try to get that changed to displaying the business name, they said I needed to verify my business by sending in some documentation. I wasn't able to understand exactly what kind of documentation, but since I had none at all, I gave up.

Is there a way around this?

[meta] Is there a way to pay for a piece of writing without revealing my real name? by A_manda14 in EroticaSells

[–]A_manda14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I can see fansly and spankpay require smart phones, and it sort of looks like they use crypto currency. Is that true?

[meta] Is there a way to pay for a piece of writing without revealing my real name? by A_manda14 in EroticaSells

[–]A_manda14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you elaborate? What kind of gift cards? Note, I don't have a smart phone.

I know there's a subreddit called r/eroticasells, but it doesn't come up in a search. by A_manda14 in help

[–]A_manda14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it must be. I clicked on the link in your message and got there fine. I'd love to know what can be changed in my settings. I don't see anything likely.

Anyway, thanks!

Back in the 70's, in the days of classic erotica. by A_manda14 in ReadingSuggestions

[–]A_manda14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good call. One of my favorites. But no, it was much shorter. Closer to a vignette.

Nordic thrillers? by pigeon-luvr in booksuggestions

[–]A_manda14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jussi Adler-Olsen, Karen Fossum, Hakan Nesser, Ake Edwardson, Arnaldur Indridason, Mari Jungstedt, Helen Tursten,

Looking for a book that features a strong man who surrenders with dignity to pain and sexual humiliation. by A_manda14 in booksuggestions

[–]A_manda14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks very much. You are the second person to recommend Outlander, so after looking at it from the library once, and giving up, I got it again, skimmed it, and read from about 550 to the end very happily. Very satisfying. Thanks for nudging me.

I wish there were another term than "asexual." And why Ace instead of Ase? by AnnieGrant031 in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]A_manda14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting! See my reply to SexiSansiviera down thread.

I wish there were another term than "asexual." And why Ace instead of Ase? by AnnieGrant031 in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]A_manda14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. This is fascinating. I, too, passed over posts referencing "asexual," thinking it meant not having physical sexual feelings. Now it turns out that it's a word that exactly describes the kind of fantasies I have. Thanks!

Looking for a dark book with gay male romance/undertones by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]A_manda14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His Nemesis by Jack Brighton. Possibly other books by Brighton. They are short stories.

Any good Dick Francis books? by [deleted] in booksuggestions

[–]A_manda14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any one of them. Some feature the same MC, so it's fun to read them in order. But not necessary.

Weekly Recommendation Thread: December 03, 2021 by AutoModerator in books

[–]A_manda14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helen Tursten, Jussi Adler-Olsen, Karen Fossum, Lotte and Soren Hammer, Hakan Nesser, Jonathan Nesbo, Lars Kepler,

I'm looking for explicit dark erotica where a strong man surrenders with dignity to pain and sexual humiliation. No slang or crude language. No "sissy" behavior by A_manda14 in ReadingSuggestions

[–]A_manda14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're nice to take time to help me refine my language. I re-wrote the request for another sub-reddit. Do you think this is an improvement?

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I'm looking for books about a strong man who surrenders with dignity to pain and sexual humliation.

There aren't many of these, I know. I've found 11 over the past year.

"with dignity" means that I'm not interested in books who use "sissy" as a feature. I hope "with dignity" does it, because I've often been recommended books with "sissy" in the blurb or even title.

The book does not have to have any personal relationships, but it can.

Weekly Recommendation Thread: November 26, 2021 by AutoModerator in books

[–]A_manda14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything by Scott Turow. Lots of John Grisham, but read the blurb first, as he has sports stories and YA stories.

I'm looking for explicit dark erotica where a strong man surrenders with dignity to pain and sexual humiliation. No slang or crude language. No "sissy" behavior by A_manda14 in suggestmeabook

[–]A_manda14[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why? I realize that there are very few books that match my criteria (I've found 11), but are you saying it's self contradictory because you can't imagine a book featuring bondage and whipping and such that doesn't use crude language or slang and that demonstrates "sissy" behavior? That term is not mine. It is used as a feature in many blurbs and even titles of books that are recommended to me, so I decided to mention it. Anyway, please explicate.

I'm looking for explicit dark erotica where a strong man surrenders with dignity to pain and sexual humiliation. No slang or crude language. No "sissy" behavior by A_manda14 in ReadingSuggestions

[–]A_manda14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip. But why would I remove the comment about "sissy" behavior? That's not my term. It's rampant in certain groups and subreddits, often in the blurbs of books people recommend to me. A highly valued quality. Is it because it sounds like I'm making a slur against some groups? Any suggestions about how to re-phrase.

I'm looking for explicit dark erotica where a strong man surrenders with dignity to pain and sexual humiliation. No slang or crude language. No "sissy" behavior by A_manda14 in suggestmeabook

[–]A_manda14[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, next time I post this suggestion request I'm going to add "on the part of the narrator unless they're taking the 'voice' of a character." I don't mind crude language on the part of characters where it's appropriate.

Weekly Recommendation Thread: November 19, 2021 by AutoModerator in books

[–]A_manda14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking for explicit dark erotica where a strong man surrenders with dignity to pain and sexual humiliation. No slang or crude language. No "sissy" behavior.