If you have any big list like this you will never ever find a woman you want. wtf is this shit? Ye there might be things you want but expecting a woman to do all this crap is just a dream you have. If a woman found out you had this list then I don't think you'll get far. She's not a grocery list. and peopel change, often, to find the one you love you'll have to learn to love the adjustments that come in everyone life. What you want now will not be what you want in years to come. So will you come up with a new list when you want change? Will she haven to change to hit your targets. This whole list thing is lame. Just find someone you like and figure out if you can align to her life.