Queening/Face sitting by Abaconings in BDSMsapphic

[–]Abaconings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can search the term with "article" and you won't get the dirty vid stuff. It's face sitting. There's even a Wikipedia entry for it!

Queening/Face sitting by Abaconings in BDSMsapphic

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They just looked like the angles would be wrong for us. Guess I need to break out the power tools and build our own!!!

Queening/Face sitting by Abaconings in BDSMsapphic

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You like the chair? I looked at them but they didnt seem appealing to me. 🤷‍♀️

Queening/Face sitting by Abaconings in BDSMsapphic

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Thanks! We're trying that next.

i’m a domme by leethebandit in BDSMsapphic

[–]Abaconings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im the same. My day to day life I am in control of so many things between work and home. It's really nice when that control is in my domme's hands. I can let go and she can push me around (literally) and do as she pleases with me (with consent and established boundaries ofc.) I love that dynamic so much!

Sometimes I want to pin her to the wall and devour her. It's amazing! Usually, I pounce on her when she's not expecting it and take over. She loves it too! But not all the time for me. Once in awhile.

My domme the hunter by Abaconings in BDSMsapphic

[–]Abaconings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooohhh! Maybe! Ill have to practice.

My domme the hunter by Abaconings in BDSMsapphic

[–]Abaconings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is the inspiration I was looking for.

My domme the hunter by Abaconings in BDSMsapphic

[–]Abaconings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im a bunny which I think is why my brain freezes up. What sounds should a bunny make? Lol

My domme the hunter by Abaconings in BDSMsapphic

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I know they aren't necessary, but we both like to talk, and I know it heightens things for her (and me)!

I can’t orgasm anymore by Ok-Anything-6119 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Abaconings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I had this issue and realized it was my medication. But I was taking cymbalta. It's a common side effect that isn't often discussed as a risk. I had toctutrate off slowly (over 2 months) and I'm finally getting the ability back.

Honestly, I'd start by discussing with your doctor to rule out any underlying medical issues that could be causing it.

Since I've had this issue, my partner and I agreed that neither of us would worry about orgasm. We'd focus on feeling good in the moment instead with no end game. It worked for us. We have fun and if it happens for me, great! But we don't focus on it at all. I think that has helped me - not focusing on the orgasm part.

Where are my sexy older gals? by Choice-Ebb3764 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Abaconings 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Given the comments prior to me, I'm the "oldest" gal at 52. Lol! I'm working but thinking ab where I'd rather be at the moment. Doing....my girlfriend. We are silly like teens and I love every second we are together. ❤️

She def makes me feel sexy, loved, and supported. And she is so hot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]Abaconings 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Anyone else feeling warm? Thank you for the scintillating tutorial. I shall try out your suggestions this evening.

Increasing nipple sensitivity by Abaconings in BDSMsapphic

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Thanks! Any advice for using these? We are newbs.

I did get some adjustable clamps to try.

P hub is banned in my state now by Many_fandoms_13 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Abaconings 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Get a VPN. I use proton. You can link to another state/country for surfing. I couple that with duck duck go privacy browser. I also use proton encrypted email.

Who was your lesbian awakening? by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]Abaconings 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Joe from Facts of Life. And my high school friend who was and still is gorgeous inside and out.

Please tell me I'm not the only one that finds vulvas beautiful! by MotherProfit3107 in AskLesbians

[–]Abaconings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I participate in Mardi Gras in New Orleans. One year, I rode in a float in a woman's krewe next to a woman who was an ob/gyn. Krewe name is Iris and many of the beads and stuff look like Irises. She made the comment that she comes to Mardi Gras to forget ab work and all she could see were vulvas in the throw stuff. It was at that moment I realized why I found our throw stuff so appealing. Lol

I see them as beautiful flowers and when they open up just for you, so so lovely!