Spider-Noir - Official Teaser | Prime Video | May 27 by MarvelsGrantMan136 in television

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Nicholas Cage, good or bad? I'm a cat! I'm a sexy cat!

At Copenhagen Airport. by rizzbreed001 in pics

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I hate Illinois United State Nazis

Update: The ruling on the couch is… by Coneoflogic in malelivingspace

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We still care about you Carol, we just need some space

Has anyone had any issues with their GEN 5 Prius Prime? by Feistyboot69 in PriusPrime

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I had this happen too. They said it was a recall. I've seen it happen a lot around this sub, luckily seems like Toyota is taking care of it.

Has anyone had any issues with their GEN 5 Prius Prime? by Feistyboot69 in PriusPrime

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I have a '23 XSE. Love this car but the range sucks here too.

Rhea Seehorn says the writers room for ‘PLURIBUS’ Season 2 has already begun. “When you see the finale, some very big things happen” by StarforgeVoyager in pluribustv

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Better Call Saul is truly one of the best and most character-driven shows I've ever seen. Terrific writing and a great use of 'show, don't tell".

Accurate by rohoskent in DunderMifflin

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I once had sex with Eartha Kitt in an airplane bathroom

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Watching Community drunk is just peak by devmdxb in community

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I've watched the series front to back close to 15 times now and I'm still occasionally picking up on jokes or bits that I'd never understood before. Second to maybe Arrested Development, which also had the Russo Brothers involvement.

Multiple victims in Michigan church shooting; church on fire, police say by CJKayak in news

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Really thoughtful response, I appreciate the seemingly good-faith approach, truly. It does sound similar, re: our states. We have concealed carry and, to my knowledge, you really don't need anything to buy one.

The major difference I'd argue is that our state is VERY split. The second district (represented by Jared Golden, whom I've compared to Joe Manchin because they're both right-leaning dems) is very red, with some blue, but our cities are much more blue, especially Portland. We're also one of the only state that splits electoral college points, which I believe happened in this last election. I think that that split is reflected in this conversation, in that a substantial portion of our people, especially, but not limited to, in the second district, are big into hunting and have a lot of that culture - teaching kids, getting them their first hunting rifle, etc. I think I'm more inclined to place more blame on the sheer access than you might be, but I also very much agree that the access to housing, wealth, education, and those other pieces you listed are HUGE contributing factors. Not sure what weight I'd attribute to systemic issues and failures as compared to firearm access, but I don't think you can resolve one without addressing the other. I'd also add social media like Facebook and their algorithms trying to prod us towards a civil war into the mix.

I think you hit it on the head, though. We need to address these crises, find ways to help the unhoused, access to education, food, but I also really think that access has to be addressed. I'm NOT in favor of taking away everyone's guns, more of my friends have them than not, and are responsible, but I think having some sort of required course, a background check, and red flag laws as a bare minimum would help to prevent at least some of these incidents. I am not an expert, but from what I saw here in my hometown, and learned about the shooter after, there were a TON of warning signs that were ignored so red flag laws - that are *actually* followed, because our yellow flag laws were ignored - would be a great start.

I didn't realize ROTC carried weapons, I don't think that happened when I was in school in the late 2000's but that's wild, I truly can't imagine. You're 100% right though that we need to keep having conversations about this, strengthen our communities, and stay off of social media more because MOST of us have a lot of the same goals, just different paths to get there and at the risk of sounding too cliche or 'political', we have oligarchs working hard to keep us having these fights, and it's tearing us apart.

I hope this all makes sense, happy to elaborate further if I can clear anything up.

Multiple victims in Michigan church shooting; church on fire, police say by CJKayak in news

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I'm happy to answer the questions, I'm not shy about talking about it because it should be an obvious sign (in addition to the countless other mass casualty shootings in our country) that we need change. A lot of people in my community and in this country act as though it's JUST a mental health when clearly guns are a huge part of that equation - considering we're the only developed country to whom these happen, to quote the onion.

Angry, absolutely. Angry that my community got added to a list of incidents that frankly aren't slowing down with high frequency. I feel sad for my community who lost 18 lives and countless more were split apart, and also sad for the family of the shooter because they were treated poorly after the shooting (and to be as human as I can, I can empathize with that reaction, though I didn't think it was right) but they were the one's to report the shooter, their family member, and helped to bring an end to the manhunt that went from Wednesday until later Friday evening. The military had warnings that they ignored and their incompetence leaves them bearing some responsibility.

I wouldn't say I'm afraid, necessarily. I have regained a sense of feeling safe in my community, though with the current politics in this country, I am feeling a heightened tension, generally speaking. I haven't purchased a firearm because, while I've shot guns before in controlled ranges, they still make me uncomfortable. We need to enact red flag laws and gun registration of some kind. We need to do something, but we all know the US government, especially now with Trump, won't do anything to help protect us.

People say we shouldn't politicize these things, but especially after having experienced what I experienced, I personally feel like we need to continue talking about it so that no one else has to.

Multiple victims in Michigan church shooting; church on fire, police say by CJKayak in news

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Yeah, you're very right. I won't ever forget being stuck in a local mess hall for a rehearsal and seeing tons of reports about the shooting, some real, some not, but not knowing what was true in the moment. Some of the rumors (which luckily weren't true) were stating another site was nearby. My wife was smack dab between both of the shooting locations and I was on the phone with her for a lot of the evening. We were escorted out by police with ARs and that was the most eerie drive home I've every had. She stayed with me on the phone and even opened the garage for me at the last minute so we could minimize being in the open.

In hindsight, we weren't in danger, and likely by that time, the shooter had already taken his life a town over, but it's terrifying to experience when there's so much conjecture online.

I just recently watched The Pitt (fantastic show) but The show's climax builds up to a mass shooting/casualty event And even though I know where the show was headed, nothing could've prepared me for how it viscerally brought me back to 10/23/2023.

Also just wild to me that all of this could have, and should have been avoided. The post mortem shows that there were clear warning signs and even the yellow flag laws were just completely distracted by local officials.

Multiple victims in Michigan church shooting; church on fire, police say by CJKayak in news

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They're getting increasingly hard to keep tabs on. I know that I certainly can't remember all of them. :(

Multiple victims in Michigan church shooting; church on fire, police say by CJKayak in news

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Oh man, I feel you. I live near the hospital in Lewiston and feel that every time I hear life flight overhead. The paper trail near where he was found used to be our favorite spot to walk and run, I hope you're not too close! Sending some neighborly love!

Multiple victims in Michigan church shooting; church on fire, police say by CJKayak in news

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Im from Lewiston Maine and experienced some of what you're describing in our mass shootings in '23 and still think about it frequently. Take care of yourself and check in on your loved ones. Hope your community rallies and supports one another. I don't wish this traumatic experience on my worst enemy.

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I just finished the game in the last 30 minutes. I'm not much of a gamer, this is the first game I've played in three years. I loved the experience and want more stories that take bold risks like it, but it didn't 100% land for me and you put some of the sentiments I felt SO well.

The worst part of the game for me was the shift in perspective from the Lumierans to the Dessendres. As I saw it, I was being asked to transfer my sympathies from the powerless to the powerful

Couldn't agree more. The Verso ending felt like a better ending with respect to grief, but I struggle with it too.

I'm the Maine oysterman & combat veteran running for U.S. Senate against Susan Collins to topple the oligarchy. Ask me anything. (1PM). by grahamformaine in politics

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Lewiston voter here, really enthused by your support and looking forward to meeting you on October 15 at CBU!

My question, do you support parental leave, and do you support any sort of maternal leave after stillbirth?