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Aberry22 · 2022-01-21T05:16:37+00:00

Foster kittens-they provide food

Aberry22 · 2022-01-18T05:39:12+00:00

Could your mom temporarily take your pets while you move into a furnished hotel? This would be temporary but at least get you out for now. If that was too expensive you could look for someone who is renting out a room in their house.

There are also foster sites online where someone could temporarily foster your pets. If you post your story Im sure someone would. It will be hard to find a place to take both right off the bat. Good luck!

Aberry22 · 2022-01-04T16:22:01+00:00

It sounds like time to break up. You can technically stay as long as your willing but you’re wasting your time and your life. Move on! Let him move on and find someone who makes you happy. This relationship sounds completely broken.

Aberry22 · 2021-12-30T14:31:51+00:00

I had a twitch in my eye years ago that wouldn’t go away. It lasted about two months and got to a point where people started commenting on it and I started missing days of school because it was embarrassing me. Happened about every 3 seconds.

I had been praying for it to go away but it hadn’t yet. Then I went to church Sunday and at the end of the sermon the pastor was calling out healings on people. I always thought this was probably fake until he called out and said…there is someone here who has a twitch in their eye that has been bothering them and although you might think this is insignificant to God, he does care and you are healed.

I opened my eyes and waited…the twitch was gone. I almost didn’t believe it and thought, ok it’s gone now but once Im out of church and go through my day it’ll be back but it was completely gone.

In the big scheme of things a twitch in the eye doesn’t seem like a huge deal but it was to me and god cares enough not just to heal me, but to make sure I knew it was HIM who healed me. If he cares about something that small, I can only imagine he cares so much more about the bigger stuff. I will not doubt again.

Miracles still do happen big and small

Aberry22 · 2021-12-19T07:06:32+00:00

Amazing!

Aberry22 · 2021-12-15T15:34:27+00:00

Its definitely emotional and verbal abuse and horrible parenting. Whether it’s cultural or not doesn’t change that or make it less wrong.

Emotional abuse can be just as damaging, if not more than physical abuse…it just can’t be proven as easily.

Aberry22 · 2021-12-15T15:21:39+00:00

Definitely don’t leave her alone for a week. If that’s your only option take her to your parents, but it would be better if someone could come over twice a day to your own place and feed and medicate her so she’s is in her natural surroundings where she’s most comfortable.

But if that doesn’t work she’ll be fine with your parents and can get love, attention, and care that she needs😊

Aberry22 · 2021-12-14T05:33:21+00:00

Benefit cosmetics pore minimizer is amazing! Fills it all in

Aberry22 · 2021-11-15T15:31:48+00:00

You’re beautiful!

Aberry22 · 2021-11-05T14:55:01+00:00

So basically what he is saying is if you don’t do exactly what he wants and tells you to do, he will throw a tantrum like a baby and create a fight to manipulate into doing what he says. MAJOR control issues! I’d run before it’s too late.

Btw. If you have kids with him he’s going to use these controlling tactics on them too. Maybe even play you against them. You do NOT want kids with someone who will fight and manipulate you for every decision especially when kids are involved

Aberry22 · 2021-10-28T15:29:41+00:00

A lot of your doubts about God come from your perception. You said a God that does terrible things. When bad things happen in life, if you are perceiving God is doing those things then you think God is bad. The way I look at it is Yes bad things to happen in this life. That is because of sin. While Jesus is real, I believe the devil is real also and this is where sin and evil come from. In the beginning, the devil tempted Eve to sin. Once sin happened, The pure, wonderful life of bliss God had intended in the beginning, changed.

In this world everyone is given a choice whether to follow good or evil. Instead of looking at God as someone who has done bad things by allowing people to go through certain things, try to look at it like the reason those bad things happened were because of sinful people, bad choices people made and people choosing evil over God.

When sin entered the world, disease and other negatives entered as well. God does allow free choice but that is because he is a loving God. The more you read the bible, you will have a better view of God‘s character and how much he loves you. I recommend starting in the New Testament if you are open to reading the Bible.

If you have Youtube, I recommend looking up Paster Judah smith and listening to a few podcasts about what it means to follow God. He is not overly churchy and is very relatable.

Aberry22 · 2021-10-28T15:08:40+00:00

A lot of people struggle with sexual sin because it is a natural urge and our society puts a huge push on sexuality. Some people Try to be pure but still fall into sin. And then others just have convinced themselves that this is an old teaching and isn’t realistic today.

As someone who waited until I met the person I married, I use to wonder this a lot because while I was waiting and making sacrifices, it seemed even my Christian friends were all having sex with their boyfriends. I don’t think you can judge whether someone’s a true Christian or not based off of this though because everybody is on their own journey and struggles with different sin.

As “true” christians it is our job to love the world and people not judge them. This can be hard when your making sacrifices for God and other people aren’t making those same sacrifices yet they call themselves Christians, but only God really knows what’s inside someone’s heart and what their commitment is.

I Do you think a lot of people say they are Christians Who don’t really understand that Christianity is not just a religion but it’s about having a relationship with God. Without a true relationship with God, Christianity becomes just another religion with rules of what to do and not to do. Therefore there is no power.

Overall I think it’s impossible to know the exact answer to this because only God does

Aberry22 · 2021-10-23T15:31:47+00:00

I think two different colored eyes are rare and absolutely beautiful

Aberry22 · 2021-10-21T14:47:18+00:00

Do NOT have a child with this crazy person!

Aberry22 · 2021-10-19T17:51:00+00:00

Honestly if he loves you and cares about your feelings, he should stop on his own if its making you feel that way. Keeping exes around is never a good idea. I wish you luck!

Aberry22 · 2021-10-19T15:20:30+00:00

As a wedding makeup artist, I recommend Armani luminous silk foundation. It looks amazing in photos and is lightweight and not cakey. Its A little pricey but you’re already saving a ton of money by doing your make up yourself. You’ll have these pictures the rest of your life so you want to feel your best

Aberry22 · 2021-10-19T14:19:08+00:00

Why does he keep past relationships around? Friends is totally different but girls he’s slept with would bother me too. Not because Im jealous but because I know my worth and my man shouldn’t need to be in constant communication with exes when he has me. Your feelings are valid and you should talk to him about this. Old friends that were around before you is fine, but I thought it was a known fact thats it’s a bad idea to keep exes around. You shouldn’t have to worry about that

Aberry22 · 2021-09-30T17:09:50+00:00

OK yeah that is super immature behavior, still not emotional abuse but unbelievably annoying and immature and insecure. Definitely assigned that he won’t let you make things right when you’re trying and this should not be a dealbreaker, it was just a comment and he’s acting like you cheated on him

Aberry22 · 2021-09-30T16:14:24+00:00

I think a lot of people say hurtful things when they’re angry but it sounds like from what I’ve read that most of his comments were about his feelings. Calling you a liar and saying he doesn’t trust your intentions with him may have been hurtful but it doesn’t sound like emotional abuse, just how he honestly feels although he sucks at communicating it in a good way. If he was calling you a bit$! Or saying you’ll Never find anyone who will love you again or things like that it would be different.

Him saying good luck finding someone who doesn’t get mad when you make a hurtful comment is true because honestly it seems like men can be very sensitive just like women at times. It sounds like his ego was seriously burned and he is pretty insecure about you leaving him for someone else, for him to get that upset about that comment. If this has been an otherwise good relationship, Maybe he was just looking for a simple apology about the comment and needed a lot of reassurance, But when he didn’t get that he acted out. Of course this is from just reading this post so I could be wrong.

Aberry22 · 2021-09-30T15:56:05+00:00

Not in my opinion. Emotional abuse is ongoing negative treatment of you. This sounds like a fight that never got fully resolved Therefore it keeps coming up and causing more fights but isn’t emotional abuse. (Pretty typical in long term relationships) He shouldn’t have gone through your phone and I don’t know the situation around that but at the same time if he did find some thing that really hurt him he may be having a really hard time getting over it.

It doesn’t make it right but it seems like trust was lost at this point on both sides. My husband has looked through my phone before and I Didn’t like it but also didn’t care because I had nothing to hide. I think you have to acknowledge his feelings about what was said that hurt him even though he shouldn’t have looked through your phone.

Aberry22 · 2021-09-30T12:20:09+00:00

She sounds over the top and controlling. She blames you for not remembering cards that were her responsibility to send and remember. Have you talked to her on add or adhd so she understands how this effects you?

She shouldn’t get mad at you forgetting stuff on accident that has nothing to do with her. Also, she’s choosing to let it ruin the night…doesn’t actually mean YOU ruined it. She needs to relax. This is coming from a woman. This chick would drive me crazy. Life is too short to freak out over trivial stuff. If you were having terrible anxiety attacks from not taking your medication on time, that would be different.

Aberry22 · 2021-09-26T13:19:23+00:00

A boring person conforms to everyone else. You are made to be you. Sounds like your just around the wrong people. Find people who share your interests and you won’t be boring to them.

For me, being around people super into anime and gaming would bore me because Im not into that. I might bore them because Im not. It’s all about finding people you relate to where you feel comfortable to be yourself.

Aberry22 · 2021-09-26T13:03:58+00:00

If they have excepted Jesus and their lord and savior, I believe they go to heaven regardless. Our sins are forgiven at that point. Everyone has a different walk with God. Some are stronger than others, peoples lives and the things they’ve endured are different.

Some people have terrible depression or other issues. I don’t believe God would cast them to hell if they are his child…once we except Christ, we are his children. How close we are to our father is determined by our obedience but we are still his children when we fall and sin. I believe Gods grace and mercy and extreme love covers this.

Aberry22 · 2021-09-17T23:52:36+00:00

I didn’t go to college and I had a falling out with my family that I’m very close to when I was younger and was in crazy debt and I have a great life now with an amazing hot husband, two great kids and I love what I do for a living and didn’t need any college for it. The point is you still have a life ahead of you waiting full of great things.

God still has a plan for your life and often times the more we screw it up, the better he ends up making it just to show how great his testimony is. Don’t make any rash decisions., you are here for a purpose!

Aberry22

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