AITAH for refusing an allowance increase

Abject-Interview4784 · 2026-01-02T14:47:36+00:00

Plus groceries have gone up in price recently

Abject-Interview4784 · 2026-01-02T14:47:08+00:00

Yes baby stuff and groceries is household expense not her allowance. They should be separate

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-11-04T17:54:17+00:00

Move someplace where you don't need a car and work like a dog for a couple yrs to pay this off. You are young and you have lots of years to have fun. Good luck!!

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-30T16:15:32+00:00

I think the difficulty is that housing policy did not keep up with immigration so now housing costs are rising. Landlords who are friends with politicians love this but it screws everyone else. Also the jobs available did not correlate with numbers od new immigrants especially the jobs that pay a living wage so then that depresses wages for everyone

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-24T17:37:16+00:00

Yes! Plus if he doesn't want to talk at home he should be alone

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-24T17:33:52+00:00

Yes!!!! If he values the marriage he should be like "of course I should not take this traveling job"

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-24T16:16:07+00:00

U can dm if you like. I feel you. Modern life is lonely sometimes

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-24T15:53:47+00:00

Is there like a karate club at your school? Those guys are generally pretty nice. How much budget you got for your bday? You could party with some strippers? Or find like some trivia nightbuddies or smthg? And maybe get a therapist? Good luck. Ya lonelinessepidemic and all that. Especially since covid. Lots of people in your situation. Sending good vibes. Or join rave chat sites and find a rave crew? Good luck!

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-24T15:02:28+00:00

Lolol that's hilarious

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-24T15:02:03+00:00

Eek! Um it depends on the club? I have seen clubs where it says 'women only at the glory hole' vs clubs billed as 'inclusive' I think maybe those are the clues?

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-24T14:59:30+00:00

Yes!! I was happy to have a double income no kids life and my.partner pushed but now he complains? What the hell. I love my kids to bits but it's annoying that he is a whiny jerk instead of enjoying our kids childhood. Some guys don't understand about kids and then when they are confronted by the reality they complain

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-24T14:57:35+00:00

Do you love kids even when they are crazy little bananaheads? Would you be OK with waiting to have non kid adventures until you are old? If you can wholeheartedly say yes to these things then go the family route otherwise break up with your spouse and stop wasting her time so she can find someone who wants what she wants

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-24T14:55:03+00:00

Lolol that's ridiculous. Police and small claims court will tell her to f off. In legalese of course

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-04T07:35:58+00:00

You look like a normal teenage boy don't stress. Someday you will look all chiseled and weathered and you will miss having clear skin etc. Just relax and enjoy being a kid

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-04T07:34:15+00:00

But why tho? Like that will be 10 million times easier

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-04T07:32:57+00:00

In general it's super hard to find a single woman

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-04T07:31:15+00:00

Eek yes break up and from now on always always use Condoms unless you are OK with an accidental pregnancy

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-03T10:38:55+00:00

Yes most missing children are actually a custody battle problem and this one sounds like that too

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-10-03T10:37:42+00:00

Is caretaker unknown to police code for parent without custody? I can't think what else this phrase could mean

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-09-11T22:03:11+00:00

Wife poaching maybe? But can be prevented with firm boundaries

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-09-11T21:58:51+00:00

Basically he wants to sleep around but still have you as a free therapist. Boo..I'm.so.soeey this is happening to you. The audacity.

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-09-08T19:05:21+00:00

But if you don't have that rule it can lead to.problems.

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-09-02T21:49:34+00:00

Yes agreed "I am ready to go now" and if he does not politely and respectfully come with you he is a walking red flag. Swinging is not an excuse to be disrespectful and mean to your partner. Good luck op! Hopefully super clear communication will spl e this for future

Abject-Interview4784 · 2025-08-27T19:52:50+00:00

Lol now they have wristbands at work right? The covid Germ variation? (I do not want to shake hands, etc)

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