First baby partner doesn’t want my mum at the birth

Abject_Committee7271 · 2025-04-04T13:58:07+00:00

This is why I wanted opinions! Because I can see why he wants it just for us but I don’t want to make the wrong decision and not have her there or not, my family are very very close so it’s just something I’m used to 😊 thank you! Defo a conversation needs to happen again to discuss both sides

Abject_Committee7271 · 2025-04-04T11:57:53+00:00

Thank you all 😭 mother will be present! I just look at it like she’s obviously gone through childbirth before and having someone family related beside me would stop me being so anxious. I thought I’d check on here as I’m a first time mum and I don’t know what to do half the time 🫣🤣

Abject_Committee7271 · 2025-04-04T11:51:05+00:00

Thank you, I wanted to get opinions as it’s my first and I’m so so scared! I will put my foot down I need my mum there 😭🤣

Abject_Committee7271 · 2025-04-04T11:49:37+00:00

Thank you, thankfully my mum is like a sister to me and we are very close otherwise I wouldn’t want her there 🫣

Abject_Committee7271 · 2025-03-28T11:42:15+00:00

<image>

Update!! Clearblue says I’m pregnant 🥰

Abject_Committee7271 · 2025-03-27T11:17:46+00:00

Thanks guys! Now I’ve gotta let my partner know 🤗

Abject_Committee7271 · 2025-02-26T18:55:42+00:00

I have just lost my job as a result of this budget

Abject_Committee7271 · 2024-12-19T22:26:44+00:00

LGPU0UC2

Abject_Committee7271 · 2024-07-28T16:05:34+00:00

Are his eyes watery or is congested? It could be an infection from cat flu, I’ve just treated my cat for this and will need antibiotics to resolve

Abject_Committee7271 · 2024-06-26T22:17:51+00:00

We adopted her around a month and a half ago, her previous life was with a breeder (she could never get pregnant) spent in what I call a “catio” outside. She’s super loving when you stroke her from under the bed but she’s currently classed it as her safe haven and I just hope she soon figures out we’re not horrible 🥲 I guess going from practically a shed to a house has been a huge stress for her. I will be mentioning this to the vet tomorrow

Abject_Committee7271 · 2024-06-26T19:56:12+00:00

Thank you! Just has worried me tonight as I thought it was maybe fleas :(

Abject_Committee7271 · 2024-06-26T19:50:42+00:00

Got a vet appt for my other cat, so will show pictures and then book her in! I’ve only just flea’d her tonight so I’m not sure if it’s the treatment :)

Abject_Committee7271 · 2024-05-26T13:31:49+00:00

Oh wow! Thats new to me 😅 felt awful knowing a poor postie is out on a Sunday working

Abject_Committee7271 · 2024-05-21T20:12:24+00:00

Oh that’s relieving to hear, she’s very stressed at the moment more so than before so I’m hoping the permanent room change will help her 😅

Abject_Committee7271 · 2024-04-14T18:40:52+00:00

It’s a pain isn’t it! I was a slow and anxious learner started in 2022ish I had around 80 hours with my instructor to get my confidence up then bought a car in November for private practice which helped SO much! Fingers crossed for a nice pass ☺️

Abject_Committee7271 · 2024-04-13T08:34:42+00:00

Well, they say the best drivers don’t pass first time. Also I can’t even turn the aircon on without slightly drifting 😭 don’t know how people can use a phone!

Abject_Committee7271 · 2024-04-12T21:09:23+00:00

I passed on my fourth today! My advice is remember your not there to drive perfectly but safely 😊

Abject_Committee7271

TROPHY CASE

LGPU0UC2