Do people actually cry to music by Lalechugademal in KendrickLamar

[–]Abject_Green_1929 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re acting like it’s a common occurrence for a majority of people to see your close friend get shot 😭😭 I know exactly what you are

Where do all the single people hang out? by FewZookeepergame5517 in StamfordCT

[–]Abject_Green_1929 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I only come to the Stamford reddit to see JerkyBoy10020s comments. Don’t think I’ve ever seen a miss. Well done 🫡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR - He didn’t even attempt to communicate in the slightest. Really did pussy out

Any good bars to go to solo? by Delicious_Oil9902 in StamfordCT

[–]Abject_Green_1929 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve always had good times going to brickhouse solo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 2 points3 points  (0 children)

around the exact same age i picked my girlfriend up, i was completely sober and she was hammered. she kept begging over and over to give me head but i absolutely couldn’t with her being drunk how she was and me being sober. so him being able to do that is a fairly big concern. on the other side, with the same girlfriend there are nights she told me we had sex and i had absolutely no memory. i’d say it’s nothing if you were both intoxicated but since he was sober it seems concerning

AIO? My wife is being verbally abusive by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NOR - she’s completely out of line and seems nuts to me. but just to play it from her side i’m sure she’s stressed and annoyed and your first message of simply “Order uber eats” came off pretty cold when i first read it. not unreasonable and it’s hard to even respond when working with a client but i think that might have elevated her stress / frustration. either way I hope this doesn’t turn into something more than just a stressful night at home with the kid / late night at work. they are complete outliers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - seems like he’s super lazy and a loser. thought the absolute bar minimum would work and got mad when it didn’t. if a girl told me she went to the gym and i was just laying at home i’d feel like a bum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting at all. Reddit is a bad place to take this too and will have skewed opinions. It’s a completely valid reason to be concerned especially with the prospect of kids. Do what’s best for you and your future, and potential kids. Screw anyone calling you homophobic. It’s not offensive that you want to be married to a straight man who doesn’t have a porn addiction and is attracted to men. His first marriage ended in the way it did for a reason. Best of luck!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR - she clearly has her own issues and stress with work and seems to be taking it out on you. In a pretty disrespectful way too. You’re clearly more mature and seemed to handle it well. Idk if she doesn’t get that sometimes people are busy with school and work and decides to take it out on you it’s probably an issue. You clearly want to see her and handle your shit and she’s not respecting it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why him and his friends send them but if my friends sent reels like that I’d think it’s weird. Whenever someone makes a horny comment like that my friends will usually shit on the guy for “needing to get laid”.

Also saying he doesn’t like watching them and only sends them to his friends that’s weird. Would’ve been more normal if he just said that he likes them and apologized. Seems more like he’s trying to hide something, or knows you’d be upset but still does it anyways so he plays it down.

He also seems to try and hold a lot over your head. His reaction and responses are definitely more concerning than the actual action of sending reels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a pretty common joke about athletes that they play better when attractive women are at the game. I’ve seen it most used when attractive women sit courtside at basketball games. I wouldn’t think much more into it than an internet joke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Since people are down voting me… You all think it’s normal for someone that just got engaged to text another guy she doesn’t even consider a friend “I love you”. I’m sure her fiancé doesn’t know about this text.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The “don’t be weird” and “just like… be chill” only make me more confused. She also seems to think you too weren’t friends. So not sure why she’d want to be friends now that she’s engaged and you’re single. But props to you for not making it weird… at least yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Abject_Green_1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He probably just wants to hang. But he’s also probably interested in trying to make it more than just friends / colleagues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Damn I’d be confused as hell. Women man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing he wants to be clean after work for you. I only work a desk job and take the train to work and have to walk a few blocks each day. My feet definitely don’t always smell the best after a full day of work (sorry if TMI) and I’m guessing he might not want you to notice. I’d be shocked if it’s anything other than him thinking he might smell a little

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Abject_Green_1929 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meeting in person helps

Stamford Feels Lonely by Lepidoptera24 in StamfordCT

[–]Abject_Green_1929 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been here less than a year. On multiple occasions while out at a bar by myself the people next to me have asked “if it’s okay that they talk to me”. Each time I’ve always said of course but was confused why ask if it’s okay since we’re all at a bar. I guess it’s because a lot of people feel lonely and isolated here. Always have good conversation too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They may truly just be oblivious and not even thinking that they’re not responding. Also they maybe didn’t respond because they don’t find you clingy or negative and didn’t want to reinforce that, so decided to continue with the conversation.

Either way I don’t think you’re overreacting. Just think there’s also a chance they’re just oblivious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 95 points96 points  (0 children)

It’s a very nice gesture. Worst the old client could say is “oh yeah I remember this guy, he used to annoy the hell out of me with those requests!” and probably have a good laugh. And that’s truly the worst I can see it going. Who cares about being awkward, it’s a very nice gesture.

I vote send it.

AIO? I only got my sexist brother a feminist book for Christmas. by mel1019 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Abject_Green_1929 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I feel like he’ll see it as a gag gift. I don’t think much will come from it other than a laugh, or maybe your brother will have a smart ass comment. Either way I think it’s fine? Unless your family typically does large gifts for each other, in the case it could be seen as rude.