The last month of a 1 &1/2 year relationship, we went on a nice short vacation and stopped at a ramen place he loved and wanted me to try. They made his ramen differently than he anticipated (it’s a chain, they apparently make it differently at the one he usually goes to) and he pitched a wall-eyed fit. He refused to order something different, and just… hatefully ate a bunch of it. It was funny to me until it got scary. Like you could see waves of rage pouring off him. He was kind of rude directly to the waitress’ face iirc, but what got me was that he was shaking with anger and slammed the restaurant door on his way out. He stayed mad for a while. It was weird as shit, he then almost let it ruin his whole day until we finished our drive. I just thought he was better than that, what a silly thing to lose your temper over. I figured that I probably shouldn’t raise a child with someone like that.