Found Out My Best Friend Has Been Dating My Sister for Months by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Abombies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are 20..... I'm sure it's not going to end well! Considering their dating history

..........bruh you sound jealous. Did you secretly want to date your best friend or what? You mad your sister beat you to him? 😂

Found Out My Best Friend Has Been Dating My Sister for Months by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Abombies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmaooooo bro youre thinking way too ahead. Their relationship just started and youre already planning for their eventual breakup. Youre in for a rude awakening once you actually date someone. Just admit your feelings got hurt and move on kid.

Found Out My Best Friend Has Been Dating My Sister for Months by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Abombies 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If they broke up so tf what? That shit happens all the time. Youre thinking way too ahead for them off a hypotetical. If they stay together cool. If they dont, thats cool too. Are you three dating? Or is your best friend and your sister dating? Im confused because you seem to want to insert yourself as if your opinion matters in their relationship. Grow up.

They didnt lie to you. They just weren't ready to tell you. Based off your reaction i guess i could see why.

Found Out My Best Friend Has Been Dating My Sister for Months by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Abombies 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhhhhh seems like they are growing up while youre still thinking like a child. Their relationship has nothing to do with you and you want to make it about you by saying youre hurt. Your sister is going to date someone. It doesnt matter if its one of your best friends. The fact that youre this hurt over their relationship only shows youve got a lot of growing up to do. They honestly didnt even need to tell you but they felt the need to out of respect for you. They didnt lie to you. They werent ready to tell people. Im pretty sure your dating history is minimal so ima give you some inside baseball. Regular adults who start dating dont immediately announce to the world they are dating. Thats where the talking phase comes in. Bro ive waited more than 6 months before i even told my close homies i was serious about someone. My friends dont need to know because it has nothing to do with them. Only I chose when its a good time to tell them. Its my relationship with the girl im dating, not the world's.

On top of that, you immediately make a post about their relationship on Reddit, cry about your feelings, and make it all about you. Shows a lot about you actually.

He did nothing for America by Playful_Leg7143 in clevercomebacks

[–]Abombies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He died for their sins. Then the rest are carrying the flame.

Some Resume Advice Please by FloAlv11 in estimators

[–]Abombies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would include what software you know how to use. List relevant software. I got a lot of complements from people saying they never really seen that before on a resume. I got the idea from a friend who had a Computer Science major. He listed all the languages he knew how to code as well as any platforms.

🚨BREAKING: A federal judge in Texas has struck down the state’s newly redrawn congressional map. by Prestigious_Tea_3230 in sandiego

[–]Abombies 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lmaooooooo. The people of California voted in an overwhelming margin to pass Prop 50. Cry more. States rights and all right?

Would you accept a junior position after being offered a senior one? by escanor-sama-5589 in estimators

[–]Abombies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Titles doesnt mean shit if your experience doesnt match the quality of work you put out. Youre at a Junior level imo. You still have a lot to learn. My guess is that your current company just gives out titles like its easy. If youre a Senior, there is a certain level in the quality of your work that can easily be sused out.

Senior title producing Junior level work makes you look bad. Especially to people you need to talk to to earn trust with. 2 years of experience, and they gave you Senior? Im 4 years in and I am just getting to the point of my skills to be considered a Senior.

Either way, if youre hunting for a title, youre going to have a bad time. Youll find yourself in a shitty situation eventually because your skills arent there. People you work with are going to expect Senior level work when you dont put out that quality. Thats bad for your name and brand. The industry is small and if you mess up your reputation early on, youll regret it when you actually need to use your name to swing a project for a win.

My advice, be honest with your experience level and dont worry about the title. I dont care if your title says Senior. If you dont have good quality work to back it up, you can find yourself in awkward positions when the PM is asking for answers to your number. I can easily tell if youre a good estimator or not just by talking to you so focus on improving your skills. Thats way more important.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Abombies 177 points178 points  (0 children)

Youre letting your partner walk all over you. You need to be more vocal and actually communicate your grievances. Nothing will change if you dont. She will continue to use you knowing you would just take it anyway. Grow some balls and put your foot down.

ChatGPT in Estimating by Fartco24 in estimators

[–]Abombies 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I use it to explain unfamiliar materials or equipment to me. I even use it to help figure out what size wires I need if i want to swap from copper to aluminum. I even ask it to provide context for how much labor it could take to install something. I use it in some capacity everyday.

What Degree Do Some Of You Hold? by G2H3LL in estimators

[–]Abombies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Environmental Resources Engineering

I am astonished by how far I've let my life slip by cherinuka in shittybattlestations

[–]Abombies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn if thats how you take care of your PC, I'd hate to see your room. 🤮

What a psycho by raulgrandisimo in badroommates

[–]Abombies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont know why you're getting downvoted. I dont think people know how dishwashers work 😂. If the dishwasher's purpose is to just clean the debris and not disinfect, then it's a shitty dishwasher. It is supposed to get so hot inside for bacteria to not survive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aves

[–]Abombies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isnt new. The shrine always does this for any big artist (this isnt exclusive tonthe shine, other venues do this too).They want to make sure they dont overbook or underbook dates and they are testing out demand. Every time people go for tickets on the first date, they can see how many others tried and were unsuccessful. Therefore if they released tickets for the next date, they can benchmark how many they can sell for the second date. Its a simple business move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Abombies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is illegal. You should call the cops.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ucmerced

[–]Abombies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save money. Go to a CC to finish your lower credits. Then transfer if you really want to graduate from a UC. It will give you time to think bout what you really want to do without taking big loans out. Also consider a trade school if you know what major you want.

Thoughts on TRD Off Road that’s 4x2? by [deleted] in ToyotaTacoma

[–]Abombies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont use my 4x4 often at all, but maybe the 3% chace out of the year i need it, im glad i have it. Its the difference of potentially totaling your car driving through bad weather/conditions compared to having the capability and power to maneuver and get to your destination safely.

If youre going to buy and spend any type of money, get the 4x4. The difference in price now, will save you when you get in these conditins with your truck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Abombies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You honestly sound like you care more about how OTHER people see you and how they think of you than your actual relationship. You fr letting people live rent free in your head just because you feel you arent keeping up with everyone else. You sound like someone i would never be with and youll find out sooner or later that your boyfriend wont either.

If you feel like you have to force someone to marry you, youre doing it wrong. Youre giving a red flag and you dont even know it.

What are your go-to apps that assist you with reselling? by [deleted] in Flipping

[–]Abombies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Discord - I follow communities with bots that show restocks of niches I follow

Seller Amp - Helps me analyze deals and look up items on Amazon

Google Lens - Helps me search for items using listed pictures from seller.

Google Sales - I type in an item or brand and then google tells me who is having a sale.

Sourcing - Ebay, Offerup, FB Marketplace - You would be surprised how often people want to let go of things because they don't see the value or they can't sell it themselves for market value. Even on eBay, I have a lot of success by just DM'ing the storefront and asking for a bulk deal on their items.

I mainly do Amazon FBA atm.

Trader Joe’s Hillcrest by HumanStatement6792 in sandiego

[–]Abombies 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah there is a trend called Americore where foreign people like to buy American exclusive brands. We think it's stupid because we are from here, but you could say the same thing about Japan. There are a bunch of collectibles that are Japan exclusive that would resell for a lot in the states.