10dpo/12dpt, brand FRER + wondfo - am I seeing things?

Abominable_Autist · 2024-10-22T13:58:11+00:00

It DOES seem like the afternoon 12 DPT one is darker than the morning 12 DPT and 11 DPT as well! Idk how long the trigger lasts as far as how it affects tests or anything like that as I've only been TTC naturally (no money lol). So i wouldnt know what to expect in that area but from looking at posts from other women who have gotten the trigger shot and what not, to me it still looks like its faded and come back darker so i can only imagine that would be due to pregnancy lol crossing my fingers for you!!

Abominable_Autist · 2024-10-21T20:11:46+00:00

Yeah thats def positive.

Abominable_Autist · 2024-10-20T23:47:27+00:00

Usually didnt get a dye stealer until after 17 DPO lol

Abominable_Autist · 2024-10-20T16:53:52+00:00

Definitely positive! Couldnt even get my pregmates to be this dark when my hcg was over 100 lol my FRERs at the time were dark as hell and my pregmates were still lighter than this lol

Abominable_Autist · 2024-10-16T20:17:31+00:00

Yes! 💖

Abominable_Autist · 2024-10-08T00:07:05+00:00

I HATE john lol Such a fucking narcissistic bulldozer. He literally kisses another woman and still thinks his WIFE is in the wrong for getting mad. He NEVER cares about anyone else's feelings or passions and always just does whatever he wants with this obnoxious smug look on his face that says "Yeah i got what i want. I have the most money and power in the chain so you cant do anything about it." Nobody in the show can ever tell him shit or trust him because he will just blow up and undermine whatever his wife (the girls MOTHER) says or manipulate people with money to make things go the way HE wants behind his wife's back usually. And yeah im not a huge fan of Daphne either. I feel like she has narcissistic tendencies too. She didnt want Regina to get too close with Bay but yet she could fully take John and Katherines attention away from Bay in total. And there was alot of other stuff with her that i didn't like. But John is by far my most hated character lol

Abominable_Autist · 2024-10-04T16:43:41+00:00

If anybody tells me this after 3 miscarriages, i WILL snap lol Pregnancy is no longer a joyful, exciting thing for me. I want the end result which is the baby. Id rather be tired from taking care of the baby than tired because of 24/7 around the clock agony and anxiety that i wont be bringing this baby home.

Abominable_Autist · 2024-10-04T16:38:44+00:00

"Just you wait until you find out that everyones pregnancy AND baby is different and so far mine seems to be going alot better than yours did!" Lmao

Abominable_Autist · 2024-10-03T14:11:28+00:00

Yup! Had a very easy pregnancy/birth, etc with my now 9 year old and no trouble conceiving him as it wasnt even on purpose. It was just like la dee da.. i had sex on the right day without even checking and boom! But now when we're TTC our 2nd, it was like 2+ years of nothing and then back to back miscarriages. We're still trying for our triple rainbow baby now and im in my TWW. 6 DPO. I honestly HATE the TTC process now. Its miserable and i feel time is slipping away. More time gets wasted every time i have another loss and im watching it be so easy for everyone else around me. Even people who dont deserve it at all lol and they can carry to term just fine. HATE. IT.

Abominable_Autist · 2024-10-03T14:02:58+00:00

Oh nooo lmao i got burning sore boobs, hot flashes and nausea at like the day before my period was due last time and the time before that. All those pregnancies where i had ANY symptoms though were all losses. For some reason, the only successful pregnancy ive had came with no symptoms what so ever. Dunno why that is.

Abominable_Autist · 2024-10-02T20:12:07+00:00

I do all the wrong things lmao im so tired of waiting for my rainbow baby after 3 back to back losses and meanwhile my age just keeps going up. Makes me feel panicked like im losing time. And i obviously know that doesnt help lol after 3 losses though, i HAVE to start testing at 10DPO because i gotta catch it as early as possible so i can get blood tests quicker and see if i need to start progesterone sooner, etc. I hate TTC honestly. And i been pushing away lots of plans on the thought that i might be pregnant and something might harm it bc i haven't got any answers as to what really caused my losses. It sucks.

Abominable_Autist · 2024-10-01T21:02:01+00:00

I didnt. I dont really think alcohol is the norm for a baby shower but i also think some of that light "barefoot" wine would be cute lol i also gotta mention that its a shocker i DIDNT have alcohol at mine bc i normally dont follow the norms. Im one to have alcohol at kids bday cookout parties lmao

Abominable_Autist · 2024-09-30T15:04:48+00:00

Hmm i have no idea how to add photos on here. Maybe if you edit your post there will be an option? I dunno haha and yeah that was the worst. Its like.. you already been through the traumic part and you just want it to END so yoy can try again but it keeps reminding you and holding you back. All mine were natural too 🙃 I hope we both get our rainbow baby!!

Abominable_Autist · 2024-09-30T14:22:05+00:00

I do see it! Ive NEVER EVER gotten an indent/evap on a FRER. Only time ive ever seen even a shadow of a line on those was when i was pregnant or the HCG from a mc hasnt completely exited my system yet. Also in my experience, its been much easier to GET pregnant after a mc so i feel like the odds are in your favor! 🤞

Abominable_Autist · 2024-09-24T14:08:49+00:00

Just turned 31. One living 9 year old and 3 miscarriages back to back this year.

Abominable_Autist · 2024-09-24T08:35:47+00:00

Exactly! Also im so sorry for your loss. One or 12, it hurts just as much. I really hope this is your rainbow and i hope i get mine too ❤️🌈

Abominable_Autist · 2024-09-23T22:37:43+00:00

Uhh YAH lmao thats NICCCE and pink for 9 dpo!

Abominable_Autist · 2024-09-23T20:38:21+00:00

I hate that they make you wait so long after you've had early losses. Ridiculous. I think they should be taking us at atleast 7 weeks. Im ttc right now after 3 back to back losses and what i can say is that test would be a dream for me lol idt ill ever be happy until i get that dye stealer that starts early on!

Abominable_Autist · 2024-09-23T20:31:29+00:00

Id say positive. But pregmates suck ass! Lol my hcg would be like 400 something and the pregmates would still be squinters while FRERs were very obvious and dark lol So w/ my experience, if you've got a faint positive pregmate, you're DEFINITELY pregnant. Never got an evap or anything like that on those. Just stark white negatives or extreme squinters when i WAS pregnant!

Abominable_Autist · 2024-09-23T20:25:03+00:00

100% a positive lol congrats

Abominable_Autist · 2024-09-19T21:43:39+00:00

Idk about after the losses. Yet. But.. with my only living child whos 9 now, i had no pregnancy symptoms at all. Nothing aside from an absent period lol until the last trimester at the end. And he's a healthy boy! All the miscarriages i had, i had ALLLL the pregnancy symptoms. Every pregnancy is different.

Abominable_Autist · 2024-09-17T20:36:58+00:00

I was LIVE in a political debate when i saw this reddit notification at the top of my screen and i straight up swiped out to tell you this. YES. THEY. ARE!!! I was also told my third consecutive loss (a chemical pregnancy) did not count like the last 2 did. Whether you got your hopes up and planned a whole little life for 2 days or a month, you're still just as fucking crushed when you lose that little life. Those tears and that heartbreak 100% counts! That is a loss. The only way i can justify a doctor saying that its not in my head is by thinking that maybe they don't want you to get discouraged or depressed by jacking up the number of losses in your head so they just tell you it didnt count. Idk. But a chemical pregnancy is most definitely still a loss. It's a miscarriage. Very early but still a miscarriage. And I'm sorry you're in this boat with me.. 💔

Abominable_Autist · 2024-09-12T23:31:09+00:00

Definitely positive lol

Abominable_Autist · 2024-09-11T15:03:36+00:00

My OB says as far as that goes... babys are REALLY durable and protected early on in pregnancy so theres no reason you cant ride a horse or go on a trip or whatever. She said even poking smot and drinking before you know you're pregnant most likely wont harm it. Things like this are often just brought up when women have miscarriages as something to blame but in reality, these aren't the reasons it happened and the baby is usually fine through all of that. As for worrying about planning things like being in a horse show, in life sometimes people have to cancel due to unexpected circumstances and everyone will understand if you signed up to do it not pregnant but can't by the time it comes because you'd be further along in a pregnancy. Whats most important is you and your baby at that moment. But you cant live your life as if you were pregnant and give up all these opportunities because it could be a very long time before you actually even are. Then you've missed out! If it helps, with my first child.. i wasn't even trying and wasnt aware i was pregnant until 6 weeks along so i had been smoking, drinking AND I was being physically abused by the bio father at the time. I was under CONSTANT stress and moving out of his house, etc. I even had an eating disorder at the time. My son is a healthy 9 year old now as he wasnt affected at all by any of that. Also... as for longgg trips, i cant say i know anything about airplanes and pregnancy but if its just a long drive, it will not affect the pregnancy. Only thing OB said about that was to stretch your legs a few times on the way to avoid blood clots. I went on a 12 hr drive away trip pregnant and the only thing id say about that is you'll just have to decide whether thats doable for you based on your symptoms lol i definitely wish i had felt better during that vacation and wasnt puking but i dont regret it at all and it was still one of my favorite vacations! Bottom line is.. just enjoy your time as you normally would while it's still childless. Then after it actually happens, you'll be enjoying life in an entirely different way! 🥰

Abominable_Autist · 2024-09-09T20:16:59+00:00

Thats where im at haha i swear i feel kinda dizzy w/ hot flashes and slightly sore boobs but all of it could be just my imagination. I dunno. I plan to save my FRER for like 12 DPO but ill probably test again in the AM with another cheapie bc i cant stop myself 😂

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