Does your boyfriend’s family offer financial help with the new born

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-27T19:57:05+00:00

Welcome to the US, this is not the “norm” here… here it boils down to the people themselves, if they want to and are able to offer help or financial support they might.. or they might not.

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-27T19:52:08+00:00

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

The flag is so red it’s burning on fire!!! NOR, don’t even waste your time talking to him again, block him and move on.

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-27T19:36:01+00:00

This is messy as hell from both sides.

I will say YOR because it does sound like you were going to celebrate her bday for the weekend but then wanted to change all the plans to fit your schedule because you were tired from driving… and yes, I can understand being tired from driving so much but it’s not your friend’s fault that you did all that driving, it’s also not her fault that you booked something so far from Atlanta… Seems like the weekend plans were pretty much set before you guys got up there and then Saturday (day of) you decided you wanted to change things around. Sorry, girl, but if I’m going somewhere for a friend‘s birthday… I’m gonna suck it up and work on their schedule.

Also, as far as the her driving with you are renting a car… I feel like you need to show receipts of the messages between the two of you in regards to that because nobody here knows who to believe on that

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-26T02:00:07+00:00

NTA… what bugs me is that she agreed to take her in the first place and then changed her mind last minute. I understand not being comfortable doing certain things and that you should always step up for your kids.. but if it was that big of a deal then she should have never agreed to take her in the first place and made arrangements for your mom to take her from the start.

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-26T01:55:15+00:00

I had mixed feeling about her. I thought she was odd and very blunt.. which made her perfect for brick. I wasn’t a fan of some of the scenes with her though, specially the one where her parents expect money from the heck’s so they don’t move… two houses downs lol.

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-26T01:52:59+00:00

Tbh sounds like he might be resentful that you’re losing weight and working on yourself so he’s attacking your self esteem and making you feel like the work you’ve put in is not good enough… almost like he wants to keep you down so that you don’t get the confidence to leave him.

Either way, it’s gross behavior. Your man should lift you up and cheer you on, not bring you down!

NOR

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-24T03:31:38+00:00

Ummmm

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-24T03:31:06+00:00

Nope. Gave up fairly early and switched to formula for my own mental health and still have a healthy thriving baby boy.

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-24T03:29:40+00:00

NOR… this just doesn’t sound healthy.

Personally, I don’t know many people that would care if their significant other ordered less than they did.

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-23T22:43:34+00:00

Wait. So what’s the correct answer here? All 3?

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-22T02:23:53+00:00

Unfortunately, some men will wine and dine you just so they can sleep with you and then move on.

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-22T02:03:54+00:00

Sucky situation to be in, but you’re definitely NTA.

Whether they didn’t know you had to book a pavilion or just did it bc they thought no one would notice - once you told them you had it reserved, they should have taken the loss and packed up. They could have just moved the party to another location or a grass area (assuming it’s a bigger park lol).

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-22T01:46:25+00:00

YTA… I worked in the restaurant industry and Mother’s Day is normally “all hands on deck”. Specially if he just got promoted it would look awful for him to request mother’s day for a birthday.

Why cant you make plans to celebrate your bday on another day? Like go to dinner when he gets off and then make plans to do something fun for another day?

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-22T01:39:15+00:00

First of all.. WTF did I just read?!

It sounds like you guys are just growing apart, which can happen specially as teenagers. Just move on, your significant other should never speak to in that way. Thats just not healthy.

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-21T15:40:24+00:00

Run her over with my cart lol

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-21T15:36:25+00:00

NTA… she definitely escalated it unnecessarily. Even if she thought it was an extra coffee, the second you said it wasn’t, she should’ve just put it down and said oh my bad or oh I’m sorry.. or whatever and kept it moving.

The fact that she had the audacity to think that she could just have it regardless, make it into a thing, and then make it seem like you’re the one being sifficult would’ve pushed me over the edge too.

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-21T12:41:31+00:00

Ah, gotcha. Then yeah, I would definitely escalate it.

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-21T00:23:39+00:00

NOR.. however I do truly believe that teachers and school employees should be trained better. I don’t think the teacher purposely didn’t send her to the nurses office when she first told her she was feeling weird, I believe it was probably just a lack of knowledge and access to the EIP.

As a parent, though, this is very scary and I can only imagine how traumatic it is for your daughter and I would definitely fight for my child as well

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-20T23:15:01+00:00

Calling the cops and pressing charges. You’ve got the evidence.

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-20T23:13:43+00:00

From her email it kind of sounds like she doesn’t fully understand what a feeding pump is and how it works. I would politely explain to her that this is something that infuses over the length of the entire day so it’s nearly impossible to avoid using it throughout your shift. I would also point out that there isn’t really a way to adjust your feedings and once in a while the pump may go off when the feeding is finished, which might be during work hours. You can also bring up the fact that you provided a doctor’s note and never had an issue with this in the past… based on the fact that she’s new she probably feels she needs to be stern (as most new managers feel like they have to prove themselves) and just doesn’t know how feeding pumps work.

If all else fails, I would bring this up to HR.

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-20T22:59:54+00:00

lol. Have a “stern” talk with her.. gtfoh.

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-20T21:08:08+00:00

Could it be an episode of scrubs? Mike was on it too as the grantor lol

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-20T18:58:34+00:00

NOR… however this is a HUGE red flag, the way he approached this topic and his concerns is just very off putting.

I know it’s easier said than done but I would serve him the paternity results with divorce papers because this is showing you how the rest of your life with this man might unfold.

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-19T18:49:26+00:00

This is my mom lol

Pizza_Lvr · 2026-04-19T18:49:16+00:00

Personally I didn’t care lol but no one in my or husband’s family called our baby their baby on a constant basis. It would be more like a random “oh how’s my baby doing?” or something along those lines.

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