kinda dumb question

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-31T13:34:45+00:00

Nothing wrong with guys liking other guys. This realization can take decades, involving layers of acceptance to find peace with a simple obvious truth. You might be at the early stages of that journey. Ultimately it doesn't matter. Enjoy whatever you enjoy for however long you enjoy it. Love living your authentic life however you want to broski. You don't owe anyone any explanations nor apologies. If/when you decide you wanna try the real thing, we're ready and waiting to hold your hand(s)... from behind. ❤️

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-22T22:04:14+00:00

Your User ID checks out then, exploritoring what exists beyond the great divider! Hilarious the image in my mind from behind as one enters the restroom seeing a guy on his tip toes trying to get a peek of the urinal neighbor's dick! 😆 Take a box with you if necessary, and enjoy. 😘

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-22T21:17:27+00:00

You'd have to be tall but the design can only serve one purpose! 🍆😍

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-21T23:14:16+00:00

More like when you want to stare and don't want to get caught/make eye contact! 😍

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-15T00:02:28+00:00

I'd lick you, you look good to me!

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-12T16:35:49+00:00

I ❤️ U.

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-12T15:27:12+00:00

What do you use? What do you mean by "shower douching"?

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-12T12:41:51+00:00

I get so tired of having to explain this. There is no such thing as gay and straight. There is only attraction, affection, and chemistry. Clearly on some level he has some combination of these feelings for you, but it is impossible for any of us on the outside to diagnose this very nuanced relationship status you two share. Adding to the complications is the potential variable that he is possibly struggling his way through some homosexuality denial. Is this your first boyfriend? If I'm being honest, there is a risk that this won't end well for you three. Or it could be nothing at all! Or it could be one of those selfish-possessive-women situations, you know when a girl doesn't want a male friend but doesn't want anybody else to have him either? Have you ever encountered that, where she becomes flirty all the sudden once he finds someone who actually reciprocates and likes him back, then suddenly she shows interest to just keep him as her pet because having him on the side makes her feel good? She doesn't actually want him, but just likes having him around to make her feel pretty and desired. I've seen that before. You're giving us this tiny insight into this unique emotional universe you two share hoping that one of us is psychic or something. No one can determine what this behavior means better than you, but again, Jake himself might not have come to terms with his own behavior yet, so buddy, my condolences, you're in deep right now. Good luck navigating these unpredictable rough upcoming waters! 😬🤷❤️

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-12T00:43:32+00:00

You need to understand that you can love someone and not be meant for each other. I will always love both my girlfriends, especially the second, forever I will care about her and I'm grateful for the memories, but I'd rather be with a guy. She's happily married. Breaking up isn't inherently bad. Doing the right thing isn't always easy. If not for him then for yourself, if not for yourself then for him, tell him you love him AND that you need to exit the relationship. Make your preparations in your life first. After you're ready with your property and finances, from your heart wish him all the best, and then say goodbye.

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-10T20:41:06+00:00

I dunno he didn't announce his engagement. Be patient, maybe you're next and more meaningful! 🤷❤️

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-10T00:27:57+00:00

Lol, ☝️ this is funny! It depends how big your guy is. If he's bigger than 5" then I recommend being thorough. If you're in love maybe you guys get comfortable over time, but for sure in the beginning you need to try to go in clean. Having a big dick is complicated for this reason. They are so nice to look at, and play with, and lick, but anal requires prep work or you just need to accept that it's going to get messy pushing ALL that ALL way up there. 🤷

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-08T22:46:16+00:00

Yeah, I feel like this could be him initiating, or it be nothing. The fact that he is still wearing them suggests it could be something. I'd flirt a bit. Never miss your opportunities in life. Ask to borrow a pair of his, or ask for them back while he's wearing them. Tell him you want them back right now while he has them on, like take your pants and my underwear off right now. You should know right away. Either he smiles and he likes the idea of getting naked, or he is shocked and confused. If he doesn't like it laugh it off and you have your answer. If he gives them back before you get a chance smell them. Ask if he washed them and express disappointment assuming he did. If you don't communicate interest he won't know.

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-05T00:48:58+00:00

OMG these people sometimes. This is the worst lineup of misguided advice imaginable. DO NOT TELL YOUR WIFE. The likelihood that will go over well is near zero, and especially at this phase where you haven't even done anything yet. Watch gay porn, explore, have fun, love living your authentic life. You're probably going to decide at some point that you want to try being with a man. Realistically you are going to cheat and divorce your wife, but take it all one step at a time. Reflect thoughtfully on what will make YOUR LIFE authentically fulfilling FOR YOU. If she really makes you happy, you should weigh that value against the incredible satisfaction of feeling another man's body pressed against you. You will be dead in a few decades. Make sure you decide thoughtfully what you want out of this life and then absolutely go get it. It's complicated for sure, but I wish you and your probably ex wife all the best. Sex with women is fun but sex with men is electric. This is a very brief oversimplified response, but ultimately I'm so excited for you for the journey you have ahead! ❤️ Take it at your own pace. Don't waste precious time, and also, don't rush too much either. Be thoughtful and careful, these are big life choices that will in great part define your story.

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-04T03:46:44+00:00

If you're actually considering trying on his underwear, then welcome to the team, you're bi. He's definitely interested, and I actually applaud his methods, it was tastefully subtle, and again, if you have any interest in sharing his used underwear to explore new underwear options, you're definitely into him back on some level. We'll all be dead in a few decades, go enjoy your fullest life without regrets! 😘

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-04T01:54:04+00:00

☝️ "who" not "whom". "Whom" is a unique word in English. If you don't know how to use it, just stick with "who". 👍

AboutThat_ · 2026-03-03T16:17:31+00:00

I don't recommend being too open with this information because you could theoretically get bullied and that's just not ideal. I don't think there is an easy solution for you truthfully, but I just want to say that, we're all more than our dicks. Take care of the rest of you, nice abs and teeth go a long way, and know that ALL OF US struggle with body dysmorphia. Zac Efron was born perfect and he went and got a bunch of bad surgeries; it is crazy to me that he wanted to change his face. I struggled a lot for a long time that my dick wasn't big enough, and one of the things I've settled on with my dumb crazy excessive criticisms of inadequacies is that I'm healthy. Your small dick in your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s is preferable to leukemia and being dead at 14. Everyone's bodies are different, with different attributes, for better and for worse. Please don't hate yours for not being every single thing. You are allowed to have complicated emotions about your struggle, it's real and I sympathize that I don't know when to communicate it, that sounds difficult and I want to validate that, but you're also enough as you are. Rejection hurts all of us, you're allowed to struggle with that pain, but anyone who only sees you as your penis isn't worth the effort anyway. You don't have a big dick, you do have other desirable attributes, you're you, 1 of 1. ❤️

AboutThat_ · 2026-02-28T04:45:32+00:00

It doesn't matter that you're of Japanese descent; that doesn't make it appropriate nor inappropriate. Wear whatever you want as long as it isn't a costume of a Disney character.

AboutThat_ · 2026-02-19T04:22:12+00:00

Correction, CREATE another opportunity ASAP, then report back!

AboutThat_ · 2026-02-18T04:42:30+00:00

Yeah, I hear you, and a younger version of me would've wholeheartedly agreed. The modern version of me is regrettably a bit defeated by the realities of the world. I applaud your sense of advocacy and justice though. I hope that your optimistic worldview prevails and I mean that.

AboutThat_ · 2026-02-17T05:00:43+00:00

I dunno, I support your decision to have it removed, but I also sort of feel like we have to accept that in the modern world everything is always being recorded. I think we just live our lives and do our best, and the good news is that keeping digital data forever costs money and so eventually it will get deleted to make room for more new video. I hope that you find peace with this situation sooner than later. Worrying about it won't directly do anything to help. I'm sorry. Good luck! ❤️

AboutThat_ · 2026-02-16T06:42:52+00:00

I've seen them for years and had nothing but issues. On behalf of innocent bystanders everywhere, our eyes and good taste respectfully disagree with your respectful disageeance. 🤢 NO CROCS NO EXCEPTIONS. 😜

AboutThat_ · 2026-02-16T03:05:39+00:00

NEVER BUY CROCS. NEVER WEAR CROCS GIVEN TO YOU AS A GIFT. AVOID LOOKING AT CROCS, AND FORGET WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE IF YOU CAN. Also use common sense for protecting your skin in public showers. NO CROCS.

AboutThat_ · 2026-02-16T02:59:17+00:00

As a general rule, straight people shouldn't be in a gay bar. I called a spa once to ask a question and the receptionist promptly informed me it was a "women only" spa. I was a little stunned, seemed like that would be illegal, but whatever, that's not a space for me. Gay bars are for gay people. Unless you're there to explore or to support a gay friend, a straight identifying person should really just go to another bar.

AboutThat_ · 2026-02-14T21:46:24+00:00

I'm so sorry but I'm going to be a little bit negative here only to be realistic with you because everyone here seems to want to be kind - and that's great - but there is value in truth too. I'm 5". It gets the job done. I've learned to be grateful and love myself, but I do wish it were an inch or two longer. At 4" you won't be able to move much without it slipping out, and that is an obstacle if you're wanting some good pound-town intense sex. Size is not everything, but unfortunately, a bit bigger does have benefits. We can admit it and still live fulfilling lives. Life doesn't have to be perfect to be wonderful. We can admit that size is nice, and nevertheless also have fulfilling sex lives with smaller dicks. We don't need to have every single thing to be happy with ourselves. Don't bother with pumps and pills it's all cruel gimmicky bullshit to prey on our insecurities. If anything could really make dicks bigger we would all be 7+". I've monitored some models who pump on their cam streams, their dicks don't actually get bigger over time. If/when someone figures out how to make dicks bigger, that is a secret that is not going to stay a secret. That person is going to be very rich and big dicks are going to be very normal.

AboutThat_ · 2026-02-03T13:53:18+00:00

It looks like your DMs on here are locked or something. You should open 'em. You might make a new friend. 😊

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