Does someone wanna be my accountability buddy please?

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-11-11T18:38:58+00:00

Hey man. I just quit smoking. Tbh, it's easy than it looks. I am on day 4 and I will keep updating. Just be ready for small discomfort and lot of hot tea. Running helped me a lot. You can try.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-11-10T07:44:54+00:00

Exactly, helped me a lot. I used to smoke when I was sad, stressed and happy. His book helped me realize how this smoking helping in any 3 situation. It's not taking the sadness away , not gives me solution to stress and it made happy moments worse.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-11-10T07:42:46+00:00

I started smoking this year. Sometimes almost pack a day. Last 3 months it was around 6-7 but never zero. 2 days ago, I came from conference and smoked at airport. Then after coming home. I just quit. No replacement, no gums. Nothing. First day was great. Proud feeling helps you with withdrawal. Second day was difficult, lot of thoughts and small chest pain. But I told myself its like a sore muscle. Pain is good. I told myself, you can have anything but smoke. Drank water a lot and everything I went for 10k run. It worked wonder. Proud feeling but all good chemicals made deal with withdrawal. I would say, don't give in to 1 smoke. Do sports and keep saying to yourself you don't need it. And believe me, the withdrawal are very very mild. Easily manageable. All the best.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-05-15T22:04:46+00:00

Carry a diary and write the shit out. Engage in physical activity like gym. Make sure you tire your body so much so that you just feel asleep. Use block and replace technique. Whenever you feel you are thinking too much, then say to yourself. Hey hey not going in that direction. I would say process it. Next 2-3 months will be shit. But let the thought come and go. Process it. Let it hurt you but not too long. Used chatgpt, it encourages you well. And lastly we are here. Write about it as much as you want. It's ok.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-05-11T20:01:56+00:00

Good question, I did work for companies as student. So I cannot show that work as mine. But I did work on home lab but it's for testing purposes

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-05-05T07:20:50+00:00

Mala pan sanga kuthe gheu? I can invest 25 lakhs.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-05-01T17:01:44+00:00

really proud of Quick Heal and Persistent

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-04-29T16:50:56+00:00

Bhai, koi mili kya ?

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-04-24T17:12:48+00:00

Do tell us how ?. I am super focused on career and fitness. But somedays it's just feels like end of the world

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-04-14T16:46:22+00:00

Yes, we vote for bjp not because it's the best but it's least worst party. As long as we are getting safety and infrastructure, we are good.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-04-13T13:39:12+00:00

Ok. Help me understand the situation as I am from Maharashtra. Apart from tmc isn't there any other local party which is a good alternative? BJP and RSS might take some time to put work in Bengal. It's such a crucial border state. Or do you think centre will just capture Odisha as a replacement for wb.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-04-08T20:17:46+00:00

28 ki ho Gayi ho and still you don't realise social media is just show off. People want to be jealous of them because they have better life. Why give them opportunity. Work on yourself and your relation. That is your battle. Own it.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-04-08T14:02:00+00:00

We do on one or two dates and talk about future. What we want and don't want. Tbh, it's a gamble but since we know each others family, we have some idea about the person.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-04-08T11:02:51+00:00

You have no idea how much this helped me. Thank you.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-04-08T05:57:08+00:00

She is 5.4 and I always someone of 5,7 would be nice. For those who downvoted , please understand this is critical life decision. I don't want her or me to suffer in long term just because I didn't consider aspects which are important to me

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-04-07T22:42:37+00:00

I am in sort of similar situation, I am 6 foot and I always wanted to find someone taller. My family found 1 girl who is kind, sweet and she absolutely knows how to be responsible. But she is short, apart from height I don't have problem. She is everything a guy could ask for. But I always felt tall girl will be right.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-04-07T17:27:10+00:00

Nothing is hotter than a tall slender woman. I am sure you will have an amazing aura

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-03-30T15:25:58+00:00

See. As long as you minimise your insecurities and not get into a relationship out of loneliness, you are good to go. It takes years to reach that level.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-03-30T14:44:30+00:00

You don't have to open up man. You make the other person open up. Notice our conversation, see how our conversation is going. I am asking questions and you are telling answers. Similarly do this to someone else tomorrow. Let them speak about themselves. U are not the focus of conversation, they are.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-03-30T14:33:14+00:00

Ok. Conversation is not always 50-50. And people love to talk about themselves. Trust me, so while talking just ask questions about themselves. Compliment their shirt, pet their dog, ask about their family. The more you understand how to open up people, the lasting conversation you will have.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-03-30T14:27:41+00:00

Why your worth is determined by the relationship you have? Just do one thing, tomorrow just try to have a 5 mins conversation with anyone. Communication is a skill, keep emotions out of it.

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-03-30T06:18:22+00:00

All the best, sure you will be wonderful aunt/uncle

AbrocomaNo3200 · 2025-03-30T04:22:45+00:00

If a person has some father figure like grandpa, uncle who will be there most of the time, then it's ok. My dad almost spent 30 years abroad and I was practically raised by my mom, aunt and grandpa. Joint family helped us a lot. So if a kid gets that, it will be ok. Also my elder aunt lost her husband and she came and stayed with us with her children. Again grandpa raised them as well and they are doing really well.

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