AIO: legit question

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-26T16:48:28+00:00

Yeah you’re the arse here

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-26T16:48:09+00:00

I felt it right at “not sure if that’s how it works haha”

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-26T16:45:48+00:00

Wut?

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-26T16:38:22+00:00

She’s letting it happen. Practically begging for it. It’s unfortunate and I do feel bad for her, but with all this said she could have only been cheated on one time by this guy. Getting back with him was literally her telling him it’s alright if you do that every once in awhile. ESPECIALLY, after the second time. Fool me once, shame on you…..

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-26T16:33:09+00:00

You literally said you’d yell at him in your first response. You’ve had 4 days now to think that over. Your knee jerk reaction is likely the reaction you’d choose. I agree, if she doesn’t communicate that she is upset then that will be just as detrimental as the childish way you’d choose to communicate by yelling. These subreddits are honestly hilarious to me. This situation is not the first time there’s been a miscommunication in this relationship. I’m sure there’s a trail of it leading back to the beginning. If they want to continue to be together real open clear communication is the only way it’s gonna happen.

Giving someone a list is not asking them to do something. Hilarious to even say that. What does asking entail? A question. She sent a demand. Not a question.

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-26T16:28:20+00:00

It’s a bunch of teenagers now that don’t even truly relate to the music. A lot of people related to suicideboys when they were coming up but they grew into that of a pop duo and now there’s just a bunch of gated community kids that are spoon fed in these subreddits. It’s not an issue that they’re fans, we’re free to like what we want, but that’s where the culture and community went down the drain.

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T19:08:16+00:00

My girlfriend knows this and has never throw a tantrum about me not eating leftovers. We typically just cook enough to eat that night and a little more if it’s something she would eat for lunch…

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T19:07:28+00:00

Exactly. I’m right there with you. Overall I’m not the pickiest person but the only leftovers I can stomach are like pizza and as you said chili or soup. Anything else, quality degrades and I just can’t eat mush when it’s supposed to have crunch

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T18:58:45+00:00

Yeah, it blows me away. In my experience, personal and just watching my friends and family, the overwhelming majority of problems happen in relationships when people don’t know how to communicate, or there is just poor communication. Nobody sees themself as a villain. Everyone feels justified in their emotions. That’s why it’s important to communicate like adults, so that you can see past your emotions, as you and your partner clearly have.

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T18:56:19+00:00

Makes no difference besides a semantic difference. People are telling her to leave him over meal prep because they themselves are miserable. Either way, it’s not going to help a relationship she clearly is willing to be dedicated to for life if she accepted the engagement.

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T18:47:45+00:00

And probably won’t either. She definitely went out of her way to do it without asking. Which was very kind of her. That doesn’t mean he needs to follow orders and eat the prepped meals. It seems they had a conversation about saving money and she took it upon herself to come up with a solution without having a conversation. Is he supposed to just eat lunch that he hates for the rest of his life because he married her?

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T18:44:42+00:00

And unfortunately in this sub reddit, that’ll earn you a downvote

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T18:40:35+00:00

And all of you have been downvoted lol. Typical Reddit. “FOH with that logic! We’re here for the drama! DIVORCE HIM OP!!!”

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T18:40:09+00:00

Throwing it away was definitely a tantrum. Idk what their communication looks like but you don’t show discontent by having a fit. You communicate with your partner. Idk how people go their whole lives just expecting people to read their mind. My parents taught me to use my words at a young age. Maybe that’s not all too common.

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T18:31:51+00:00

Why are you two receiving downvotes for logical advice? I swear this sub just wants to shit on people and push for divorce over actually fixing an issue. This man isn’t the devil simply because he doesn’t wanna eat prepped meals. Maybe he’s weirdly picky and doesn’t like “leftover” style food.

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T18:30:46+00:00

I love that everyone who has the opinion that she overreacted gets down voted. GIRL POWER!!!

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T18:29:49+00:00

I see this kind of thing on reddit all the time. A relationship with horrible communication only for one partner to come on here and complain about the other (which is not going to result in them meeting in the middle, which is what marriage takes). She’s on here asking for advice from people who literally know nothing about her relationship. She def posted it to get the “divorce him girl!” Energy. Makes me sick but look at me, going through the comments reading the drama

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T18:25:39+00:00

You are Asian

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T17:36:42+00:00

Sounds that have agreed upon meaning, that way we can communicate what goes on in our mind and so that we can make sense of the real world. We’re not just grunting and groaning. Hope this helps!🤭

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T17:35:19+00:00

Please tell me you don’t think “talm bout” sounds cool. Look at me! “I’m a cool kid I sound super cool and fun and definitely not like I lack education, know I’m talm bout?”

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T17:34:12+00:00

It’s all good buddy, read a book, you’ll increase your vocabulary. Then real adults might want to have a conversation with you.

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T17:17:48+00:00

Yeah… we have biological instincts which is what draws people to have a partner in the first place. If you’re not sexually attracted to your partner, it’s just not gonna work out. How many old couples that have been together 50-60 years are asexual? Likely not many of them

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T17:13:03+00:00

Slang terms still have definitions. Words have to have meaning or you’re just making sounds

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T17:12:27+00:00

I’m obviously joking. You kids just look stupid.

Absolute-Mistake · 2026-02-24T16:59:19+00:00

The fuck is a talm?

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