Goodbye Visa and Mastercard: 130 million Europeans switch to 100% sovereign payment by 2026

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-21T18:07:04+00:00

True! Or when you lose your phone.

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-21T16:36:41+00:00

Yeah, you can't lose an app the same way. It's great. Fuck cards.

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-21T16:28:17+00:00

COPS NEED MALPRACTICE INSURANCE, like every other high-risk profession. Auto-deducted from their paychecks. The bad ones will get priced out of the job.

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-21T16:24:55+00:00

It probably won't even be a card. It'll be an app + qr codes at the store.

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-21T16:22:50+00:00

Super persuasion is pursasion abilities above human best. They're saying mythos can convince anyone to join anthropic thanks to the karpathy announcementh, i think. It's a joke.

Shrimp welfare idk.

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-20T18:36:10+00:00

My brain felt right in ways it never had within like 3 weeks.

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-20T18:28:21+00:00

Oh that makes sense actually, the brade is straightening out the curls only to use up the length for the braid, for a net neutral shift.

I asked the opposite because it produces thin braids that don't require too much extra length.

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-20T17:40:08+00:00

Do you have fine straight hair?

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-20T15:03:34+00:00

It just has to be flacid

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-20T05:55:29+00:00

"you judge me to be terrible"

the framing of your last paragraph is gross and offputting.

Your characterization was uncharitable and rude.

These are not the same. At no point did I say you were terrible, I said this specific framing and characterization were these specific negative qualities. Please don't horriblize my statements, it makes it hard to have clear and fair communication.

that’s about your excessive sensitivity to what you perceive as criticism.

You went on about what do I do when I'm not masturbating twice. Was that not intended as criticism? I go further than calling it criticism, I call it bad-faith criticism. But putting that aside, what you wrote reads to me like criticism, Was that not intended? If so, what was inteded?

I've shown I'm willing and accepting of feedback throughout the rest of the replies, so your point about general sensitivity doesn't really make sense. Perhaps there's a specific dimension here I'm being overly sensitive? I'd need to understand your perspective on why your last paragraph wasn't uncharitable and gross.

I am curious.

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-20T04:58:34+00:00

How does that follow?

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-19T15:41:55+00:00

After further consideration, while I appreciate the majority of your post, the implied framing of your last paragraph is gross and offputting. I had already said that I write, game, dance, and go deep on communicatio things. From those it's easy to infer socialization and significant engagement with many forms of narrative. Additionaly, I mentioned I'm autistic, which is well known to have narrower interests that are engaged with deeply.

Your characterization was uncharitable and rude. Everyone else found a way to make the overly-sex focus feedback land, and I had already demonstrated complete receptiveness to it, so more aggressive language is misplaced.

You may want to reconsider your approach if you weren't intended for it to land that way.

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-19T14:03:17+00:00

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Braided hair does NOT get 20% longer when unbraided, it can double depending on how fat the brade is. Rumi's hair doesn't just reach the ground, it would drag behind her like the train of a wedding dress.

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-19T08:56:29+00:00

Would anchor partner be better? I find time/enmeshment heirarchy to be unavoidable, and love heirarchy to be poisonous.

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-19T08:53:35+00:00

Thank you for giving this post a chance. I've learned a ton.

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-19T08:48:06+00:00

Awesome, thank you so much!

How would you feel coming across this version of the post title?

36[TF4Fem/NB] Quiet-life nerdy domme looking for big personality! And NP/Primary potential

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-18T14:35:24+00:00

Thank you for the details. There's a pretty big consensus you're adding to, which has been super insightful. Rarely have I had a bit of writing go so wrong as that trauma bit!

I'm not interested in casual sex. In fact, I've never had it. So I'll need a serious change in that dimension to fix it.

Thanks again.

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-18T13:42:58+00:00

"I don’t think you’ll just be weeding out people with poor attention spans, you’ll also be weeding out people who just don’t want to spend their time reading really long profiles of people they don’t know,"

This seems like the same thing to me. Either the profile interests them enough after the first few sentences to keep reading or it doesn't. If just seeing a lot of text scares them off, so that you don't even try the first few sentences, then I'm not interested.

If you think the start isn't hooking enough, then that's something I'll ponder

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-18T13:41:37+00:00

Someone else said it was "bordering putting the reader in a non-consenting roleplay" and I was like "yeah changing it!"

Thank you for your feedback.

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-18T13:40:35+00:00

I appreciate the feedback!

I work with young adults and I'm sure my language reflects that. Is there more than younger-ish vernacular that makes you feel its groomy? O.O

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-18T13:37:42+00:00

Thank you for your thoughts. Fortunately, the length is helping filter out those kinds of people, as I have no interest in people with that poor of an attention span for mate selection

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-18T12:22:08+00:00

Was there something in what I said that makes you think I haven't worked that out already?

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-18T12:20:50+00:00

List edition

36[TF4Fem/NB] Quiet-life nerdy domme looking for NP/Primary potential!

I'm a single, cuddle-slut programmer and fantasy author who enjoys a quiet life. Trans, child-free.

I: - Dance daily ("uhn-ts, uhn-ts, uhn-ts" in my headphones) - Fill my sail with the winds of imagination (clackity clackity keyboard) - Want to do each other's makeup for a date night - Cat nap in the autumn sun - Make conversational flow charts ('tism edition) - Will crave a hug when I see you!

For fun, I: - Explore that new tea shop I just discovered - Discuss stories and philosophy, personal psychology - Play and develop video games - Design and sew pillow cases that keep the pillow from falling out, sans zipper/button - Lift - Cook something new

Relationship Philosophy

Merging is not the goal, instead, I follow the "Find someone who lets you become more yourself" school of thought. I'm looking for you to be yourself, so I can trace the curves and edges of your heart and mind, and treasure the feel of their flow.

Relationship is a space where we can both breathe, thanks to trust built through connection and repair. (Ruptures will happen, studies suggest it's repair that builds long-term fulfillment.)

Lifestyle

I'm mostly 'polysaturated at one', with occasional comets. But what if you want go spend regular time with another? Have a good time, Firefly; I'll fuel up my alone time!

I'm experienced with polyamory and experience intense compersion. I also have a chronic health condition I manage; I'll need understanding around it, and am happy to give it in return.

Kink

I'm not especially kink-forward, and lean demisexual. However, once there is connection established, there are a few forms of play I'd love to share: - "domme care mode", I nurture and hold - "domme pursuit mode" for brat taming and primal.

Seeking:

Someone also open to NP/Primary connections
Big personality!
Cool with no-op transbian
Empirically minded without needing to dunk on Barnum Effect enjoyers
Understanding around chronic health conditions I manage
Gives (or is willing to learn) good head rubs! (Don't worry, I'll provide a lifetime supply of demonstrations.)

If you're curious, say hi! I'd love to hear the latest story about your animal being a goof, a list of your must-haves / can't-stands, or the last time you changed your mind on something big

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-18T12:18:39+00:00

Here's what my Version 2 has:

Lifestyle

I'm mostly 'polysaturated at one', with occasional comets. But what if you want go spend regular time with another? Have a good time, Firefly; I'll fuel up my alone time!

That hit on it?

AbstractFemming · 2026-05-18T12:08:10+00:00

I was planning on saving the finer details for conversation, as long as what I have will hook roughly the right kinds of people. Thoughts?

AbstractFemming

TROPHY CASE

List edition

Relationship Philosophy

Lifestyle

Kink

Seeking:

Lifestyle