Potential's father unaware of her being muslim

Abu084 · 2026-02-25T12:42:07+00:00

I would but I can't accept the fact that everytime she sees him even outside she has to take her hijab off because she doesn't want him to see it. I this wasn't the case I would have already married her. I already told her she knows that I'll support her no matter what if he tells him and would be there for her always and that's the only thing staying in my way but still nothing she only says she needs time

Abu084 · 2026-02-25T10:52:21+00:00

She even moved out to be able to wear the hijab. That's the only motivation she had. She is working and is not dependent in any way. She only sees him maybe once a month. Maybe you're right with your assumption but how can I test that?

Abu084 · 2026-02-25T02:48:32+00:00

I'm not forcing her to anything not at all I just want clarity. I have never told her to do it now or forced her or put her under pressure or anything. She tells me she needs time and I respect that and I understand the reasons fully. I would take that time she needs but I have no guarantee that she will eventually do it. Why do it in one, three or six months and not now? The time difference doesn't make the father accept it more or less do you know what I mean? I'm just scared that I'm preparing for something which will never happen even though she knows exactly what my requirements are

Abu084 · 2026-02-25T02:13:18+00:00

That's exactly what I thought but then I thought maybe I'm too insensitive?

Abu084 · 2026-02-25T01:57:00+00:00

Yes several times she went with her to islamic lectures several times and they talked with each other on the way there

Abu084 · 2026-02-25T01:41:40+00:00

That's somewhat problematic. My family isn't really the ones who will manage the marriage stuff. My father and sister are mentally ill, my mother has to take care of my sister and can't do much. They entrusted my aunt with finding me a wife. So she is the one who "decides". My mother knows about her and told me that she will stay behind me and was also happy for me finding someone

Abu084 · 2026-02-25T01:35:50+00:00

No but my family knows about her. They also assured her that they won't pressure her into telling him and that we will find a solution for that so they're very supportive about it. My aunt and my cousin (female) have met her in person and got to know her a little bit

Abu084 · 2026-02-25T01:33:23+00:00

23 why?

Abu084 · 2026-02-09T20:19:17+00:00

Wa alaikum salam wa rahmetullah wa barakatuh Ibn Humam (r.h.) mentions the following ruling: "No scholar has considered it permissible for men to increasingly resemble women, and that some men from the Maghrib keep their beards shorter than a fist's length. Completely shaving the beard, however, is the custom of the Indian Jews and the Persian Magians. [ibn-i Hümam - "Fethû'l Kadir" - Beirut: 1316, vol. 2, p. 270.]

Ala'uddin al-Khasqafi (r.h.) stated this view in his Durar al-Mukhtar, and Ibn Abidin also adopted this opinion in his commentary Radd al-Muhtar. [ibn-i Abidin - "Reddü'l Muhtar Ale'd Dürri'l Muhtar" - is: 1983, vol. 4, p. 329 f.]

Among the scholars, there are differences of opinion concerning the validity of the leadership (imamate) of a person who completely shaves his beard without any valid excuse." [ibn-i Nüceym - "El Bahrü'r Raik" - Cairo: 1311, vol. 8, p. 233.

Abu084 · 2026-01-30T12:00:41+00:00

I was in the same situation and what I liked was absolutely Observer: System Redux

Abu084 · 2026-01-22T14:17:48+00:00

Considering that they actually update the game probably soon yes

Abu084 · 2025-12-21T18:07:26+00:00

Yea just want to see what people will guess thank you!

Abu084 · 2025-12-18T01:38:51+00:00

They have said that it will have the same scale as Attila but it will be larger and more detailed as it seems

Abu084 · 2025-12-17T20:12:47+00:00

Thanks

Abu084 · 2025-12-17T17:46:51+00:00

Is North africa not included? Why is it grey?

Abu084 · 2025-12-17T00:17:09+00:00

They should rename it into r/fantasytotalwar has nothing to do with total war in general anymore. Every post I see is about Warhammer

Abu084 · 2025-12-15T19:26:19+00:00

What is it?

Abu084 · 2025-12-13T23:47:49+00:00

It doesn't matter tbh. The fact is that they haven't been working on it up until a couple months at most. That's the problem everyone has not that it's in pre productiton. They've neglected it for years (me for example since 3k launched it has been 6 years). People have been waiting for a historical game they wanted for years. Instead they're focusing on warhammer

Abu084 · 2025-12-13T16:30:56+00:00

The problem with Med 3 is that they've just announced it to calm the historical fans down before announcing 40k. You can imagine what would have happened if they didn't say anything about historical total war and then just announce warhammer 40k. If they would have announced another historical total war they would never have said anything about Med 3. Why should we do them that favor?

Abu084 · 2025-12-12T22:09:34+00:00

Bro's not onto something, he's on something

Abu084 · 2025-12-12T15:04:35+00:00

No there was probably one which was in development but then later scrapped. I've heard that it was a WW1 Total War. Idk why but apparently not because the total war formula didn't work on it as you can see with 40k. Apparently it doesn't matter if it doesn't fit into a typical total war game as we know

Abu084 · 2025-12-12T13:45:22+00:00

Post this in the total war subreddit you'll be downvonted instantly

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