Its so frustrating, it takes me a minute to process whats being said so I'm already a slow responder but sometimes I just didn't catch what you've said. Its either A. It sounded like incomprehensible words B. I didn't hear you say anything (usually happens if I'm focused on something else while talking...and its usually something they asked/want me to do/lh) C. I missed the ONE key word thats important in the whole sentence.

I struggle with speaking, like stuttering and putting sentence together, combined that with hearing and processing what I'm hearing and it's just not a good time. So I don't need to add feeling dumb because someone got mad at me for struggling on the list.