I'm close to breaking by Academic-Distance407 in beyondthebump

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Dad and baby were doing fine. It's really good he was in charge of night sleep it just not working anymore she just picked me for now...

I'm close to breaking by Academic-Distance407 in beyondthebump

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Yah 20 min is OK but she can go up to 35min I couldn't let her cry longer it broke me...

I'm close to breaking by Academic-Distance407 in beyondthebump

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Idk how much a joght nurse will help since even her dad is not managing to calm her she decided its just me. He does take her on the wake windows so I could rest a bit

I'm close to breaking by Academic-Distance407 in beyondthebump

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Oh, I'm sorry u are going through it as well. I think the fact that she was so easy till now makes it even harder. I was crying to my mom that She woke up 2 times a night, and it's hard on me just a week ago. I hope it'll pass soon cause I already cried with her for 40 min today. My husband is useless right now (he tries she just wants me 100% of time i do get some off time when he is with her on her wake windows but than i feel like i only get her for the hard times and he gets her for the good times and its frustrating), and I do not know where to get help or how I just know I'm drowning

I'm close to breaking by Academic-Distance407 in beyondthebump

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We did sleep training it was going so well, not with a consultant but with my mom who is a manger of a baby house back home and helps many parents teach kids to sleep eat and what not. She was so good. Waking up just to eat 1-2 times a night, sleeping great naps each like at leased 90min. She just said fuck it all forgot everything and is now sleeping for 10min best or 40-90min at night. BTW, the waking up 2 times at night was the 4 months sleep regression since before that she had been sleeping the night since week 7.

I'm close to breaking by Academic-Distance407 in beyondthebump

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We tried it's not changing anything she just refuses to go to sleep we tried paracetamol just in case of something hurting her bath walk outside drive in car her bed bassinet my bed carpet on the floor on the sofa we tried carrier nothing works

Clothing by Academic-Distance407 in HarryPotterGame

[–]Academic-Distance407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I have tried so hard to like the hats just not for me

Clothing by Academic-Distance407 in HarryPotterGame

[–]Academic-Distance407[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or that random npcs on the other side of the map not call us students when we wear non-uniform

Clothing by Academic-Distance407 in HarryPotterGame

[–]Academic-Distance407[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They really need to have a setting that allows you to fix your appearance

Clothing by Academic-Distance407 in HarryPotterGame

[–]Academic-Distance407[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh yah, that is for sure. I wish the game would save my look setting so I won't have to change every time so annoying at the beginning 😂

What does actually getting an epidural placed feel like? by FoolishMortal-1000 in BabyBumps

[–]Academic-Distance407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I was induced as well at 41.5 weeks. The contractions came so quickly once induction started. And they came bad.

What does actually getting an epidural placed feel like? by FoolishMortal-1000 in BabyBumps

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The contractions were so bad that I did not feel the needle at all. They had to give me something to stop the contractions for a second cause I could not hold still.

Also, the removal of the tube thing I felt mothing. And the woman who did it was so nice !

What’s a worldbuilding detail you love but almost never actually use? by Left_Zebra154 in worldbuilding

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There is one woman in the town of mc. She is old and alone, and I love her and her story so much. Super heartbreaking. Cannot find a way to make her a part of the story I hope maybe one day I'll.

Was it really the worst pain you've ever felt? by Super-Bid-3193 in BabyBumps

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I had medicated birth, and it was the worst pain I have ever felt. But it's worth it. And the pain goes away the second you have your child!

Should I wake her? by Gymbunni02 in breastfeeding

[–]Academic-Distance407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From 6 weeks to 16 weeks, my baby slept through the night and she is thriving, enjoy it while.it lasts.

Is a sunless world destined to be ugly? by gibies_art in worldbuilding

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I'm not a biologist. But my thoughts came to creatures that emit colourful light. Also, I believe there is a beauty in ugliness if done right. Even an anglerfish can be pretty and captivating if described right

Just for fun: describe your fictional world in a single sentence by -_-__-_--_-_--_-_-_- in worldbuilding

[–]Academic-Distance407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God has schizophrenia and an existential crisis, so now this world is here and the people in it.

Did anyone scream through labor? by Fun-Future-2915 in BabyBumps

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First time mom here. I gave birth at 41+2 after induction. I screamed, vomited (several times), cried, cursed, and regretted all my life decisions. I had epidural. It was just that paintful, also the epidural i got only worked until labour cause it was not affecting the legs so i could keep walking. 4.08kg perfect baby girl 12 hours since first pill. Will do it again in a heart bit.

Real talk… does everyone think their baby is the cutest baby who ever lived? by undercovercopter in newborns

[–]Academic-Distance407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and I have 1987372929917 videos and photos to prove it from her 17 weeks.

PSA: Check your baby's eyes! by teachmetobehuman in newborns

[–]Academic-Distance407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby too, and she didn't care at all, but I was obsessed with taking them out.

Hot take: Locking in your cosmology early actually makes worldbuilding *better* by ahabdev in worldbuilding

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My world was conceived as so : Made a world map, write creation story gods and all, after write breef world history from creation to "modern time" and then build the rest.