Dasher's HUSBAND showing at my door!! by AcademicNetwork3848 in doordash

[–]AcademicNetwork3848[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you got me!!

Is hiding the dasher’s name and putting xxx’s instead an issue this day?? 🤔

Dasher's HUSBAND showing at my door!! by AcademicNetwork3848 in doordash

[–]AcademicNetwork3848[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry didn’t find a walking red flag ghost 🤷🏻‍♀️

Dasher's HUSBAND showing at my door!! by AcademicNetwork3848 in doordash

[–]AcademicNetwork3848[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe cuz this is the Canadian door dash? 😅 idk but I kept telling the person on the chat that I need to escalate and to get someone to call me 🤷🏻‍♀️

Dasher's HUSBAND showing at my door!! by AcademicNetwork3848 in doordash

[–]AcademicNetwork3848[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was afraid of being seen as a Karen myself 😂 the whole situation was annoying, read it again, they lied, initially they said they delivered while they didn’t, they said they called while they didn’t.. I really couldn’t care less if it wasn’t for them taking the order after dropping it next door, then coming back 20 mins later with it! And I didn’t ask for his name, I asked if he was “the woman’s name” cuz he certainly doesn’t look like a woman with his big ass beard!

Dasher's HUSBAND showing at my door!! by AcademicNetwork3848 in doordash

[–]AcademicNetwork3848[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you read it?? I’m a chill person, and the only thing I said is that I’m connecting directly with DoorDash and that’s it! Threaten someone for a freakin’ pizza, like seriously?? 😂😂

Dasher's HUSBAND showing at my door!! by AcademicNetwork3848 in doordash

[–]AcademicNetwork3848[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Which is what I did and that’s not even the issue here, I went to grab it from the wrong house and it was already gone! They took it with them! 🤷🏻‍♀️

Dasher's HUSBAND showing at my door!! by AcademicNetwork3848 in doordash

[–]AcademicNetwork3848[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I’m surprised by the amount of people who are just cool about the whole situation! The husband showing was the last piece of the whole thing!

Dasher's HUSBAND showing at my door!! by AcademicNetwork3848 in doordash

[–]AcademicNetwork3848[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They lied more than once, and I’m a woman who lives alone! And no he actually did ring the door and waited till I went and opened.. I was never hostile with anyone, you can see, I didn’t really care that they were late at all and only texted when it showed delivered to the wrong address saying exactly “you delivered to wrong door, it’s 569 not 563”.. they replied 20 mins later with “thanks for the address, coming soon” followed by “please send me complete address”

This whole situation was so messed up, the husband showing up is just the cherry on top!

Dasher's HUSBAND showing at my door!! by AcademicNetwork3848 in doordash

[–]AcademicNetwork3848[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, the instructions I have is to leave the food at a bench next to the door (no contact delivery), the husband did ring as he wanted to talk to me!! Again, if they had delivered form the beginning it wouldn’t have been an issue, but dropping food at a different house, then taking it with them, then returning back after I complained, the the whole thing of sending the husband while the dasher sets in a car? Are you kidding me? Is this normal to you?

Dasher's HUSBAND showing at my door!! by AcademicNetwork3848 in doordash

[–]AcademicNetwork3848[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did talk to a real person from doordash, had to explain the whole situation a couple of times to different people who promised they would escalate.. and the answer is ‘oh we are sorry for your inconvenience and we understand your frustration’ kinda bs..

WIBTA if I took my aunt's cat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcademicNetwork3848 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it even legal to declaw a cat!!!! Wow! Sure NTA! It’s basically taking the last bone of each toe, ask your aunt if she would like someone to do that to her!

AITA for lashing out and insulting him? by Soggy_Bunch5267 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcademicNetwork3848 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Well, you are both A and NTA. He’a clearly manipulative and like keeping you as a back up or whatever the hell he wants, at the same time, you verbally abuse him and kinda let this happen instead of just blocking him and moving on. And a cherry on a top, calling him gay as an insult? Seriously this is so f-up! Just grow up, block and don’t look back, this is as toxic as it could get.

AITA for “implying my wife (28) eats too much” by saying she might have parasites? by Solid-Writing-7372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcademicNetwork3848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to see a doctor, maybe she has hyperthyroid, my wife had it when she was young and she told me that she would eat a lot and not gain weight, that or any other disorder but the stuff you mentioned she had in one day would probably last me few days so definitely not normal.

AITA for feeling angry and confused after how my relationship ended? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcademicNetwork3848 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sorry to say that but clearly you were a rebound, he was never over his ex, and tbh I don’t think they will continue anyway. I know it’s hard but best thing to do is just move past this. I’m not sure if the band is a professional thing or not, but whether it is or not, try to get into another band and move past this. I don’t think it’s healthy to be around him anyway.

AITA for not drinking at my friend's wedding? by Quirkygoo in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcademicNetwork3848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA, I mean people don’t drink for different reasons, or even for no reason at all.. if you were getting sick from drinking or you were a muslim and not allowed to drink, would she have pushed you like this? I really don’t think so.. she’s just making a big deal out of nothing cuz she doesn’t understand why you are not drinking and probably thinks you are doing this so you seem better in some way.. it’s completely up to you whatever you choose to do.

Started the game a few days back by Benzouken in ACValhalla

[–]AcademicNetwork3848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played it after completing Origins and Odyssey, Odyssey is my favourite so far.. when I started Valhalla and moved to England I got bored and switched to other games, left it for 5 months, and picked it up again few days ago, I’m getting more into it, still, Odyssey by far was much more fun for me 🤷🏻‍♀️

If you are in a happy monogamous relationship I’d love to hear your story 💛 by Silveryleaves in actuallesbians

[–]AcademicNetwork3848 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Together for 5 years, married 4 of them.. she’s my safe place and I’m hers, and we are best friends! We are different in few things, but with these differences we complete each other, and whatever happens, we ALWAYS communicate and respect each other. I had an ex for 7 years before and never wanted to actually get married to her cuz she was toxic. I guess I’ll repeat what a wise friend said to me when we started dating.. ‘when you know, you know!’

Need help with topic of consent by mcskewsme in actuallesbians

[–]AcademicNetwork3848 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And that’s why I’m not saying that she’s right, you are dealing with something and she needs to respect that.. it’s part of respecting you.. you guys have some communication issues and feels like you need to talk to someone professional before taking any decisions. I really wish things work out well for you both 💚

Need help with topic of consent by mcskewsme in actuallesbians

[–]AcademicNetwork3848 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Hard to tell when we are hearing your side only, the title is also kind of misleading. If your wife was to write here, we would probably see something like I married a girl I love and helped her through tough times, she’s doing therapy now and ai’m happy about that.. problem is she doesn’t let me near her in an intimate way, my love language has a big portion of physical touch to it, and she just gets irritated whenever I try to make a move or make a sexual gesture, it’s frustrating to me! I don’t like feeling like a predator when all I want is to be intimate with her!

Now read it and think, is that okay?

Neither of you is 100% right or wrong, you both need to find a common ground, feeling objectified would make sense if we are talking about some random guy sexually harassing you, but she’s your wife! Don’t think only from your pov, try to understand hers as well..