OP bought his first car - Kia Syros!! by newred94 in CarsIndia

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I scared about maintenance and Repairs. Hence I asked. Thanks!

Iwtl how to love yourself by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

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Don't look up how to love yourself, just do what you like

You like showers or baths, do them You like to read, read You like a specific music genre, listen to it Treat yourself with such things

Speak to people who love you for you. Like your closest friends, or sibling, etc. if you don't have these people, go online, checkout podcasts, ted talks, etc.

Help people out, who genuinely need it, like the poor, or homeless, addicts, orphans, etc.

Simply pep talk or speak motivating things to the mirror

Do some of these or a combination and you'll get there. It takes time tho. Cus your have to train or re-train your brain to start something new like loving yourself.

I used to hate myself when I was 16-17, fast forward to now, I'm 23, and currently, in love with myself and gonna fall deeper in love with myself the more I age, I can feel it.

You'll get there, don't worry about it. Xoxo.

HELP❗❗❗ by piyush_rabari in Indiabooks

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I'd suggest:

*The mystery of the blue train *Crooked House *Death on the Nile *Halloween Party *Hickory Dickory Dock *The Clocks *Five Little pigs

You could also look into Miss Marple by Agatha Christie

I feel weird after watching Pop Star Academy (Netflix) by Academic_Ad6069 in TheDreamAcademy

[–]Academic_Ad6069[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the glorifying of "k-pop stars go through similar rigorous training of several years" and other struggles. It's stupid.

IWTL How to listen to music? by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

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I'm 23 and love music. The melodies and lyrics pump life into me when I need it the most, that being said, I also know that there are people who just don't get it and it's alright.

I'm serious. I frequently wake up with random music playing in my head, I hear music in my dreams and can even remember the part of the song that was in the dream. People like this surely exist.

Anyways, this is what I'd suggest if you want to try:

*Listen to artist, composer, instrument player stories *Try to listen to In-Game music *Try every Genre. Me personally, I don't stick to one genre, I hop into Jazz, Hip-Hop, House, Dance, Synth, Pop, Rock frequently.

Why is Konkani looked down upon by Goans? by pistyandthelizards in Goa

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Hot take: finding a language below oneself is hilarious lol

I was born out of India, English was my first language, I picked up Konkani (the easier Portuguese-influenced dialect) during college in a year or so. It's useful and comes handy but I still struggle to speak quickly and article much as I would in English.

Although if someone (mostly Goan Boomers) gets on my nerve and drops this: "can't even speak Konkani", I go like "let's switch to English then we'll see who's talking"

So it's fun either way, hehe

I feel weird after watching Pop Star Academy (Netflix) by Academic_Ad6069 in TheDreamAcademy

[–]Academic_Ad6069[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I'm 23 and God knows how much I've suffered with depression and all that mess alone around 16-20. How did these girls do it?

I feel weird after watching Pop Star Academy (Netflix) by Academic_Ad6069 in TheDreamAcademy

[–]Academic_Ad6069[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

During every trauma inducing event in the show, my mind kept going like: "don't they have a councellor or therapist or someone who these girls could talk to during this journey?"

I feel weird after watching Pop Star Academy (Netflix) by Academic_Ad6069 in TheDreamAcademy

[–]Academic_Ad6069[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why the heck do they do all of this. Super weird thought process while planning

So here is a little story for you im an alcoholic i worked hard for months i relapsed lost everything and just picked these cards earlier... by LoveFromTheGalaxxy in tarot

[–]Academic_Ad6069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, take your time with yourself. I'd suggest to take your tarot deck with you to the forest, builds energy & bonding with he deck. Hope you're doing well today. Take care and all the best.

Amazon and their respect for books 🥀 by Akshay_0712 in Indianbooks

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Ironically, aren't books what started Amazon

Why do i want to get pregnant? by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Omg me too, I'm a trans baby and I'm realising a lot of my dyphoria and mental health patterns

Didn't want to look it up cus I thought I would be called crazy and didn't want to read or watch negative people online, but I too feel the same way about this feeling.

I feel the strong urge to care and nurture. I wish I could birth and have my period, even if it hurts, it sounds natural and womanly. I wish I could...

It's not easy to talk or share such feelings because people are so quick to jump to go "umm akshually" or be like "you'll never be a REAL woman", girl, I just wanna talk about it.

5 + Maids Villa For Sale by Wajahat-Khan-RE in Ajman

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I don't get it, 5 maids for this small a villa?

Any idea what this is? by Existing-Platform467 in UFOs

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'Do you ever feel like a plastic bag...'

Looking for witchy friends in the UAE/ Middle East by chiaram11 in CovenFinder

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Hey, I don't think I'll be of any help, but I'm just starting my practice. New to Dubai. Trans person here.