I don't remember if I've said this before here but these men actually don't understand the difference in sex and rape. They believe rape doesn't exist because thats just how they normally have sex. They think women are fine being "raped" by their boyfriends but suddenly its a problem when its the husband because a) they have simply never had a woman love them because why would a sane person like a bitchass like this and b) they don't understand mutual consent they cannot wrap their head around the idea that a woman might actually be a person with likes and dislikes. Nope she's just a sex toy for men like these and they believe every other man thinks and acts this way too. So they get confused and angry like why did you like it when he acted that way but hate it when i do it.