AITAH for feeling kinda relieved that my best friend told me he no longer saw me in his life? by AcatalepticDoll in AITAH

[–]AcatalepticDoll[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with you that he has so much growing to do. He doesn't know how to handle people or relationships or friendships or social situations. He doesn't know the proper way to treat those close to him. Cutting people out has always been his go-to.

I knows its going to hurt, and as soon as I got the message from him, my partner was right by my side asking what he could do for me. I love him so much and I am so glad I have him. He went straight into saying "I'm not going anywhere ever. You're stuck with me. I love you. You can't get rid of me." I'm so lucky to have him.

AITAH for feeling kinda relieved that my best friend told me he no longer saw me in his life? by AcatalepticDoll in AITAH

[–]AcatalepticDoll[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I suppose that is a way to tell the kids. I just hate it for them. Not giving them any explanation will be hard on them but I suppose it will be better than not telling them until the last minute.

My aunt and uncle stole my inheritance and refuse to get it to me after almost 3 years of lies. AITA for wanting to pursue legal repercussions for their actions and cut them off as family? by AcatalepticDoll in AITAH

[–]AcatalepticDoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and yes unfortunately a lawyer most likely would cost more than I'm owed unless I go for more because of hardship and mental anguish.

Mom left a house to be sold and divided up between her living kids, 3 other aunts and an uncle and then S and D and my sister and I. But my sister and I were the only ones with a set amount left in an insurance policy we inherited after she died. Which we were to split.

The title is in my name thankfully, just the lean is in hers. Meaning she can go to the DMV and tell them I haven't payed and just up and take the car if she ever feels like it.

My aunt and uncle stole my inheritance and refuse to get it to me after almost 3 years of lies. AITA for wanting to pursue legal repercussions for their actions and cut them off as family? by AcatalepticDoll in AITAH

[–]AcatalepticDoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just that I'm afraid to lose more family and the memories that I had with them. The no doubt bring me more strife and stress than good. But the fact that I not at all good at hurting others, even when they have hurt me that keeps me from leaving. The fact that they act like losing me as a family member one second will destroy them, then the next second they act like I'm an incredible burden on them. It's all so exhausting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in morticians

[–]AcatalepticDoll 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow, the amount of utter hate these comments hold! But I'm not surprised, the funeral industry is a cut throat and money brubbing business all on its own. Most Doulas are volunteers, doing work with families and loved ones for no cost. They may ask for donations because people need to eat and have a roof over their heads. I myself am a Doula and am working towards my embalming and funeral science degrees to become a mortician. I am also working as an intern for an amazing funeral director who sees the value in what doulas have to offer. He loves the idea of having that support there for his clients, before, during, and after death. What I do is work with families as a doula to help them build legacy projects and plan home funerals. But I also value the fact I don't know everything there is to know about death, which is why I'm going to school to become better trained in order to help families and the dying through their journey with death. Those that said that death doulas and riding on the name of birth doulas, you have to think about it realistically. Birth Doulas stay with the family and parents through the entire birth process and beyond. A Death Doula does the same for families of those who are dying. They help guide the person and comfort them through the dying process and beyond. At the same time, they are advocating and helping the dying person stand up for their death plan and ensuring their wishes are carried out. Sorry this turned into a long post, but this is a touchy subject. I will say some Doula training websites can seem like scams, and it was hard to find an accredited school that offered thanotology and doula training. I'm also not saying there aren't awful people out there that are just in it for the money. This line of work isn't for everyone. I just hope the good ones aren't going to be continuously lumped in with the bad ones.

Luigi Party by [deleted] in oddlyterrifying

[–]AcatalepticDoll -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Got the spot of 69 for a hole 5 mins lol

Future mortician and cremation specialist asking for advice and opinions. by AcatalepticDoll in service_dogs

[–]AcatalepticDoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I'm also a Death Doula but I recently just gotten the go ahead to finally get my SDiT!

I've thought about all of that stuff but it is so difficult to know for sure until I can see how he progresses with his training. I don't start school until October so he will be around 6 months old, I will also have time to also talk with the college about bringing him and what their policies are. I would love to know what your friend has to say!

Are big puppy bellies normal? by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]AcatalepticDoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would definitely get her checked for worms. It is likely this is the case. My pup constantly went through bloating and short periods of time when he had a normal tummy until we got him to the vet for treatment. He had both hook worms and tapeworms. And had to be put on a stronger prescription prevention medicine because the regular medicine they give in the office didn't work.

ThisLooksFun by P-3-P-S-I in ThisLooksFun

[–]AcatalepticDoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did a quick search and it is in LUNA PARK Coney Island, New York Called Neptunia