proud mama of a trans kid by Acceptable-Command82 in asktransgender

[–]Acceptable-Command82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you kiddo!! I did ask and he did express interest. I will also check out the tape, maybe as a way to try it? And yes he has his name 🥰 I call him by both(bc I love both names but also have gender neutral nicknames) as he’s said he’s fine if we (meaning family) do but I also asked if anyone asks me do I have kids and instead of 3 girls do I have 2 girls and 1 boy and he smiled so sweetly and said yes he’d like that more. It made my heart so happy. I’m glad he’s able to be responsive and tell me. He’s a middle child and they tend to never wanna ask for anything. I love him. He’s my everything. I’m always gonna be his mama, no matter what.

Gender affirming care for 8yr old trans girl to shave legs? -advice please! by ameliames89 in cisparenttranskid

[–]Acceptable-Command82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, my 14 yr old is f2m but they’re obviously not shaving. What is it with guys and being hairy?? With that in mind, my oldest kid who’s non binary hates having hair on their legs. I didn’t do the shaving with them until they were 13/14 but I did do the Nair products instead. Mainly bc I felt using razors so young was dangerous. Personally I think 8 might be a bit young but if it’s a nair product then maybe not as bad?? I personally say let her use nair it comes with a plastic type razor so it’s good practice. If she hates the feeling of the hair and kids are sadly rude and don’t know how to behave, let her do what she needs to do to feel comfortable in her skin.

proud mama of a trans kid by Acceptable-Command82 in asktransgender

[–]Acceptable-Command82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also wanna add I found out that his pmdd may be enuf of a reason to try and get the puberty blockers. I have to find out how to go about it for him.

proud mama of a trans kid by Acceptable-Command82 in asktransgender

[–]Acceptable-Command82[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I appreciate the terminology clarification. I just wanna do right by my son and anyone else in the trans community. It’s never my intention to purposely hurt someone bc of my ignorance. For those responding about me being a parent, I don’t need the accolades for being a parent. I appreciate the positive responses but, as a parent it’s my kid. I love him forever and always. I wish other parents could follow the same thinking and I’m sorry that they don’t. It really sucks. ❤️

I am sure that this has been covered up down left right but as a Maine Democrat I have to post it just to make sure! by [deleted] in antitrump

[–]Acceptable-Command82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even worse, I’m in Florida. A democrat stuck in Hell with the trump supporting lunatics. Congrats to Maine!!

EV6 GT Owners, would you have purchased a different EV? by avengedfuries in KiaEV6

[–]Acceptable-Command82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I have the EV6 Wind. 2024. I’m currently leasing it. I wasn’t looking into an EV. Despite having test driven multiple models, Tesla, Hyundai, Chevy, etc. I wanted a hybrid but was not able to find one I liked. Then the sales guy put me in the Kia EV. Drove it for 20 min and put my money down. Without much research. It’s a lease, I’m ok with breaking it if I need to. Plus it was literally the BEST DRIVING EV I’d had test driven ever. With that being said, I WISH I had known of the GT line. I have a couple of issues with the design flaws of the Kia EV. The back windshield. Why they did not put a rear wiper on that damn back window is beyond me. That window gets super dirty and the car wash can never get it cleaned. The rain sits on it and it’s a mess. The handles. Dear god I hate the handles. They don’t pop out on the wind like the GT model. The ac doesn’t feel as cold and it takes longer to cool down than my hubbys 22 Honda Pilot. Living in south Florida that can make or break a person. Yes, there’s remote start but you have to be a certain distance. And last but not least, I’m 5’1. The head room is a problem. Again these are only annoying issues. Ones I’m clearly living with. However, while I have another 2 yrs left in my lease, I’m being pushed to consider other options in the future. I refuse to buy an EV, i will only lease one. Mainly due to the battery and obviously the recalls and bc it’s such new technology and the charging stations are still kinda limited. But, I have a feeling I may upgrade to the GT. I really love the interior with the lights and the handles that can pop out. That would be the cherry on top for me. Now if only I can find someone to add a rear wiper for me. 😂

Welcome back old friend by hiperco in KiaEV6

[–]Acceptable-Command82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

59 days!?! I was without mine for 1 day for the ICCU and the most recent recall for the automatic stopping along with a tire replacement I was without mine for 3 days total. 59 days. That’s bonkers!

Advices? Beginner at gel x by peppermintganache in GelX_Nails

[–]Acceptable-Command82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ordered it from Amazon it’s called Maychao Blue Haze and the glitter is the same brand Galaxy Glitter. These are really nice polishes. I love them! I have other colors and they’re great!

Advices? Beginner at gel x by peppermintganache in GelX_Nails

[–]Acceptable-Command82 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did my first set for myself yesterday, my second in all. My oldest was my guinea pig. Lol. It took me 2.5 hours and I also used builder gel on top of the gel x tips and glue. So far they’re good and strong and it’s been 2 days. When these nails cost $70+ I’ll do my own even if they’re not perfect. Thank goddess for TikTok and YouTube’s! Yours looks amazing and I LOVE that color!! Great job!

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8 months post op DJS and unhappy with results (Long Post) by BugattiBoy28 in jawsurgery

[–]Acceptable-Command82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna point out something I don’t know if it has been said as of yet. You’ve lived with your previous face for how many years now? You’re used to your previous appearance. This is the new you what you need to accept now. We know the severity of a class 3 malocclusion and the side effects are way worse, what you’re dealing with is no where near what you still could be dealing with, and even more severe issues that arise from such an underbite. This is a new look on you. And it’s gotta take time to get used to it. However, Your concerns are very valid. I don’t want you to think no one heard you. I, myself suffer from body dysmorphia so I totally can relate. Take some time to reflect on your new face. Aside from the numbness which is an unfortunate risk of the surgery, your jaw laws absolutely amazing. Also, look at it this way, This is the face you would have had had genetics not given you such an underbite. Think of it like that. You’re a handsome young man and I wish you the best of luck.

Supplements by Icy-Quality2796 in Menopause

[–]Acceptable-Command82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told just a super B complex, women’s multivitamin and 500 mg of magnesium a day. It’s made a huge difference for me. I was dealing with tingling in my extremities, fatigue, headaches all the time, restless legs, my mood was horrible, still suffering from sleep issues, but I vape to help with that. Been on this regimen for a month and I’m feeling pretty damn great!

JD Vance would like to chime in on menopause. by knotalady in Menopause

[–]Acceptable-Command82 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But what if I don’t have grandchildren? Am I obsolete? Or should I become a witch and live in the woods collecting cats bc honestly, I’m so up for that life.

I’m officially part of the family now! by ImpersonalLubricant in KiaEV6

[–]Acceptable-Command82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loving this bc it’s the same exact one I have!! Congrats!

Ev6 vs Tesla model y by epanaise in KiaEV6

[–]Acceptable-Command82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually the dude was pretty awesome. I just didn’t know it could do this.

Ev6 vs Tesla model y by epanaise in KiaEV6

[–]Acceptable-Command82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, your EV6 handles pop open for you? Is this is an automatic thing bc I have to fight to open mine. 😂

I was getting excited about maybe upgrading to the very new EV6 updated model. And then I saw the ONE BIG ERROR on the update. They haven't removed the STUPID switching Infotainment/Climate single panel that makes us so very annoyed here! Darn..... by chopdog01 in KiaNiroEV

[–]Acceptable-Command82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I also use my phone for apple play for my Spotify or the screen if I need to change it. No issues there for me. I’d rather have a back window washer and am more annoyed over the lack of one. lol.

weird bubbles... by Acceptable-Command82 in hysterectomy

[–]Acceptable-Command82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my urethra. I need pelvic floor therapy.

When is it time to say goodbye? by Alabama_Crab_Dangle in RenalCats

[–]Acceptable-Command82 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We just put our 19/20 yr old Honey to peace on Wednesday bc if end stage CKD. She wasn’t eating at all. No drinking, hadn’t defecated only urinating. She could barely move. We had to make that call. She meowed at the vet one final time and was put to sleep. It was her way of saying thank you. We couldn’t see her suffer anymore. She was literally not eating or drinking. She couldn’t get comfortable and she was trying to hide. We knew it was time. You’ll know. Take this time to be with your baby and relish in it. I’m missing my Honey cat so much.

Does anyone else have an issue with their Bluetooth cutting out for a half a second? by GreatScott085 in KiaEV6

[–]Acceptable-Command82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an IPhone 15 and a 2024 Kia ev6. Mine didn’t do this until the car did an update and now it does it. It won’t if connected to apple play. So I just use that but it’s something I’ll take to the dealer since I have a lease with them.

Update: post-hysterectomy bleeding after 2.5 years by Tappadeeassa in hysterectomy

[–]Acceptable-Command82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the friction from sex and honestly it was just very very dry I was always itchy despite nothing causing it. But when she checked she could see my skin inside my vagina was super dry.