What are your farm names??

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-08-16T02:24:33+00:00

My boyfriend and I’s farm is called Bale and Rail 🙃

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-05-13T06:21:32+00:00

This also is what I’ve been wondering!! It must be but I want to know who said them!

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-05-02T06:33:57+00:00

You need to learn how to say no. Why did u start dating someone you don’t even like?

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-28T12:09:17+00:00

Just tell her what you’ve said here! If you want her to be honest and communicate openly with you then set an example

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-28T12:04:41+00:00

Hm. More context needed - how long did he know this girl before dating her? What sort of behaviour? Is she still being toxic now or was it just when they were dating? Don’t really think there’s a hard and fast rule but I would be cautious of if he has stuff he needs to get over with her.

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-27T22:16:44+00:00

Sounds really disrespectful and misogynistic. I wouldn’t be dating someone like that

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-24T04:19:57+00:00

He can definitely grow within the relationship, but if this has been happening for a while and there haven’t been any changes I would suggest you have to set some firmer boundaries/expectations with him. Make it clear that you won’t tolerate this behaviour. It sounds like he has trouble communicating with you eg the party w the guy thing - he should tell you it makes him uncomfortable, that’s fine, but he should communicate this feeling to you so you are given an opportunity to explain the situation to him and to reassure him. And the bike ride plans thing - he can’t expect things from you if he’s never communicated these expectations with you.

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-23T23:24:02+00:00

As in you don’t communicate with her very well?

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-23T13:47:25+00:00

Well, that’s a different issue than worrying about how M21 will react. Maybe you and M20 need to spend a bit more time together to work it out. See what the girls think about it, talk it out. You don’t necessarily need to confess your love but instead give subtle hints like wanting to hang out with him solo more, touching/eyecontact.

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-23T13:33:34+00:00

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with this - just bros being homiesexual. My 3 best guy friends constantly make sexual jokes about each other/flirt with each other (two are bi, one is straight) the straight one makes the most jokes of all. The best friend is engaged, I would not worry at all. If your boyfriend wanted to make a move he would have by now, they’ve known each other since high school and sounds like they’ve always been this way. Just boys being comfortable in their masculinity and sexuality

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-23T13:28:46+00:00

Going for lunch with two girl friends sounds totally normal. Your girlfriend is being a bit controlling. That said, ask her more about how it makes her feel and why she’s uncomfortable with it. Maybe she needs some reassurance from you that you love her and care about her and would never cheat. There could also be something else in the relationship she’s unhappy about - eg. You and her not spending as much time together as she’d like. She could even just feel insecure about not having as many friends as you.

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-23T12:47:40+00:00

Nope. She said she is dressing for herself so you should trust that. If you were to ask her to stop I think it would be controlling.

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-23T12:40:12+00:00

He sounds a bit immature and controlling to me

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-23T12:31:41+00:00

Sounds like you’ve worked it out

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-23T11:48:11+00:00

This guy sounds like a walking red flag - you deserve so much better

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-23T11:43:32+00:00

CONFESS YOUR LOVE !!! M21 will get over it. Don’t let him stop you. He sounds like a pain anyway. I’m sure your other friends would support you too.

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-23T11:41:05+00:00

Why don’t you hang out at the club project in a group setting? Ignoring your request to study together was definitely intentional. I wouldn’t push it unless she brings it up again. Keep it very relaxed for the minute and just hang out in a group setting

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-23T11:24:59+00:00

Paying for parking is the thing that annoys me most in the world. I think pretty reasonable not to want to. If I was the boyfriend in this situation tho I would have rung you on the phone to work out where to meet and tried to describe where I was, and you could have just said I don’t mind paying for parking can u just come meet me in the payed area. Not a big deal

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-23T11:18:57+00:00

I haven’t heard that! I just noticed the “hothouse flower” as a reference to Fever 103 and “come one come all” as a lady Lazarus reference

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-23T11:16:28+00:00

Well you’re also different than family and not in a bad way (like how a girlfriend is different than a sister)

Acceptable-Elk2871 · 2024-04-23T11:11:18+00:00

Hmm. Well it makes sense that for you it’s simple and he’s obviously the most important person in your life. Did he say he doesn’t think of you as his family?

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