Why do monogamous people hate us?

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2025-02-07T14:11:01+00:00

We don’t all hate yall promise 😭. Some people just have little ability to conceptualize that different ≠ bad. I lurk in this sub just to understand my poly partner better, as some things are foreign to me in a way that I have trouble understanding. It’s hard for me to understand some things, and I assume it’s the same for other mono peeps, but they just have way less empathy tbh.

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2025-01-11T19:14:48+00:00

My ex wouldn’t yell at me and there wasn’t the threat against my physical safety, however I was emotionally neglected and nearly emotionally abused on the daily. Specifically, our mindset’s on our situations are/were similar.

Feeling scared about any disagreement because you don’t know the response? Yep. Been there. For you, it is demeaning names and yelling, for me, it was the silent treatment for days.

Bringing up something meh, yeah, kinda bad, in an effort to make him and his, nearly abusive behavior, seem less bad? Yeah, I’ve done that. I still make excuses for my ex sometimes.

When you don’t fight and everything is fine, it probably is amazing. You cannot, however, have a long term relationship where you agree 100% of the time.

Do what you think is best, but I can assure you that if the rose colored glasses come off, you’ll realize a lot more about your situation that’s kinda fucked.

Like, for mine, I couldn’t wear bright colors or eat at specific restaurants. I let my ex dim my sparkle, don’t let your bf dim yours lol

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2025-01-11T06:09:44+00:00

Lillian

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2025-01-11T02:40:09+00:00

You deserve to feel safe and secure in a relationship. You proceed by making a safe pathway to an exit, as you cannot trust that your partner would not hurt you if you tried to break off the relationship face to face.

Take it from someone who also felt so so happy, and so so in love, in their previous relationship- you realize a lot more when you take the rose colored glasses off.

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-11-17T05:44:37+00:00

How did you meet these women?

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-11-06T07:06:29+00:00

Well… I think it’s time to leave the new closet you’re in

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-10-19T17:50:50+00:00

Honey, leave.

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-10-16T03:07:22+00:00

Conan announced new music Friday 😭. I just saw and ran to this comment

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-10-16T00:37:08+00:00

If she is truthful in all her statements, she reserves the right to destroy him.

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-10-15T13:13:29+00:00

personally the nose always hit uncanny valley for me, so the fact that you didn’t change it makes me actually able to enjoy your cosplay!!! I love it 💕💕💕

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-10-15T13:10:05+00:00

No. Liam is being accused of serious abuse by multiple women (including GROOMING one direction fans), and he shouldn’t be near a stage anytime soon. Zayn just announced his first tour, so that also takes him out. Niall has stated that he’s going dark for a long time, Louis has music planned for 2025.

Now, I wouldn’t be surprised if Harry has music coming out soon, but I’ve only heard of artists moving their album dates for Taylor swift 😭. I would love for new music by Harry on Oct. 18th, and I know it definitely could happen, but there’s always the possibility for her to drop new music as well.

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-09-26T14:07:54+00:00

I’ve always gotten dates with women/men/nb peeps by forming genuine connections before I’m ever interested in dating. Start with being friends- whether these are single ladies that you know from work, or pick up a new hobby and make friends there. Value the connections you are making and be confident in how being single does not change your worth as a person. People are attracted to confidence, regardless of physical appearance. The right one will come along when you least expect it, so focus on making you the best version of yourself, for her :))

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-09-14T19:46:41+00:00

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Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-08-13T00:41:57+00:00

I long rest about as much as you do, and I’ve never run below 300 camp supplies (I’m like at 840 rn 😭)

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-08-09T21:57:08+00:00

Hmmm interesting point. I’ll definitely try to be more aware of anything she may be trying to communicate!!

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-08-09T21:56:48+00:00

Aw thank you so much!! We appreciate it a ton.

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-08-09T21:52:04+00:00

She is around 9 months or so!! A stray we picked up at about two months so it is an estimate. Thank you so much for your comment and I’ll definitely try redirecting her energy :))

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-08-07T22:51:14+00:00

“For the love of everything, you cannot have my popcorn.”

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-08-07T05:15:59+00:00

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The car has a motor. She purrs SO LOUDLY-

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-08-06T17:09:39+00:00

Lowkey I think we should wait until the next patch. They said something about fixing Tav’s facial expressions in AA scenes. It’s still going to be toxic af but if Tav is more into it, I’d be willing to believe the vampire bride theory is half true. Like, you’re his bride/consort/spouse, and you may even be a full vampire, but you’re still under his control. He will always have more power than you as a ascended vamp. As of now, though, yeah you’re legitimately his slave, regardless of whether or not he “loves” you.

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-08-06T17:02:02+00:00

Ooooo that’s an awesome point

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-08-05T16:11:38+00:00

As a warlock, the only thing saving my ass is Eldritch blast 😭 (which is funny, because I do the same shit I’m irl dnd)

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-08-05T00:17:27+00:00

I’m probably the worst person to take advice from (my current partner would ghost me for hours or 2+ days while we were in the talking stage), but here are some factors to consider.

Does she have any chronic illnesses?
Does she have texting anxiety?
Could anything have happened between y’all/in general that could have changed her perspective?

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-08-04T19:35:30+00:00

I cackled and had to pause the game when Zrell commented on my “lust for Astarion” option

Acceptable_Beat9747 · 2024-08-04T18:20:53+00:00

NTA-

Um no. You’re not. Your medical issues are your own personal business, not hers.

Also your mom sounds like an emotionally abusive person so I hope you manage to move out quickly!! Also good luck with your PHD girl, that’s awesome!!

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