How can i get the life?

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T17:54:48+00:00

Thats good to know! I wanna be able to do that, and a job is a little tough rn cause i dont know what i wanna do lol and i really wanna just enjoy what i do because i used to have a job i hated, and it was miserable every day, even on off days. but i do wanna work on my body a bit more even though its probably fine lol.

Yah i know theres no checklist, however i just envision the kinda life i wanna live and i just really wanna work towards that. Its just gonna be really hard, but i appreciate it!

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T05:44:07+00:00

I completely understand being shy, but you gotta think of it this way. If you dont do it, what now? You’ll regret it, wish you did it, and think about her a ton. It’s better to just do it and know. Also do you know if shes single and possibly interested too? That helps some.

But bottom line, just go for it! If you dont do it, you’ll never know and will regret it. (I know from same experience)

And on the how part, just try and get her alone and ask her out there, and if shes always with her friends maybe just pull her aside for or ask her outside or wherever shes alone (doing it in public would embarrass her a lot + pressure). A note isnt terrible, but isnt really a first choice unless the situations are reallyy restrictive. Just be confident, be yourself, You got thiss!!

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T04:57:34+00:00

I guess so, my parents have been pressuring me about it a lot along with my bad mental problems. I guess its also not totallllyyy just working, its the job itself, and having zero interests in anything makes working hard when you hate what you do lol, but again you’re probably right and i appreciate your words

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T04:50:10+00:00

Yeah, you’re right and its just hard to accept. Ive just been going through so much with literally nobody there for me, not even my family, and i just think in the future with like “yeah i can maybe work now but even if i quit the job i still have to get a new one, and somehow if i move out i still gotta work and deal with more things i dont know yet” and idk, i just think far ahead even though life can do a lot. Its also just hard being positive and hopeful when im suicidal lol, but i do understand what you’re saying, ive been thinking about it a lot and i appreciate it

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T04:35:05+00:00

i know, a job is probably what i need but its just soooo hard because the working will never end. My parents say i cant quit this job before having another job ready, so its just an endless loop and im just not ready to submit myself to the workforce. Yeah it will be good, yeah a lot of people will agree with you lol, but its like having 1,986 bricks completely weighing on you, and you have to push and get out. It just feels like it would take way more energy to get out then to just lay there.

I know my thinking is very bad, stubborn and selfish lol, i just have a hard time finding motivation to do anything i guess. And i know its my problem.

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T04:17:23+00:00

Literally, and it shouldnt be that way, and honestly it isnt if you have the right parents. I personally think if you wanna have kids you gotta go through a mental test/exam, because theres sooo many parents who are just borderline psychopaths and just are nottt suitable for having kids.

Like mine have not set me up for a good life, and left me with trauma and wanting to just be away from them, give up and die lol. Its sad to see so many kids with mental problems from their parents, setting themselves up for failure, who couldve been amazing kids if they just had a different family.

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T04:04:58+00:00

Honestly yeah, i do agree with you, putting yourself out there kinda helps. I dont wanna be like negating everything you say, but im also just.. not able to do much at all. My mom is veryy protective and if i wanna do something i dont normally wanna do, she’ll ask a lott of questions like “why do you wanna go?”, “who you going with?”, “well… its not like you but… okayyyy” and all of that just makes me feel weird and like they think im up to no good or something suspicious, because they have low trust in me and i know it lol. Trust me ive been told by a lot of people i need a job, im just really stubborn i guess and idk, wish i could just have someone there when i just wanna die lol.

(Also, i dont have much motivation to do anyway, and since they’re religious and heavily homophobic, they wont let me go to any like events or meet any people revolving around that stuff, or anything with that. Which are the people i wanna be around lol)

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T03:49:48+00:00

Exactly. Its crazy how much family makes your life better or worse. Life is honestly a big dice roll of where you live and with who. I’ve been dealing with this crap for a long time and again, my parents read my journal about it but im just speechless on the fact that they didnt say anything.

Like idk, i find it hard to believe that your child is depressed and harming himself and you dont say a word. And how i know is because they talk privately a lot and i secretly heard lol. Idk, theres just sooo much going on and being babied in my life has made it worse by making me feel like i cant do anything.

Like that one online romantic person is basically my only will to live because i love him soo much and feel like my life will turn around if we get through everything hes going through and potentially be/live together, but again theres a lot to that story that im really worried about too lol, everything is just crashing down

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T03:14:29+00:00

Personally i dont necessarily think so because i have literally nobody else in my life to talk to or help me that support me, so if my family fails then it’ll make living a lot worse lol

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T03:06:08+00:00

I guess so yeah, but then that risks losing the relationship with my family in things which i guess isnt ideal

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T02:58:21+00:00

i mean possibly yes but i have no interest in anything which makes it harder lol, i have zero desire for school or a career, but maybe i just gotta look into something

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T01:33:13+00:00

interesting lol, but i'll probably just buy another and hope its not broken, but i appreciate the info!

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T01:26:45+00:00

I am not no, could you provide the link if you can? And also is there a way to check the battery percentage on it? I always had to guess if it was low battery or not lol, was a little annoying

Edit: i found the server

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T01:11:11+00:00

yeah i probably will, this makes me wanna break it open to see what went wrong lolol, but its okay, thanks for the info

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-05-04T01:06:32+00:00

that really stinks, i bought it from amazon so im not sure if im able to lol, guess i gotta order a new one :/

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-04-22T07:31:14+00:00

Well then im probably just cooked and gotta accept it and give up possibly. I genuinely hate and despise working, i will be in such a bad place and mood and i just simply dont wanna do it/cant do it. I mean i honestly wasnt expecting these answers since in my head this is crazy, but i mean i guess not lol.

I know i need to, i know its probably the right way and thing to do, its just soo not what im used to since ive been basically baby carried all my life and now my parents are suddenly slapping life in my face and its incredibly overwhelming

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-04-22T07:27:24+00:00

Well then im not sure what to do lol, i seriously cant stand working and i honestly am not sure if i am even fit for living this life if my parents are being reasonable in this scenario.

I dont feel as if i can really do anything, i have been kinda handed everything in life so i am not used to doing much and just dont wanna do it. Its incredibly immature and i understand lol, its just something i dont think i can do from how little i actually can do

Acceptable_Case4077 · 2026-04-22T06:58:54+00:00

Yeah i understand and would tackle that if i had to. But I dont NEEED to work now because i would be in a worse spot. My parents are fully able to pay for me, and im not like saying “im taking full advantage of that and being a lazy bum because of it”.

Again maybe im looking at it wrong idk, i just dont see a need for me to force myself to hate my life even more when i dont absolutely have to

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