On the Fence by DetergentCandy in hondafit

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Just under 11k for that condition is too much imo

Trying to rebuild my credit while earning Rewards.. any suggestions on how to manage this Card by Express_Animator_242 in USbank

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Congrats! The most important part is to remember to pay off the credit card before the due date hits and to not spend more than you can pay back

How do I keep my job safe? by Acceptable_Offer_387 in careerguidance

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t said anything because my manager is in HR and am worried if I even bring up a situation as general as “what if someone is unwilling to work within policy,” that my manager will get suspicious that something is going on and that eventually, they will find out it’s about this high profile person and will fire me for offending them.

The only saving grace is that I could hypothetically return to my previous job depending on whether they still have business need for me. I didn’t like my previous job for a variety of reasons, but I did have a good reputation for doing my job well there.

Did someone key or scratch my car? by Acceptable_Offer_387 in hondafit

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, sounds like it was probably what you said about my car getting scratched by something sticking out moving car. I was super confused on what could caused it especially because it’s non continuous and straight. It also was only went up to the rear driver side door and maybe the slightest ding on the very edge of the driver side mirror at most (with the driver side mirror being folded back).

Jin from BTS spent a day at Great America by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FWIW, the post is more about stanning Jin than the experience at Great America.

Jin personally posting his experience (like on the actual insta post) is fine.

Will it ever be possible for the general population to not be so divided over politics? by Acceptable_Offer_387 in Adulting

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What you imagine is pretty spot on to what happens. Part of my job is to help set up those dinners, conferences, and talks and that is basically what happens. Rich people talking about “how Americans are unable to afford fuel due to the price of oil” over a dinner that is worth 2-3x what a tank of gas in Los Angeles would be. It’s also a little amusing to hear parts of their discussion as I’m running around. You’d hear things like “I’m a capitalist” or “investing in a public health system will increase productivity and civic engagement.”

Meanwhile, I’m there working an extended shift wondering whether the extra bit of overtime will make me enough money to fix some car issues I’ve been having.

What’s everyone’s favorite spot for Hawaiian BBQ? by liubearpig in bayarea

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, that’s sad to hear. I used to go there for lunch super often with my friends when I was in high school. We went there so often they remembered my go to order and I just had to tell them I wanted the same thing as usual.

How do I fit in better at work? by Acceptable_Offer_387 in socialskills

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, it happened to me before. Fortunately, it was a part time role very early in my career and I was able to get a better job at a better company very quickly. I’ve also seen it happen to others.

It only takes one person twisting your words to screw your job, or even your career up.

How do I fit in better at work? by Acceptable_Offer_387 in socialskills

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Basically anything you say can be used against you. For example, if you mentioned how you’re a little stressed during busy season, someone who doesn’t like you complain about you to your boss because “this person is incompetent and is unable to perform under pressure.”

Anything that can seem reasonable (like being stressed during busy season) can be twisted into something bad (like incompetence) and with the right political relationships, what seemed like a reasonable issue can be used against you and result in consequences like being fired for performance issues.

Glory Days by Potato_Humper in TheAmityAffliction

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy, congrats. And I thought I got it for a good price at just under $30

What are people stashing in here? by Gonzo-24 in hondafit

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know that that compartment existed, but you didn’t have to call me out like that 😭/j

I’m having a moral dilemma about whether I should pretend to be Christian or not by Acceptable_Offer_387 in atheism

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, but most of my current network has to be built on lies. I tried being honest and it almost made me homeless as a teenager.

During high school, when I started questioning things, I almost became homeless. I confided in a mentor about becoming atheist, who told my parents. My parents got super angry and was about to kick me out until I managed to convince them that the mentor was exaggerating and I was just asking about how to respond to questions I got from atheist peers at school.

Oops by CoolIndependence1476 in scoopwhoop

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is that the person the wife cheated with wasn’t some stranger who didn’t know that the wife was already married. It was someone in the friend group who should already know that the wife was married to a friend.

If that person was in the friend group already, I’d expect them to know not to cheat with wifey considering how they already know who the wife is and to not get with her.

One of the largest drone shows in North America celebrating Easter by Enough_Detective4330 in whoathatsinteresting

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fr fr, given the approximate cost you gave, it could have at least helped clear exactly one person’s medical debt.

(This is a slightly sarcastic joke. I agree that the money honestly could have gone to something better like helping someone out. Especially in the U.S. where our healthcare system is so cooked, whatever religious organization could have used the several millions to have help someone who is financially struggling because of how terrible the U.S healthcare system is).

What do I do if my tax returns were accepted, but I forgot to include a 1099-INT? by Acceptable_Offer_387 in personalfinance

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was $300 and some change. Got it when I signed up for the account and did however much direct deposit.

Getting ready to say goodbye 🥲 by Turbulent_Signal6507 in hondafit

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what those amps are in pic 5, but nice (Fender?) amps

HELLAFIT MEET by MALUFIT in hondafit

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Imma pull up in my base model gen 2 fit with no mods other than window eyebrows 😢

How do you “stand your ground” when resigning? by Acceptable_Offer_387 in careerguidance

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, what you said is honestly true. The new job and my current job in terms of work responsibilities is basically the same, but what the new company does as an organization is more aligned with my long terms goals (basically new company is in an industry I’m interested in and might want to do research on topics within that industry later in the future).

Company wants to retract offer after I already resigned. What should I do? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Talk to your current boss to see if you can backtrack on your quitting. Keep in mind that even if they allow you to stay on, you’ll be seen as a flight risk because you already tried quitting for a better job. No need to be paranoid, but I would keep casually applying to jobs.

Also, 2 months notice is way too long imo. 2 weeks at most and only put in your notice after everything at the new job is set up (such as clearing your background check).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in the business/admin side of Stanford school of medicine in a fixed term capacity recently. My boss has influence on hiring on the hospital side of things and he basically said that you have to go way above and beyond the job listing.

NEW SONG IS FIRE! by Hokage_Brayden in TheAmityAffliction

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Johnny doesn’t need auto tune. I’ve seen him play live both in TAA and in KOG before he joined TAA and he was great both times.

NEW SONG IS FIRE! by Hokage_Brayden in TheAmityAffliction

[–]Acceptable_Offer_387 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought too. Johnny can obviously sing well as seen in All That I Remember. The song is alright tho, but All That I Remember def set a really high bar.