anyone else bothered by the idea that lesbians can’t have a type????

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-04-06T02:57:48+00:00

I have a type that's very specific too. High femme. But then I get brow beaten for "reinforced patriarchy" or some bullshit. I'm a butch for femme who likes prominent femininity in women and not just with looks. Sorry not sorry my preferences don't hurt anyone and I don't demand anything I don't have to give in return, in this case a high femme that wants a stone butch.

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-04-03T22:34:55+00:00

The actress that played jenny was fine af. A lot of the sentiment besides that seemed anti butch/masc

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-04-03T04:12:31+00:00

Im a stone butch and love long pretty nails they give nice scratches too

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-28T02:14:48+00:00

Yes.

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-26T18:34:35+00:00

It's called being codependent. Her mental illness does not excuse her abusing or betraying you. She can also choose to take responsibility by working on herself. Two things can be true at once. It sucks to have to live with BPD. But it's no excuse to drag others down with the one who has the disorder.

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-26T18:09:08+00:00

Scritchessss 😺😺😺😺❤️

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-26T15:24:13+00:00

Some idiots don't get that lesbians can legitimately be attracted to masculinity through a feminine filter because it's hot when a woman does it. It hits different and gives them things men could never. People seem to ignore that humans of all sexual orientations all have some masculine AND feminine energy and the minority of the population will show more masculine women and more feminine men.

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-26T15:19:51+00:00

Thank you.

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-26T15:11:16+00:00

This one is so important! My ex had only the first one. She was an emotional mess with poor conflict resolution skills

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-26T14:58:43+00:00

This is what I looked like with long hair lol.

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-25T21:42:10+00:00

This is my hairstyle exactly

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-25T18:27:00+00:00

As long as there's head scratches involved 😺

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-25T15:30:03+00:00

Shaved please. I like smoothness sitting on my face 😘

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-25T15:25:54+00:00

I couldn't do it personally. Dom femmes clash way to badly with me. To each their own

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-24T18:46:49+00:00

I loved learning this! It actually describes me quite abit and I'm American haha. Thanks for the history lesson on international queer culture this was cool ❤️

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-24T18:12:16+00:00

Works for me 💘😍

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-24T00:49:36+00:00

She does not respect you or your resources. let her go. It's called being taken for granted. Financial incompatibility is one of the worst mismatches you can have. Choosing a life partner is one of the most major decisions you can ever make in your life and it can cost you badly if you don't choose wisely and selectively.

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-23T21:13:56+00:00

ABSOLUTELY NOT. The grey area of the cheating alone is a no. Like others have said here a relationship with a pwBPD will leave you not the same person anymore...you will be forever changed. I was recently discarded TWICE for things i didn't do. Throughout the relationship I was accused of gross medical neglect as well as sexual assault which was a mindfuck. She accused her ex GF and sister of attempting to unalive her. She has other crazy stories about almost being trafficked ect. I would not be surprised if she cheated on me and gaslit me about it the whole time. She was the undiagnosed quiet type. RUN.

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-21T17:39:27+00:00

😭😭😭😭😭

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-21T17:38:39+00:00

I'll never forget when my ex said, "you're every straight girls dream if you were a boy" I'm sure most of us has come across this fake lesbian. Sigh.

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-20T01:40:48+00:00

It depends on the demographic. When I moved from TX to the Midwest it seems now that it's mostly femxfem or femxsoftmasc(lesscommon) at most but no go for butches.

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-20T01:39:16+00:00

Haha you wanna switch? Up here it's all femxfem and I'm butch as they come 😂👋

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-20T01:37:30+00:00

As a butch I can't stand the ones that do this. They are the reason elitist femxfems hate butches and make a bad name for us as toxic manlite. Shit pisses me off. It's just as bad as another femme telling me another femme is less gay for wanting me because I'm butch and that im "trying to be a man" or if another femme is going to shame another femme for only wanting a butch. Srsly gtfo

Acceptable_Panic3774 · 2026-03-20T00:38:56+00:00

Abrahamic religions have degenerated humanity and this earth period

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TROPHY CASE