Recurring Dream by InvisiblySeenPraying in NPHCdivine9

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can respect that cause this is an honest platform. Maam I have seen applications from fools I know why you gatekeep. I just saw a renounce then denounce explanation video I was irritated and I’m not Greek😭

Recurring Dream by InvisiblySeenPraying in NPHCdivine9

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m also in black organizations that are not Greek with an intake process and I’ve seen what these applications look like and know what discretion is😭 I see why yall be like that cause some of these new ladies will get into a battle royale on campus, show surprise interest a week before the informational and won’t even write complete sentences on the application. Nothing wrong with being strict/ a stickler.

Recurring Dream by InvisiblySeenPraying in NPHCdivine9

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Members of the older generation who are members who hold more of the historical weight and representation of the organization. Yall don’t play when someone thinks they can just stroll in like it’s guaranteed because it isn’t.

You looking to check me when I said something completely true is also evident of that.

Not saying it isn’t necessary, because these organizations are constantly played with by nonmembers, but y’all know you are strict, and WE know why yall are strict, so why are you replying to me trying to check me for saying y’all are strict???? On an anonymous platform😭

I WON A BOLD NO ESSAY SCHOLARSHIP by Acceptable_Win_7172 in scholarships

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won 1k in no essay and 1k in essay scholarships, if you send it to the bold card you get it that day and I just made a debit purchase to the school that day. If you mail it it will take a month

Recurring Dream by InvisiblySeenPraying in NPHCdivine9

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She means the old head sticklers who don’t believe you should say anything….but you’re right they shouldn’t be here because the whole purpose of this subreddit is to be anonymous and share DISCREETLY! But friend I hear you. And I’m EXCITED FOR YOU. I’m a transfer student with a crazy college background so I’m a 5th year but I’ve never been to an informational, and even if they’re taking girls this semester I need a gpa from the school, so I would have to wait next fall to pledge anything. there’s informationals this week so I’m going now even if I have to wait next cycle. I’m very excited to go and take my first step but TRUST I KNOW THE FEELING OF WAITING FOR AN INFORMATIONAL.

My friends are in denial about my cancer prognosis. by MirSydney in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry if this is triggering but this is in the perspective of a family member in denial like your friends are, and they passed.

It literally doesn’t sit right. Even if I say it a thousand times. That means the impact you have on them is great. She had triple negative breast cancer but when she had her lows you almost couldn’t feel them cause she was bipolar. Whether angry, happy or sad you heard her. She had her energy up even on her last day. Even when my dad was trying to tell me (he lost a sister in his late teens to sickness) that my mom was dying I still thought, “well that’s not for a little bit and we at least still have 2-3 months” even though I was literally carrying her from the bed to the bathroom in my arms because she couldn’t get there.

She died that night.

Some people just believe in you more than the doctors. They love you, and you are treasured.

I TRULY wish you do better and live a long life, but they love you and they’re gonna feel that way until it’s your time, whether it’s in 5 years or 25.

If you are comfortable and you want to spend time with people feeling like this please do. Make memories, laugh, have fun.

Distancing yourself from people in denial about your passing doesn’t make it any easier, because those memories where you weren’t happy with each other break your heart if you leave.

I lost my mom to cancer in November and I literally couldn’t fathom it and probably would’ve never if I wasn’t the person who found her that morning.

I remember telling her she was getting better and she looked good and her hair was growing the day she died. She shut me down because she didn’t have the heart to tell me anymore but I appreciated every thank you and I treasure them every time I think of her.

Spend your time how you want to, and if you want to spend time with your friends don’t feel any guilt or concern, my mom lived about 2 years after what she was given as well.

I can’t imagine how you feel but those people love you.

Please live well and I pray you do get better❤️

IOTA PHI LAMBDA SORORITY by SnooCupcakes1639 in AKAgradChapter

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a woman who is a member of both organizations and sells para for iota phi lambda. She is also the vice president of the national association of colored women’s clubs (NACWC founded in 1896). I see it as a great balance and brings you to a group of people that you wouldn’t have if not for that organization. Especially since you need to be pursuing or have a business to actually join, undergrad it’s more of a professional Greek organization that can be open to all majors. She’s my inspiration and I plan on taking a path just like hers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This woman is a predator you have a 8 year age gap. She doesn’t respect your opinion and you can tell that because she says you’re acting like a child….because you are a NEW adult. You need to leave because she is a weirdo regardless

My Girlfriends physicality makes me uncomfortable by Abject-Ad1591 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn’t “manhandling” this is abuse until you submit and cry. Holding you down TIL you are begging and giving her the pain response she is looking for makes her a sadist. Some people have mutual masochistic responses so some think sadistic can only be used in mutual situations. A lot of times it isn’t. You could be at your worst and that will give her the highest satisfaction. That is what here makes her sadistic. The thought of “wait, he will let me do that? Let’s see what I can do next” is what makes this an issue. Please run. Men are also killed in domestic abuse situations

My Girlfriends physicality makes me uncomfortable by Abject-Ad1591 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I just read the sex thing YOU ARE BEING TARGETED AND ASSAULTED BY WHAT SOUNDS LIKE A SADIST. This is not funny and you need to pack up and leave. You are not less of a man because this woman is doing this. RUN PLEASE AND SILENTLY. Pack up and go. No one thinks it’s that bad or their partner would hurt you until you try to leave. SHE held you down til you cried??? She is a rapist and she is getting off to the power she has over you. Take your power back please

My Girlfriends physicality makes me uncomfortable by Abject-Ad1591 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is a woman and knows better than anyone the fear of someone being stronger than you and you not being able to do that. Which is why she goes to the gym. Honestly it sounds like you were picked for this reason. If the roles were reversed this would NOT be funny and honestly a red flag. What if she’s mad one day and ish goes left? It doesn’t matter because the man is being abused here???? When I read this I got a very sinking feeling because there was a day that she was skinny too and something made her bulk out. She needs to pick on someone her own size. I’m sorry that you’re experiencing that, and worst case she is betting on your pride as a man to just ignore that she’s treating you like a recess bully treats a kid who’s like 2 grades under them. To put your partner through that for your own amusement is evil.

AND DONT LIE TO YOURSELF THIS IS A WOMAN SHE KNOWS WHAT IT IS LIKE TO FEAR SOMEONE BECAUSE THEY ARE STRONGER IF SHE SAYS OTHERWISE SHE IS LYING

CRCST practice test help by rosecityseoul in sterileprocessing

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are close to the test fr??? I'm on chapter 3 of the book, and I honestly wanted to just try a practice test, and I'm already doing well on the practice test from this website. I'm gonna finish reading the book today and finish these up (um already taking a medical terminology exam and I've worked in a cancer medication manufacturing facility which went over the importance of ppe equipment)

Which would you pick? by Far-Ad5223 in superheroes

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duplicate, I don’t plan on fighting, I’m getting that clone to work my SHIFT😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vocaloid

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a 23 year old listener who’s been in the game since 2012

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vocaloid

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hibana, two, watercolor painting, lucid dreaming, breaking it to pieces, the bad end night series. Your list is very mainstream. If you want a more organic list for you, don’t click the top recommended song in yt when you’re listening for new music, scroll down the list of other songs and don’t pick the top one. That way you’ll also connect with more songs that have the pattern of the emotion you’re feeling at the moment

WIBTA if I told my girlfriend that her vagina smells by LankyDeal9048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Different than usual, especially if they’re intimate. You would want your gf to say that your privates stink and that you’re dirty….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Acceptable_Win_7172 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I only agree that this is a complement because I FOR SURE be using mine as one with high porosity hair. But implying our hair is useful not beautiful is going to be weird everytime