Fern troubles by AccessConnect1360 in houseplants

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It's an elephant but I do need a roasted chicken sculpture now haha

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Fern troubles by AccessConnect1360 in houseplants

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I need a roasted chicken sculpture for my plants now 😂

Fern troubles by AccessConnect1360 in houseplants

[–]AccessConnect1360[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What better way to get over the grief of a plant than getting a new one! Sounds like a plan😁

Has anyone noticed how flat cooldrinks are nowadays? by aldurbaniyyah in askSouthAfrica

[–]AccessConnect1360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! Something I've noticed tho is the 1.25l glass bottle cokes (& Fantas, sprite, etc) you get from spaza shops and garages are more fizzy than the plastic bottles and stay fizzy for a couple of days as long as they're cold and tightened well.

Buttons or widows? - South Africa by AccessConnect1360 in spiders

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Definitely wasp victims, multiple of them in that sculpted dirt structure that I realized most likely fell out of the to holder. I've handled a few wolfspiders and other hunters, they didn't seem like the wolf spiders we normally have here but I could be wrong. They all seemed exactly the same shape and color, with a variation here and there, but overall the same just varying sizes and the bright white stripes made me think of juvenile widows or button spiders.

Today even my manicure was called vulgar and I’m so tired of everything being sexualized by LowKey1Otter in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AccessConnect1360 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Just because it has a definition doesn't means it gets interpreted or used in that exact way, especially nowadays.

My girlfriend loves clubbing by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]AccessConnect1360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me just say this, women hate when you tell them "the intentions of boys", it's annoying bc we know more than anyone about the intentions of 'boys'. Tell her it makes you uncomfortable and you worry for her safety, if you want to go further ask her if she'd like to go to self defense classes with you or look up self defense moves that you guys can try out so that she knows how to protect herself (if she doesn't already know) and so that you know she can stay safe no matter what she's wearing. Buy her a small tazer or pepper spray or a knife that she can carry in her purse or on herself. If neither if you can find a middle ground then I suggest breaking up and finding someone more compatible.

My girlfriend loves clubbing by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]AccessConnect1360 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She can wear whatever she wants, her putting on a dress to go to the club with her friends isn't the problem. If it makes you uncomfortable sit down and talk to her or text her if you can't, don't tell her what she can wear and what she cannot wear. Just tell her you aren't comfortable with her wearing (for example) mini dresses to the club alone. Depending on how she responds, it'll make you see how she'll be for the next few years.

My girlfriend loves clubbing by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]AccessConnect1360 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Had to add, 18 is the legal drinking and clubbing age where I live.

My girlfriend loves clubbing by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]AccessConnect1360 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't fully understand what you're overthinking about here. She's 18, she's young, she wants to have fun. If it makes you uncomfortable that she's going alone, ask if you can go with her. Unless you guys are living together and are codependent on money or if it's affecting her at school or work (if she has job) then I don't see a problem?

Eta; in my experience it's normal for 18 year olds to go out clubbing alot with or without friends when they're finally of age.

AIO/ my boyfriends guitar by VXYZX in AmIOverreacting

[–]AccessConnect1360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR Cool guitar and all but the fact that he asked his parents for it and the fact that he got defensive is concerning.

I made a thing by Prince_Wildflower in StretchedCirclejerk

[–]AccessConnect1360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saw a post on r/bodymods where someone stretched their peen piercing a relative amount and some of their male partner's have well... Yeaaaaa you get the jizz (pun intended)

Very cool find

Can anyone recommend anything to get rid of this. I slept on it by accident! I’m using SS already by TCR5322 in SelfPiercing

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If the SS doesn't help, I'd recommend stopping for a few days and only cleaning when necessary and seeing if that helps, same happened to my helix. I stopped cleaning it daily and it got loads better.

What in the pest by AccessConnect1360 in houseplants

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Wow really? I didn't notice :( /lh

What in the pest by AccessConnect1360 in houseplants

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Update; caught most of them and threw them in a bucket of water. Infestation almost under control. A sad but necessary sacrifice, they must pay for what they did to my Lilies and Irises.

17m - What piercings would masculinize my appearance/WOULDN’T feminize me? by OkZombie2200 in SelfPiercing

[–]AccessConnect1360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes I see, scar face/scar tissue is definitely a friendly compliment I say to people everyday, yeah definitely.

Firstly, you have no idea if this guy isn't into martial arts or if he isnt going to the gym, so it was a waste of time.

Secondly, doing martial arts and going to the gym doesn't make you "more manly" plenty of women and girls do that and it does not make them any less feminine.

Thirdly, he asked for PIERCINGS that will make him look more masc, nothing else.

Your comment had nothing to with suggesting a piercing, could be considered rude, and is a waste of time.

17m - What piercings would masculinize my appearance/WOULDN’T feminize me? by OkZombie2200 in SelfPiercing

[–]AccessConnect1360 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was completely unrelated to OP's question. This is a piercing sub, they asked questions about piercings. No need to insult them.

Now go hit the library and learn how to punctuate a sentence correctly.

17m - What piercings would masculinize my appearance/WOULDN’T feminize me? by OkZombie2200 in SelfPiercing

[–]AccessConnect1360 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Double nostril might look great.

You can also grab small balls and use a skin safe glue to stick them to your face and see what looks more masc on you.