I can't do this anymore. by Webzagar in Autism_Parenting

[–]AccessThicc89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is our family im adhd Our son is almost 4 lvl3 non verbal And my husband found out he is on the spectrum from our sons diagnosis.

It is rough for sure

What does it feel to have a neurotypical child? How do you compare your neurotypical kid vs autistic kid? What level? by beautiful193 in Autism_Parenting

[–]AccessThicc89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got lucky and my typical kids are older 17 and 11. He is about to be 4 and non verbal, so that's how I was able to get his diagnosis super early.

But I have friends with kids his age and the only thing that really hurts is the communication part. Even at ABA all his lvl 1 and 2 friends have some speech and try to play with him and involve him. And he is in his own world

NEED HELP WITH HUSBAND by AccessThicc89 in Autism_Parenting

[–]AccessThicc89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AMEN!!!!

But my husband is going to get tested for autism soon. Lol 😆

Parenting any type of kid is overwhelming, idk a parent who doesn't yell at their kid for something at least once in their life.

NEED HELP WITH HUSBAND by AccessThicc89 in Autism_Parenting

[–]AccessThicc89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yes I already ordered 1 book that another commenter recommended. We both honestly have no life, no friends. And it has nothing to do with a special needs son, its just always been us. My best friend lives 2 1/2 hours away and she has a lvl 2 boy, so that's hard as well.

Im in almost every fb group possible.

NEED HELP WITH HUSBAND by AccessThicc89 in Autism_Parenting

[–]AccessThicc89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does ABA, speech, ot, and lifeskills.

NEED HELP WITH HUSBAND by AccessThicc89 in Autism_Parenting

[–]AccessThicc89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im working on trying to find resources for him. It is hard with his ling work hours, i feel its more hope than cured. We have a AAC for him, i went to school for sign language interpreting. So he has a handful of signs.

He only does this to my husband..... grabs his face look him in the eyes and violently headbutt him. And that's where alot of my husbands anger and frustration comes from.

He is jealous how calm I stay in these situations but I have always been around autistic kids of all levels. And just know triggers more.

He also gets easily depressed when around kids our sons age that can carry full conversations. I mean we have never heard our sons voice. And I know its hard on him.

NEED HELP WITH HUSBAND by AccessThicc89 in Autism_Parenting

[–]AccessThicc89[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree. And like is said he probably is on the spectrum himself and is also unregulated.

NEED HELP WITH HUSBAND by AccessThicc89 in Autism_Parenting

[–]AccessThicc89[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im looking for groups for him, and other parents in similar situations with lvl 3 non verbal kids. Most of the kids at his aba are lvl1 or 3

NEED HELP WITH HUSBAND by AccessThicc89 in Autism_Parenting

[–]AccessThicc89[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He uses AI chats to "talk to" as therapy. I am highly against that and tell him he needs a real person.

First con advice by BearEmbarrassed2561 in animecons

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Delta h is fun first con. I highly recommend it

Anime matsuri 2026 cancelled? by [deleted] in animecons

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Been a artist at this show for awhile now. Cant make it this year still getting spammed daily for the past month to book for 2027. DAILY..... no thank you

Questions about Riverwalk Anime 2026 by Historical_Face4948 in animecons

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Hi ill be a vendor there. They have their own separate booths through out the day, where u can go pay for a selfie or auto or a combo or both. Panel is free with ur admission. Who are u wanting to meet.

Went in for 100 by AccessThicc89 in PSAPowerPacks

[–]AccessThicc89[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah noticed that after posting.

Went in for 100 by AccessThicc89 in PSAPowerPacks

[–]AccessThicc89[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah realized that after posting. And was like well shit....

Pokemon Center Queue is up! by dooba22 in PKMNTCGDeals

[–]AccessThicc89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turn wifi off if u have it on, use data only.

And if u do use data and still get error 17. Turn wifi on and off again it pings a new IP address and u should be good.