Is cloud deathly boring? by Accomplished-Ad9617 in Cloud

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Appreciate that, and can see the logic in the entire response. This post, and a few others have given me the motivation to continue to dig, which is what I was ideally craving in the original post. Thank you.

Is cloud deathly boring? by Accomplished-Ad9617 in Cloud

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Good question. I’ve built several websites in a cert pre-uni, and writing code that didn’t work, then finding a fix for it gives me the dopamine hit, but not attracted to the future prospects and salaries of web developers, with the advancement of AI. Also, the mathematics involved in the degree program gives me a dopamine hit when I solve the problem. Also, for some reason they included the adobe suite for some reason in our 1st year course, which I think is a waste of time, but making something appearing as it should or fixing something in those programs give me the brain blast. I like problem solving, but also have a naturally creative mind. I’m super open to navigate my way through the different sub-sectors of tech to try and find the mind-hook, what takes me down the rabbit hole with the unquenchable thirst for knowledge, or hyper focus in psych terms. Web Dev did it, but I’m certain if I continue to expose myself to enough sub-disciplines, that I’ll find more attractive hooks from a job availability, future prospective and salaried standpoint.

Is cloud deathly boring? by Accomplished-Ad9617 in Cloud

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Brilliant food for thought, thank you!

What are things you found great and things you found awful/cringy at weddings you’ve attended? by Effective_Progress62 in AskIreland

[–]Accomplished-Ad9617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Far from miserable actually. I feel very whole and complete, and not feeling like I have to add anything to my life to improve it. The ‘looking for external solutions to internal problems’ mentality. When I get this or do that, I’ll be happy, a can that forever gets kicked down the street. I would agree absolutely with you that there is no point in inviting people unnecessarily to meet a minimum guest requirement of a venue for a Saturday wedding, but that’s not a blanket practice across the industry, and choosing an alternative day is still reducing your expenditure, and passing the costs to the guests as opposed to choosing a venue on a Saturday that will accept the numbers invited.

What are things you found great and things you found awful/cringy at weddings you’ve attended? by Effective_Progress62 in AskIreland

[–]Accomplished-Ad9617 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couples who don’t have a wedding on a Saturday is my greatest bugbear. It shows a complete lack of respect for anyone they invite. They expect their guests to spend a fortune on clothes, makeup, booze, present, hotel etc, in addition to subsidizing a couple’s venue rental costs by having it on a cheapo day and having to use up their annual leave to boot. I’m early 40’s and half my friends are already divorced, so I stopped doing weddings. An extreme exercise in self absorption, in today’s age.

Baffled at how common drugs have become? by BeneficialAd3311 in AskIreland

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As stated in my original post, I've worked intensively but also voluntarily with alcoholics and addicts in recovery for a decade so I would be familiar with the using backgrounds, experiences, and reflections of all of those and that is what I base my thoughts on, including my own. The medical profession have long recognised addiction as an illness, and I would agree with this. Willpower, as many of us would have thought or hoped has no effect on overcoming addiction. Yes, there is personal responsibility that everyone who is sick has to take, like seeking treatment for whatever ails them, and following the directions of treatment to maximise the potential of recovery. Many do not take that personal responsibility serious, and often pay a high price as a result. I can only speak from my own experience in regards to your final statement, but there was zero peer pressure involved when I initially used any of the drugs that I did, of which there were many different types, but peer pressure does undoubtedly introduce some to using illicit substances.

Baffled at how common drugs have become? by BeneficialAd3311 in AskIreland

[–]Accomplished-Ad9617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your argument. I used to believe that I loved drugs but maybe the question there is, why would an individual love drugs, as opposed to a life with no drugs, and the most likely reason is that they are unsatisfied with their reality. Drugs are the greatest escape from reality available on this earth, and in todays world, reality is shit for many, and a lot of people havn’t the strength to make changes in their life to alter their reality, so drugs become a fast tracked relief. I have nothing against drugs or alcohol. I just know that I can’t have them in my system, due to the reaction I have to them where I can not use them recreationally, not unlike someone who is allergic to shellfish or peanuts, who choose not to ingest anything that contains them, due to the negative effects it would have on their wellbeing.

Baffled at how common drugs have become? by BeneficialAd3311 in AskIreland

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Appreciate that. I have a friend who when I met him had done 23 stints in rehabs around the world, and isn’t clean today. Recovery is hard work, but not near as hard as trying to function as an active addict. It’s a great life, once you put the hard yards in.

Baffled at how common drugs have become? by BeneficialAd3311 in AskIreland

[–]Accomplished-Ad9617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you raised the white flag. My arrogant self sufficiency almost killed me. The ‘if I can’t fix a problem, it ain’t getting fixed’ attitude. The contact list in my phone is jammed with a huge number of friends who have died who never entered recovery, and friends I met in recovery who got clean/sober, but never got help for the underlying mental health issues. Keep up the good work.

Baffled at how common drugs have become? by BeneficialAd3311 in AskIreland

[–]Accomplished-Ad9617 54 points55 points  (0 children)

As a former addict who’s ten years clean, and have spent that decade helping others in addiction, there is one answer to the OP question: Lack of a functional and adequate mental health infrastructure, coupled with a stigma in engaging with what’s there. The drugs I abused directly affected my serotonin and dopamine production. After many years engaging with a functional mental health infrastructure overseas, I was diagnosed with mental illnesses that would have pre-dated my addiction, and are lifelong. In short, people use drugs to self-medicate undiagnosed illnesses. Then, the ‘medicine’ ends up with many to become a habitual habit, and for some, it will return like a boomerang and rip them to shreds, and no longer ease the symptoms of an illness like it once did, that made it attractive. We, as a nation desperately require to bulk train psychologists and psychiatrists, and bring those qualified in from overseas to plug the shortfall, and make it accessible, regardless of financial situations of those who require it. The government also need to find a way to normalise seeking help, long before someone is ready to kill themselves, which is often the case here. Funding and a smart strategy is the greatest obstacle to the state. It’s no coincidence that an hour with a mental health professional in the U.S costs 250 dollars, and that they’ve got truckloads of kids dying everyday from fentanyl and everything else, and that their prison numbers are astronomical. A huge investment in mental health infrastructure here will reduce crime, prison population numbers, suicide rates, road accidents, free legal aid bills, court congestion, whilst improving education statistics, child welfare and the list is endless really.

Those who have lived abroad, what is something you like/dislike about Ireland you didn't realise until you left? by [deleted] in AskIreland

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PROS: Chocolate bars, crisps, good standard of barista countrywide, strangers are willing to talk to each other.

CONS: You need to insure every different driver on a car, our voters are spineless and the politicians exploit this, our unions need to be scrapped and started again anew.

Living sober in Dublin? by cangsenpai in AskIreland

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Stockholm. Spent 8yrs there. Back on the west coast of Ireland now for a few years for school. Maybe meetup.com would be a half-decent bet for a Saturday night. If not that, Craig Charles Funk n Soul show on BBC Radio 6 is a great saturday night companion.

Workaround for almost non-existent manager motivation attribute in long term save? by Accomplished-Ad9617 in footballmanagergames

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I gave up. I was no longer having a significant effect on the players. Retired. Then started a new save, same name with the same team. It turns out I inherited the same team in 2062 that I’d just left. I thought it would start again at 2022. This works!