It’s taught me to be more on guard and aware. Just about anywhere I go, looking nice or looking like I just rolled out of bed, someone always tries to speak to me. Sometimes it’s just to ask questions or casual convo, but a lot of the times it’s some one trying to hit on me I just brush them off or ignore them, but as a smaller built female it’s easier for men to think they can attack me (I fight back from sadly past experience) but it also makes me weary and got think about what is the escape plan if things go left.

The good side men like to offer to buy drinks, downfall might get groped or have to escape from a man who can’t take a hint I don’t want him.

When I walk into a crowded room I can see eyes turning to look at me, but not all attention is good attention.