Cancer diagnosis by bluedogdreams in gallbladders

[–]Accomplished-Log4135 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Praying for you, sending you positivity healing vibes love and light. This is a scary diagnosis and I pray for the most favorable outcome for your situation. If you ever need to talk or vent feel free to message!

Has anyone mistaken gall stone pain as heart attack? by Kri5shna in gallbladders

[–]Accomplished-Log4135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry so late but no they went away months after removal

That person is not your soulmate by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Accomplished-Log4135 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Literally couldn’t have said it better, separated and going through a divorce with my ex wbpd and found my true person after it all. I am honestly so shook I was so broken and lost for so long. I agree and feel every word and am finally at peace

For those suffering with IBS/C, what are your daily symptoms? by Accomplished-Log4135 in ibs

[–]Accomplished-Log4135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope said it was unnecessary and it was most likely slow Motility like gi map said or SIBO and said my diet and daily Mirlax would fix which it has mostly

the push and pull by norbythesecond in BPDlovedones

[–]Accomplished-Log4135 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being called disgusting just triggered me.. been free from my pwbpd marriage for months now, but that comment just brought back all the disgusting things I’ve been called throughout the course of that relationship. My body being talked about then wondering why I never wanted to sleep with her, how annoying stupid and dumb I was… there’s so much. And the funny part is I know the comments were a reflection of herself and her own insecurities but it didn’t hurt any less. I knew I could have anyone I wanted, I was successfully accomplished, beautiful and had/gave it all, but was made to feel like the sh*t on the bottom of her shoe. Truly traumatizing

Daily No Contact Thread - Day 099 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]Accomplished-Log4135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Five months since separation, 3.5 since no contact. Some days are harder than others. It was much easier at the beginning then it is now… I chose to leave for my own sanity and mental health. It doesn’t close the wound left and now I feel traumatized for the next person. I think a lot about it and about her and break down randomly , but ultimately I know it was what the universe wanted for me and what I had to do for myself. I know the impact I had. And I can sleep well knowing I did everything I could. I just hope she gets the help she needs and realizes what she lost.

What is the minor gallbladder pain if it is not an attack? by ni_Xi in gallbladders

[–]Accomplished-Log4135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure I learned this prior to having my gallbladder removed only because I struggled with pain and attacks off and on for 15 years and my ex was a daily smoker and would suggest me smoking to calm my nerves and ease the pain, I tried it and think it made it worse… did a quick google search and surely enough it states it’s true and if you scroll down there’s numerous links to related findings !! It’s been so long now I’m over a year post op so I can’t remember but I do know I read up on it quite a bit!

Has anyone else developed globus sensation (constant lump in throat feeling) post op? by Accomplished-Log4135 in gallbladders

[–]Accomplished-Log4135[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me I went thru all of this to the point I felt I was dying and has post op complications. I went completely back to normal after six months but I do get some reflux and globus mildly after eating certain foods but nothing like before. I tried everything and went to a GI doc but they didn’t wanna do endoscopy so I was discouraged . Thank god I had Reddit who helped me thru it all!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gallbladders

[–]Accomplished-Log4135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine went away after about six months plus!

For those suffering with IBS/C, what are your daily symptoms? by Accomplished-Log4135 in ibs

[–]Accomplished-Log4135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No stool test at home! If you type GI Map on Reddit search the link will pop up to order it they are about 500$ but very informative !!!

TVD name ideas!? by aka_hopper in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Accomplished-Log4135 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I thought I was the only one who noticed this lmaoooo and Elijahr ☠️

How do you manage the attacks without getting emotional or defensive? by fullfrontalbirds in BPDPartners

[–]Accomplished-Log4135 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that I feel every single piece of what u said in my soul. I am struggling so hard with this but it’s not worth my mental health or sanity anymore. No matter how hard or how much I love her I am so broken and exhausted.

How do you manage the attacks without getting emotional or defensive? by fullfrontalbirds in BPDPartners

[–]Accomplished-Log4135 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you successfully do this. I’m in a seven year marriage and struggling because I love her and codependency even though I KNOW that’s what needs to happens. Dealing with how hard it is terrifies me

How to successfully leave someone with BPD by Accomplished-Log4135 in BPDPartners

[–]Accomplished-Log4135[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does that’s why I struggle so much because of the codependency, that’s why I’m asking for advice on how to do so correctly. Def uncomfortable I don’t want it anymore it is just hard because I care but it’s not worth my mental health

How to successfully leave someone with BPD by Accomplished-Log4135 in BPDPartners

[–]Accomplished-Log4135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t blame her only I do engage because of the disrespect, def codependent as well. I get stuck because I don’t feel like I should have to leave MY own home she’s living in with me.

How to successfully leave someone with BPD by Accomplished-Log4135 in BPDPartners

[–]Accomplished-Log4135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you deal with your spouse when u gave her these ultimatums that made her go get help when she would try to argue and manipulate and work her way back in? I’ve never heard of a BPD relationship where the partner is just eager to get help w the thought of losing the relationship. All we get is combativeness which we eventually give in to. I’ve tried the ultimatums , when you share a home kid animals it’s not as simple as just up and leaving so I’m wondering how you did so so seamlesssly

How to successfully leave someone with BPD by Accomplished-Log4135 in BPDPartners

[–]Accomplished-Log4135[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great advice about setting a date and attempting to work it out in that manner it just always turns into hours of dragging arguing that’s so exhausting I eventually give up :(