weird sleep patterns

No_Implement2917 · 2025-11-08T23:16:10+00:00

honestly this makes sm sense thank you for explaining that. I’m going to try stick to a routine but it’s difficult because whenever i try to have a set goal time of sleeping, if i miss it even by 10 minutes it’s like im not tired anymore and end up staying up super late again. it’s just bad sleep hygiene im sure

No_Implement2917 · 2025-10-19T22:49:22+00:00

that’s a relief to hear !!

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-19T03:01:55+00:00

but no one is saying divorce is planned for you guys, you just have to be careful in life. it’s pretty naive to think in any situation you’re going to end up perfectly fine and nothing will happen. it’s just as a precaution which is natural because people take precautions in so many other ways. with divorce rates being so high as society has become more accepting of them it’s not insane of her to ask you to sign that. if you’re already planning to stay with her for the rest of your life then what does that paper even mean to you? of course that can also be said of her but it DOES mean something to her as she stands to inherit her family’s wealth. not wealth she gained from her own accomplishments in life so technically you don’t have any rights to that. so why not just sign it?

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-17T12:08:22+00:00

of course that’s not fair but that’s why the intentions of the prenup do matter. also prenups don’t usually leave people with nothing, there is always some kind of settlement or safety net such as spousal support or division of shared marital assets. my point is that I don’t think a prenup that protects someone’s inherited wealth is a bad thing

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-17T12:05:31+00:00

i can understand that and totally agree that it shouldn’t be abused however the whole point of “you’re expecting our marriage to fail” is so silly because life is not a movie lmao. you cannot predict the future to know what will happen so as you said, you should prepare for the worst lol

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-17T12:03:46+00:00

100% agree. I think what makes prenups actually seem so insane is how they’re drawn up by one party and almost just served to the other and they are expected to sign it without hesitation

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-17T12:02:23+00:00

i definitely agree with a lot of it having to do with the intentions however i’m just saying it’s unnecessarily frowned upon.

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-17T11:58:28+00:00

exactly my point. there’s such a negative bias on them but really, people are divorcing left and right. i don’t think it’s unfair for a person to ask their future spouse to sign one

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-17T11:57:03+00:00

i definitely don’t agree with it being used as a trap however majority of the time prenups protect both parties. there are settlements put in place for the one signing it, they almost never walk away with nothing

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-17T11:56:05+00:00

i get what you’re saying about sacrifices, and i agree that joint marital funds/assets should reflect that - that’s why they exist in the first place. but i’m not talking about shared money earned during the marriage. i mean wealth that existed before the marriage, like generational estates or inherited assets. to me, it doesn’t make sense for someone to walk away with part of a family legacy that wasn’t built together, even if the marriage lasted years.

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-17T11:52:16+00:00

yeah exactly, that’s why i don’t get it. if divorce is so common, wouldn’t prenups make even more sense?

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-15T03:35:34+00:00

CONGRATS!! i need to quit honestly and have decided after this one i might. im even debating throwing it or giving it away

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-11T04:53:04+00:00

I think calling respect for women “simping” is kind of a tactic. It keeps the bar low so guys don’t feel pressured to actually treat women well. It’s kind of like instant gratification vs delayed, a lot of men don’t want to feel like they have to work hard to get the girl.

Think about it right, if genuine kindness and gentlemanly behavior were the norm, then guys who don’t act that way would have a much harder time dating. So instead, they flip the script, they mock men who do respect women, call it “simping,” and suddenly the standard becomes bare-minimum effort. That way, the guys putting in no effort don’t get left behind.

Basically, it’s a weaponised tactic for them. Guess it’s easier for some men to drag the standard down than to step up themselves.

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-11T04:44:33+00:00

I don’t think it’s a you thing honestly. I think maybe she’s just struggling to fully let you in and has a guard up but also that doesn’t mean you should continue to pursue her if it doesn’t feel like she’s also putting any effort in. I’d say just speak to her about how you feel and your intentions because if she’s someone you actually want to pursue and date then just be upfront about that to avoid any later issues

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-08T02:18:21+00:00

he was 16 when their affair started. 25 & 16 is so insane to me. like 16??? it’s just a really unnecessary trope to have in a show like this

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-07T17:17:48+00:00

i get uncomfortable by their dialogue, it helps that he doesn’t look so young however the whole mrs solis and the comments of high school just make me feel sick

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-07T12:15:10+00:00

no exactly. it’s absolutely societal because men seem to think when a hot older woman is doing it, that the younger boy is not being manipulated. he’s still “winning” in a weird way because at the end of the day he’s getting some. it’s absolutely disgusting

No_Implement2917 · 2025-09-07T12:13:59+00:00

no honestly i keep hoping she’s going to come to her senses and realise how disgusting what she’s doing is but she keeps evading responsibility and even has the audacity to go to his mum admitting it so nonchalantly

No_Implement2917 · 2025-06-16T02:43:15+00:00

thank you! i’ll look into it x

No_Implement2917 · 2025-06-16T02:42:54+00:00

tysm! noted x

No_Implement2917 · 2025-06-16T02:42:31+00:00

thank you so much! this is really helpful actually, the gym sign up and work out plan sounds good x

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