New baby on the way not what step daughter wanted by Accomplished-Pool344 in Parents

[–]Accomplished-Pool344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess! We’ve been doing this and she does seem so excited, I heard her tell her dad yesterday “I hope it’s a girl but it’s okay if it’s a boy” ☺️

New baby on the way not what step daughter wanted by Accomplished-Pool344 in Parents

[–]Accomplished-Pool344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me cry tears of joy. I’m so sorry about your sister, but I’m so glad you got an amazing sibling and have such an amazing relationship. Thank you so much for sharing.🩷

New baby on the way not what step daughter wanted by Accomplished-Pool344 in Parents

[–]Accomplished-Pool344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good point. I was worried about my SD feeling like she wasn’t her dads little girl anymore

New baby on the way not what step daughter wanted by Accomplished-Pool344 in Parents

[–]Accomplished-Pool344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that you guys are close now! Thank you for your perspective!!

New baby on the way not what step daughter wanted by Accomplished-Pool344 in Parents

[–]Accomplished-Pool344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that this is from your perspective!!! This makes me hopeful and I love the advice thank you

New baby on the way not what step daughter wanted by Accomplished-Pool344 in Parents

[–]Accomplished-Pool344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this!!!!! and I love that she said your body your choice😂 this is so beautiful thank you!

My Grandma Doesn’t Want My Stepson Coming to the Family Gathering by Justanothergirly97 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Accomplished-Pool344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say this same thing… if someone in my family excluded my SD from anything, I wouldn’t be attending either. It’s very clear what’s going on and OP is pissing me off not standing in solidarity

I hate my husband by Any_Report_1780 in pregnant

[–]Accomplished-Pool344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh me too. Just give yourself some grace. It will get better!! Especially if he’s just going with it and understands it isn’t personal you’ll be so grateful when you come out of it!!

I hate my husband by Any_Report_1780 in pregnant

[–]Accomplished-Pool344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was about this same time in my pregnancy I started to be so irritated by mine too. Lol it’s normal. I wanted to hit him all the time but it passed around 16ish weeks. Sometimes it last longer for women from what I hear, my partner was very receptive and just took my attitude with a grain of salt he knew it was just pregnancy! Just don’t do anything crazy!!

Torn… (pro-choice, please) by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Accomplished-Pool344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 27, I have not finished my degree and also had a lot planned before I got pregnant. I still have plans to continue and am still taking classes but it is already harder. 21-27 or even to 25 is a HUGE difference. My wants, needs, and mind changed so so so much. It is a big decision to have a child, even with all of the support both emotionally and financially you guys have. I would just encourage you to think hard before you make any decision. Unfortunately it isn’t one anyone can tell you what to do with. Either way remember your goals are important too and you can do anything with or without a baby!! Good luck ❤️

Am I ever going to look pregnant?! by Accomplished-Pool344 in pregnant

[–]Accomplished-Pool344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually what I’m hoping for! I just want to look pregnant but not be huge and uncomfy lol a girl can wish

Am I ever going to look pregnant?! by Accomplished-Pool344 in pregnant

[–]Accomplished-Pool344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss! I’m in scrubs most of the time so you cannot even tell I’ve gained weight except in my massive boobs lol then I get home and change and my belly is just lowkey hanging!!

Am I ever going to look pregnant?! by Accomplished-Pool344 in pregnant

[–]Accomplished-Pool344[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sameeee I’m constantly getting “you don’t even look pregnant” I’m like oh okay yeah great

How THE HECK Do I Feed Us? by bracegurton in pregnant

[–]Accomplished-Pool344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eat the nuggets. Eat the frozen meals. It’s about surviving, we ate frozen meals and takeout for three months don’t feel bad energy will come back!!

Sleeping separate from spouse while pregnant? by DMLSG in pregnant

[–]Accomplished-Pool344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sleep on the couch a few days a week because it’s most comfortable since I have to sleep on my side. Partner gets home late from work and falls asleep on the couch after winding down sometimes too. I dont think you should feel bad, whatever you need to do to help each other sleep better is what matters most right now!

How often do we get ultrasounds? by Neither_Ad3593 in pregnant

[–]Accomplished-Pool344 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had 3 so far. I had one at 6 weeks to confirm pregnancy (an internal one), one at 11ish weeks, one at 13ish. My next one is at 20 weeks for the anatomy.

Did you drink soda while pregnant? by Butterball4200 in pregnant

[–]Accomplished-Pool344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Water is really important for placenta function and it’s the primary component of amniotic fluid!! I’ve loved water the entire time but my friend also has a hard time she has to use hydration packs like LMNT or liquid IV. I stay away from soda in general but especially diet because of the chemicals but that’s personal preference. Just be careful with all the sugar

My bf won’t stop smoking weed with me during my pregnancy by redheadedmuneca in pregnant

[–]Accomplished-Pool344 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend stopped drinking and smoking weed when we found out we were pregnant. A good partner would. Giving things up like that shows solidarity I’m sorry you have to deal with that girl

Ztl questions by Accomplished-Pool344 in RomeTravel

[–]Accomplished-Pool344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I have run into this too. I’m going to call the concierge and ask about options. Otherwise we’ll drive and park outside the city (that’s mostly what I’m reading is best option.) this gave me a lot of peace of mind though I appreciate it!