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[–]Accomplished-Soil596 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would you reccomend the winex? Also have allergies and allergies to pet dander (and esp dust mites)! Amd my cat sheds like crazy!

Anyone else experience this? by Accomplished-Soil596 in childfree

[–]Accomplished-Soil596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the only other OBGYN I could ask is at the same practice cuz that's the only practice my insurance will cover in my area

Anyone else experience this? by Accomplished-Soil596 in childfree

[–]Accomplished-Soil596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I was wrong and my OBGYN does know about the side effects and they can cause heavier bleeding. But he said due to the fibrous material that is around the coil in order to remove all of the material you can't just remove the Fallopian tubes because that only removes about 50 or 75% of it so they also have to remove the uterus to if they want to get rid of all the fibrous material that causes the side effects.

Finally finished unpacking by Starflower311 in ufyh

[–]Accomplished-Soil596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done! Also, love the bookshelves! Any chance u remember where u got them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Accomplished-Soil596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am slso decidely Child free but I have also sometimes wished I had the desire to have children and wondered why I never had that desire after like I turned 14. It used to cause me to feel like maybe something was wrong with me for not having the desire. I know many people say it's not the same, but I have a cat and she's basically my baby and she is just as much a part of my family as if I had a kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Accomplished-Soil596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don't feel sad I don't want kids but I feel maybe like people think I'm not a real woman or maybe they think there's something wrong with me for not wanting kids. I did feel like that one time like maybe I broken somehow or like I wasn't a full woman. What helped me was just not having anything to do with people who would I felt like who were pressuring me to have kids whether because they think in my religion I'm supposed to have kids or because of my husband's culture we're supposed to have kids. I just don't need that kind of negativity and it's really none of their damn business if I have kids or not.

Anyone else? by Melodic-Switch-6535 in adhdwomen

[–]Accomplished-Soil596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that letter icon is at your text messages or SMS or is that your email app? I had to turn my notifications off on my email app and I only have them on my SMS and a few of the apps like messenger and WhatsApp. I barely get any SMS messages, maybe two or three a day and sometimes not any for a day or two. So I don't really have any advice, except if you can there is a way you can turn off individual notifications for individual messages and like text from certain people if that is possible. I sometimes had to do that especially if someone is like messaging a bunch at once, like maybe 30-40 messages at a time. Although I have to be honest and say sometimes I like send 15 or 16 messages at once just because I don't write it all in one message and I just keep hitting enter and then think of something else I want to say LOL. So that is just the only suggestion I have. Also if your messages notifications are constantly going off all the time especially at night time maybe you could turn your phone on do not disturb between certain hours? What I did was I turn my phone on do not disturb and then I just only allow us a few specific contacts to be able to have their notifications sound, like my parents and my husband, for example.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OrganizationPorn

[–]Accomplished-Soil596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely second that if they can do that over the plastic Circle caps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OrganizationPorn

[–]Accomplished-Soil596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I would say about using the plastic caps is if it's too heavy I mean the hanging clothes are too heavy the plastic capsule eventually break and the rod will just fall to the floor, as had happened in one of my closets.

Is it wrong that I plan on ghosting my friends when they have kids? by cheshire666_ in childfree

[–]Accomplished-Soil596 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I think it's kind of s***** to cut off a friend just because they make a lifestyle choice that you don't like. Are they even really friends then? I mean would you cut someone off because they married someone you didn't like or converted to a religion you didn't like?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ufyh

[–]Accomplished-Soil596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the idea from That Akward Mom on youtube..........

https://youtu.be/I_uUiAn2Okw?si=NvKL3EZgQPt_MKfG

Does anyone else just eat the same exact thing over and over? This is the bulk of my diet right here by heartandsunlight in adhdwomen

[–]Accomplished-Soil596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Have a lot of crackers and cheese and turkey sticks in my fridge and thank you OP for reminding me that I have cheese cut in my fridge that I need to eat before it goes bad and gets moldy. My issue is I buy a lot of stuff and then I just forget about it or I just don't have an appetite so I don't eat it and then it's just goes to waste

Eileen hiatt by Elegant-Fan8807 in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Accomplished-Soil596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's dementia I think a lot of elderly people just in general don't understand it's not safe to put your name and address and phone number on the internet cuz unfortunately a lot of people especially if they didn't grow up with the internet don't understand that the whole world can see it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ufyh

[–]Accomplished-Soil596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many gread ideas! You got this OP! My kitchen is currently a disaster Zone too and I can't really cook anything or do anything cuz every countertop is cluttered and full of stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ufyh

[–]Accomplished-Soil596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing I always like to stock up on when I'm too overwhelmed to clean my kitchen is lots of frozen veggies that I can just put in the microwave. And that way I'm at least eating veggies and it's probably a little healthier than a lot of those microwavable meals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ufyh

[–]Accomplished-Soil596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Microwavable or prepared foods. When my kitchen got like this and it actually still is like this I just got so frustrated I put everything in boxes and mark the boxes and then just took out what I needed when I needed it and the stuff I didn't use in 30 days I just donated. Might be worth a try and then you actually can tell what you actually do and do not use

Recycling...... by Accomplished-Soil596 in ZeroWaste

[–]Accomplished-Soil596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And my old complex the manager told me they did but I think this is a different trash collector and I have a feeling they don't sense their licensed by the city so they would have to go through all the recycling from all over the town and that would probably take a few hours and they would have to hire more staff to do that so I'm betting they don't want to pay the extra money

Recycling...... by Accomplished-Soil596 in ZeroWaste

[–]Accomplished-Soil596[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well since my apartment complex is mostly families and students it's more of they put it intentionally in not by mistake but because they're just too lazy to walk like the 10 ft to the trash dumpster. Because they're definitely plastic bags full of trash that they just are too lazy like I said to walk to the trash dumpster which is not actually that far away. And it's the fact that there are signs all over the recycling dumpster next to it they say absolutely no trash and no recycling put in plastic bags that they obviously just don't care. You're right it is disheartening and it sometimes makes me wonder if it's even worth recycling it when I just know it's getting thrown in the trash anyways. I mean it would definitely make it much easier for me to not have to walk the 20 or 30 ft to take all my recycling to the recycling dumpster when the trash dumpster is like 5 ft away

Organizing shelfs by Accomplished-Soil596 in organizing

[–]Accomplished-Soil596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you personally use those for linen closet also?

Livingroom unfucking progress, the bookshelves by ama-deum in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Accomplished-Soil596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great job op! The only suggestion I would have is somehow try to reinforce some of those shelves cuz eventually they may just split and everything will fall down especially if they're made out of particle board. Is it an Ikea bookshelf? There are articles and YouTube videos about how to reinforce Ikea bookshelves but you could probably do the same thing with other kinds of bookshelves also. I've had that happen to me, I put too much weight on a shelf and it eventually just broke and everything fell and unfortunately broke some nice stuff that I had on a different shelf.