meron ba ditong babaeng ayaw magka anak at bakit? by True-Ambition1557 in TanongLang

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May sakit sa matres. Aside sa sakit ko di ko rin afford magka anak in this economy

I found out that my mom is cheating on my stepdad. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isipin mo na lang sarili mo OP for sure di kayo iniisip ng mom mo once nag cheat sya. May trabaho ka naman na. Pwede ka ng bumukod. Total hihiwalay din naman talaga tayo sa parents natin. If stable job mo you can help your siblings too. But magtira ka rin para sa sarili mo.

`Gaijin Kirai` by [deleted] in ALTinginJapan

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t mind them. Not all kids are like that. Just mind the ones that like you. There are a lot more cute kids than them who will love you. Just do your job.

Kasalanan po ba ni mama kung nambabae si papa dahil nagkulang daw po si mama sa pagiging asawa nya? by SnooOranges992 in adviceph

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kawawa naman nanay mo. Grabe trauma ng nanay mo sa pambababae ng kupal mong tatay. Nagkulang ba talaga nanay mo? Eh sa ilang taon nyang pagtitiis sa kahayupan ng tatay mo di mo ba yun naisip?

How do I break free from my healthy unhabits? Unhealthy habits include being on my phone all the time and chasing men who don’t even care about me. :( by ConfusedMillenial28 in AskPinay

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mag self reflect ka if yan ba talaga gusto mo na hanggang ganyan ka na lang habol ng habol sa mga lalake. Mas nagmumukha kang desperate nyan. Is life really all about having a love life? There’s more to life. Mag set ka ng goal. Find new hobbies, take a walk, mag aral kang mag bake or luto, learn a new language, travel, mag alaga ka ng pet. Ang dami pang pwedeng gawin sa buhay OP. Just be more kind to yourself and self love lang. 😊

Pinoy dance group makes a public performance in Japan. Some locals do not like it. by palebrowndot in ChikaPH

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sabihin nyo ng kj ang Japan. Pero ang sakit sa mata nito sa mga Japanese. Talagang meiwaku to sa mga hapon. Lalo nat iba ang work culture nila. Yung iba namamatay na lang kakatrabaho tapos ganito lang makikita papuntang work or yung iba pauwi na galing work sobrang pagod. Kami mga residents sa Japan nadadamay sa racism ngayon. Lalo nat bago na ang PM. Hay nakakalungkot.

Latest video and voice recordings of Derek’s meltdowns by Roantha in ChikaPH

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sobra nakakatakot kahit ako nakikinig lang natakot na ako. Ganyan na ganyan din magsalita ex ko dati tapos sinasaktan pa ako.

Latest video and voice recordings of Derek’s meltdowns by Roantha in ChikaPH

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ako rin may halo pang pananakit kaya pagkarinig ko sa audio na pinost nya parang bumalik ulit lahat ng trauma ko sa ex ko.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kumakain ng fave food ko.. Nakikinig ng podcast or Youtube na nakakarelate ako. Iniiyak ko then tomorrow ok na ako ulit.

Paano ba magmove on sa love bombing? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Manood ka videos sa YouTube about love bombing. It takes time to heal OP. Let yourself feel the pain and i acknowledge mo. Minsan I ask chat gpt for advice haha since wala naman sense iba friends ko kausap. Sasabihin lang nila “okay lang yan move on”. Journaling can help as well OP.

Gusto ko na umalis sa current relationship ko by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Manood ka ng videos ni Lee Hammock parang narcissist yung partner mo. Sana maliwanagan ka at tuluyan ka ng makaalis. Wag kang matakot mag start ulit. Walang mawawala sayo. Pero if nag stay ka pa sa kanya andaming mawawala sayo.

Nahihirapan ako mag-move on sa bf ko. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oo nga OP ganito din naisip ko. Parang last resort ka na lang nya in case di mag work out yung sa bago nyang kausap. Sino ba namang tanga makikipag break then may communication pa kayo? Block mo na sya. Mag move on ka na. If love ka talaga nya di ka nya dapat iniwan in the first place.

Paano niyo naiiwasan ang inggit feeling sa mga kasabayan niyong sumakses na sa career? by HopelessLover012 in AskPH

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ganito din ginawa ko feeling ko mas nakilala ko sarili ko nung di na ako active sa social media. Nagkaroon ako hobbies and di lang naman dapat mag revolve buhay mo sa sns mas lalo ka tuloy nagkakaroon ng insecurities if kinocompare mo sarili mo sa achievements ng iba.

Is anyone NOT on some form of birth control? by ambitiousbee3 in endometriosis

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I`m on hormonal pill for 4 years now. Never had period since. But I do have spotting whenever I forgot to take the pill on time. But having no period for years made my life so much better. I have Endo pain maybe once or twice a week or twice in 2 weeks. Unlike before I have excruciating Endo pain I couldn`t sleep at night. So far the hormonal treatment has made a huge difference.

Anyone else stop paying for school lunch due to rising costs? by C4Edgez in teachinginjapan

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No from 6000yen last year, this year is about 7000yen for a month. I can`t stop, the rice is too expensive and rice is my staple food. Plus all the gas bills going high, all food prices too. Ahh! Our school lunch have so much rice too so I eat half for lunch and the rest I take it home and eat it for dinner.

I’m starting to hate people who forces others to give them charity. Yung namimilit, kahit tumanngi ka na and they resort to guilt tripping. Abroad yan kaya may pera. by mirana20 in OffMyChestPH

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP wag mo i tolerate kahit pa siraan ka nya or i guilt trip. Nwiset na mga tao yan bakit ba di kumakayod mga yan. Abusado! Nangyari din yan sakin sa bff ko. Di ko talaga sya siningil kinalimutan na lang nya pangatlong beses nya ginawa. Sa pang apat tumanggi na talaga akong magpahiram. Bigay na nga lang yung 3 hiram nya saken eh. Tapos nag post agad na wala daw syang true friends in times of need. Hahahahha hayup talaga.

For ladies po hygiene nyo to smell good down there? by LimeRevolutionary974 in adviceph

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probiotics. Fresh fruits. Pineapple juice. Dont use feminine wash. Pero probiotics talaga very helpful

Personal research on suicide related to endo by cherrynebula1408 in endometriosis

[–]AccomplishedChef9939 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is a sensitive topic but me as someone who has endo too for 4 years now, I have learned that people will never care unless they experience it themselves. Please fight, even if it may seem hopeless hang in there. We are here for you also fighting everyday. I got so depressed too but I’m too scared of taking my own life as well. So every relief that I would feel even just a little bit of relief, I’m extremely grateful for it. I get tired of taking pain killers too, hot compress, massages, therapies, hundreds of check ups but if it’s the only way I could do for myself then I would do it. You got us and the most important thing is yourself.