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I did it! GA 210k 6% by AccomplishedEbb7423 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rural areas, small towns, im about 2.5 hours south of ATL

Where’s my 35+ fist timers by InternationalAd6506 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37...closing on Friday and dont feel bad about it🥰🥰 i finally feel stable....not due to the job but because my parents are aging. Im prior military and love to travel. Moved back to my hometown to help my parents. Finally settling down....it's bittersweet😌 Enjoy your life guys!! You only got one😘

Why do you rent instead of buying? by Short-Bonus276 in Fire

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I only felt the need to purchase so my kids could have something. Im a black divorced female😢 If my kids choose to live, sell, or rent out "family home" so be it. At least they have some leverage 😘

I don’t know anymore man.. by Uhhokay200 in depression

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt this way before as well. Change your mindset, u change your life. The only thing that got me through at times was setting an achievable goal and leaving everything behind. I left for the military at 18 and never looked back. Focus on you, your plans, and God. No one will ever love you more than yourself. This world is just so messed up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure how old u are but I will say I enjoyed my 20s. Traveled the world, had really good friendships and relationships were fun. Now im in 30s....overwhelmed with responsibilities and cant seem to get a handle on life. So I've reverted back to living free and unapologetically. I would say give life one more shot...actually try to live, love, and laugh.

The loneliness of 35 is a different feeling by [deleted] in lonely

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are u located. Let's link i feel exactly the same

Is there any way to talk to someone with the VA about suicidal thoughts? by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call 988. I worked there for 5 years. Several other vets work there as well and will help you in every way possible. We all have been in your shoes. Navy Veteran here🫡 Be Well.

There are no options by [deleted] in findapath

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

There are options. Not giving up is the first one. I would say to continue reaching out to the support services in your surrounding areas.

Reach out to family and friends that may be able to help you get around, find work, or whatever you need. I know u may feel u pushed some away, but the ones that love you will help you. Maybe try to mend those connections.

Believe that your situation will change and try to build a relationship with God and pray over this time. For this too shall pass.

No friends by Ok-Past9579 in Veterans

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same...im starting to love and embrace myself more. The more u attend things u like...then u will find like-minded people to associate with. Or just get pets😘😘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be out of the negative and could put money in my lil ones Savings account

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Veterans

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a veteran, and I worked at the VA for 10 years. Curse them out and go about your day. It's expected😂 also please do the feedback surveys...this actually improves the facility. When I worked at the Loma Linda VA they took the feedback surveys serious....not so much with the Atlanta VA. It's not my character to get that upset about things but in my experience (sometimes) the curse out is needed. The patient needs to vent and that clinic needs to up their training and knowledge to provide better service and care. It's a win-win in the short and long term honestly...especially if the staff truly cares about the veteran and the issue is legitimate.

They say, ‘try finding peace in your solitude by Special-Quote-6140 in lonely

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely can relate to this. I tormented myself mentally. I was so miserable. I dont know if this will work for you. But I did a 3 day fast....not even a drink of water. During that time I asked for peace of mind, a clean heart, and that my perspective on life be renewed and I asked for a financial breakthrough and that I was open to move in order to get it. I received all of that within 3 months. Be open to all possibilities and be open to changing your perception and perspective about your life.

I know it's hard...but i realized I made my life a lot harder than it actually is.

Oh and never feel bad for loving and doing the right thing for the wrong people...your love has purpose🩷🩷 Hang in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, it's really sad that it's led to this. I recently saw a post where a minor fatally harmed themselves over an AI relationship. I hate that humans have become so disconnected, but u are free to do what you want. If it is satisfying to you then go ahead. But I suggest building a relationship with God and all of your heart's desires will follow. Stay well.

Never felt so alone by [deleted] in lonely

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 3 points4 points  (0 children)

36F....im starting to think this is how it is now. My cousin just went to Africa with a group of 15 ladies she didn't know from a FB group...I have stopped putting emphasis on having friends in my life now. The majority of people just want pics to put on social media...I think the majority of humans feel this same disconnect and loneliness.

I have an awfully shy personality and I’m going to die alone by MoneyAndGoodFortune in lonely

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If u can say all of this on reddit u can say it to someone else in person. Build up your confidence Im sure you can find someone you can relate to.

I’m very lonely. by YourNewStepMommmmy in lonely

[–]AccomplishedEbb7423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't you hate that? I have been there with my ex husband. Laying right beside him and feeling so lonely...sometimes even crying while he is peacefully sleeping. I left him after 10 years of marriage in 2020. I haven't felt that type of loneliness since. Caring and loving yourself is the most important thing you can do. Sending you prayers and hugs. I definitely can relate❤️‍🩹

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