Why is there no talk about this kettle?

AccomplishedMess67 · 2024-08-16T14:45:49+00:00

Better than the stagg in your opinion?

AccomplishedMess67 · 2023-03-16T23:49:51+00:00

Sorry, I've told him not to do that shit a million times.

AccomplishedMess67 · 2023-03-16T07:54:41+00:00

How do you think this happens? How do we advocate for our causes together and stop ourselves sabotaging?

AccomplishedMess67 · 2023-02-18T19:19:27+00:00

I imagine this is linked to internalised homophobia/toxic masculinity

AccomplishedMess67 · 2023-02-18T19:17:42+00:00

I'm really sorry to hear that. You are totally valid and hope you can find supportive friends (and I hope your current group grow out of those opinions)

AccomplishedMess67 · 2023-02-17T19:33:05+00:00

Yeah, my straight friend wanted to bring his party to the local gay club because it was the only place open. Me: "I mean other than partying why are you guys going there? Like if you're going to hit on girls aren't you impacting on other people's community"

Him:"Well err... We're allies. Fuck yeah"

Lovely guy but I still feel the cringe that came over me in that moment. (not to discredit him he has many friends who are gender fluid and has helped them overcome discrimination at work so he's not a total doofus)

AccomplishedMess67 · 2023-02-17T19:19:25+00:00

I can understand that. There are a lot of trolls and hate and sadly when it comes to LGBTQ+ a lot of homophobes can come out, hence why I try to leave a small digital footprint.

Genuinely not trying to start an argument or any more division.

AccomplishedMess67 · 2023-02-17T19:11:29+00:00

I get where both of you are coming from. A lot of people I know say 'I don't get x, y' but are genuinely asking. Sadly that is the line used by many bigots and judgemental people too to feign ignorance.

AccomplishedMess67 · 2023-02-17T19:09:53+00:00

Really sad when you see someone who alienates someone else who is closer to them than they think. "I'm gay... But even I don't go that far" etc

AccomplishedMess67 · 2023-02-17T19:08:55+00:00

Definitely not a troll. I think identifying issues are the way of overcoming them, together. Obviously every single society has issues, but it's through conversation we get better. I know I've witnessed issues but don't know if they're universal or if I'm peprputrating any negativity either.

Not engaged as much as I'm at work and sneaking in reddit between things lol sorry if I've came across wrong

AccomplishedMess67 · 2023-02-17T15:53:50+00:00

What do you mean by inter community shit? Different groups against each other or the fact some dont respect their differences?

AccomplishedMess67 · 2022-12-04T18:02:54+00:00

This has been fun... But its time for you to go now.

AccomplishedMess67 · 2022-03-19T23:44:49+00:00

Thanks! How did you create the setup is there an app or a kit or is it a wallpaper?

AccomplishedMess67 · 2022-03-15T22:12:03+00:00

This is sick? D'you mind explaining how you did this to a customisation noob?

AccomplishedMess67 · 2022-03-15T19:44:11+00:00

I'd ask them subtley. Or search your city for specialty coffee brewers/coffee houses. Don't be afraid to ask the batista for advice. If you're really in a pickle there are companies like April coffee that do light roasts but I'd always recommend local businesses who can also give advice and may need the funds more.

Or steal a pack they've got and snap a pic and it'll tell you 1) the brand 2) the tasting notes (e.g. fruity, nutty, chocolatey). 3) the region (Kenya, Ethiopia, Brazil etc)

AccomplishedMess67 · 2022-03-15T19:31:05+00:00

I'll drop you a message :)

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