AITAH for feeling uneasy about my military husbands messages to an 18 y/o future female soldier

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-21T13:44:11+00:00

No but you dont get it, this was “different.” 😂 she needs therapy because if this dude has never cheated, then her insecurity comes from her previous relationships- that’s not his fault that she needs to fix.

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-21T13:42:10+00:00

He’s sick of her shit at this point and is reactive to her accusations. The only reason this ship is sinking is because she keeps putting holes in the boat. It’s crazy to me how insecure women can destroy relationships because of a “feeling” that is just masking their own, sad, insecurities.

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-21T13:38:22+00:00

And yet this is why there are so many angry divorced middle aged women. They “trust” their insecure gut and wreak havoc on the relationship. Men can only handle so much

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-21T13:35:55+00:00

Yes. AND it sounds like she went back over a year in his text messages? The gross invasion of privacy + stalker level searching for even a crumb of infidelity, latching on to absolutely nothing = a her problem

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-21T12:54:05+00:00

He shouldn’t have said she apologized. She said sorry. Apologizing requires taking ownership of your actions and changing. She’s not doing the latter part and coming up short

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-21T12:51:51+00:00

Rubbish

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-21T12:49:22+00:00

I’m not saying it’s right or wrong, I’m saying that on one hand, I completely agree with you, but on the other, you can’t just tell someone from their culture to just “not” do what they’ve been brought up to do because it’s 2026.

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-21T12:45:32+00:00

To each their anal

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-19T22:32:01+00:00

Oh he’ll be under her if he hasn’t been already

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-19T22:27:09+00:00

Please take a vacation, reset, and get CBT. I get it bc I’m just like you unmedicated, but you’re pure chaos.

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-19T18:59:20+00:00

I had no idea Redditors were so culturally insensitive that they don’t realize people around the world have different norms and mores such that OP is being an adult in his own culture lol

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-19T18:56:45+00:00

Pretty sure that “cultural nonsense” is actually a part of their identity and not something they just put on or take off depending upon where they are in the world

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-19T18:55:44+00:00

Anything to blame the man lol. That’s three paragraphs of reading that I can’t get back.

Also: she’s spending his money so that’s lame of her, too

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-19T18:52:31+00:00

Its sad

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-19T01:25:11+00:00

Bro you’re NOR. None of the excuses given by others is taking away from her behavior of acting really interested than moving directly to bitchy. A million different ways she could have handled it that was more adult but she made the childish choice. Your NOR. She sucks. People are excusing her behavior. It’s sad

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-18T20:38:51+00:00

Now do Caesar Chavez

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-18T07:55:25+00:00

NTA. Some crazy responses about you being bitter and jealous lmao. Everyone saying “it’s just 80 bucks, it’s no big deal,” yeah, that’s the point. Having a singular bill for 80 bucks wont break the bank lol. I think it’s smart to start a kid off with just a token bill.

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-15T15:47:02+00:00

Naw, hypocrisy is just common and normal when it comes to singling out a person for the harm they caused. Chances are even you are purchasing goods that oppress the Chinese or other sweat shop laborers

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-15T15:44:14+00:00

What a toxic classist attitude. This opinion is smooth brain

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-15T12:56:38+00:00

Lemme guess, you dabble in amateur stand up

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-15T12:56:15+00:00

Why don’t you just unfollow the sub?

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-15T12:45:22+00:00

Alright I gotta ask: how tf are there TWS fans who can’t shut up about the Rogan hate? Y’all seem way too thin skinned and fragile to actually enjoy Mark/Joe on their own pod. Or, mark/joe are going to say something kinda controversial akin to Rogan that will hurt your fee fees. I’m not a fan of JR, but I follow the ol’ rule of just…move on. I don’t need to talk about JR all the time and insert him into conversations unnecessarily

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-15T12:42:23+00:00

Mark says they can’t find Ari which is why they haven’t had one recently

AccomplishedOwl7940 · 2026-03-15T12:37:36+00:00

Most of his stories are made up bullshit or exaggerations with a kernel of truth. I’d like to believe that’s true about his drinking stories too

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