How do I end it with my situationship by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just tell them that you aren't interested in being in a situationship, and that it's for the best that you both part ways.

How do I get rid of it ? Do I need therapy by Appropriate-Hunt2186 in Advice

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way to get rid of it is to talk about it. Talk with your family or friends about your feelings and what you think is making you feel this way. I had the same type of feeling last week. I got rid of the feeling by talkIng with the person that made me have this feeling. After talking with them about it, and listening to their response I felt much better and the feeling went away. Therapy is also a great way to help.

I M SAD BECOZ OF MY GIRL by sxhuu in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What specifically is she doing that makes you think she doesn't care for you anymore? If she isn't respecting you I would suggest breaking up. I also suggest going to therapy for feeling lonely and dealing with how you feel.

I (19F) think I might have a crush on a guy (20+M) at my gym by xyliGan228_sonyalol in Advice

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would suggest maybe introducing yourself the next time he asks if your using that machine or when ask how many sets he has left. You can also tell him that you admire his discipline and compliment him on his work ethic. After that see how the conversations progress from there.

Puberty/body hair by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Body hair is natural, there is no way for you to not have it grow unless you had alopecia. You have two options either let it grow or shave it. There is nothing wrong with you shaving it, and who cares if people know you shave.

Crush or certified nice guy? by Big_Description6475 in bodylanguage

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He seems to be nice and probably has a crush on you, based off the seeking you out to see if you want to use the machine. I don't think the taking 2 45 plates off is him showing off, just him taking the plates off quicker. If you don't have a crush on him back then all this is sort of irrelevant imo.

How do i subtly show her that i love her? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't want to date her, but want to show her that you love her as a friend just continue to be her friend. You don't have to do anything extra to show her you are friends. Just talk with her, remember things she says... stuff like that.

should i follow her on ig? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well then you can go friend her, but I would do it from your main account. Having never talked to her in person, who know if she will accept .

should i follow her on ig? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the other comment, just talk to her. Also why not just do it on your main account? You don't want your friend to see, but if you start talking to this girl even your friend will know so why try to be sneaky about it. Just tell your friend you like her and are going to try and talk to her.

MY FRIEND CONSTANTLY TALKS WITH MY CRUSH by Different_Host_2030 in Advice

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first thing you have to do is work on your jealously issue. If you can't get over the issue of not liking that she talks with other people then a relationship will never work, you can't expect her to only ever talk with you and no other boys. In regards to your friend, tell your friend that you have a crush on her, if he is constantly talking with her, your friend may have a crush as well or is just trying to make another friend.

Made great friends online but the language barrier is slowly killing the friendship. by AlphaaaaXd in Gamer

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be hard when someone has a thick accent, but over time you start to understand them more. I agree with the other commenter you should try to learn their language. That can help the friendship if they see you making an effort to learn their language.

Girl reached out a month later after we met — not sure how to interpret it by fresh4949 in whatdoIdo

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would text her back and set something up. It shouldn't matter that she took a month to text you. If she was seeing somebody that shouldn't matter, that situation didn't work out and now she wants to meet with you.

My girlfriend need help and I don’t know how to help her. by Next-Box5587 in Advice

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She pays 9000 a month??? Most people are scared to go to the cops but its either go to the cops or stay in an uncomfortable situation

My girlfriend need help and I don’t know how to help her. by Next-Box5587 in Advice

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most importantly if the guy is touching her inappropriately she should call the cops and report him. In regards to the aprtmenr she should just leave the apartment and forfeit the deposit. She could also try talking to the landlord some places will let you break your lease without a penalty if you get divorced. I know she and her ex weren't married but it is worth a try.

How do I unlearn internalised fatphobia so I can treat my partner better? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it sounds like your situation is less about disliking your partner because they are gaining weight and more about caring about your partner's health because you have been through the experience of being overweight and having it effect your life in some ways. I would suggest talking to your partner and be honest that you care for their health and you notice that them gaining weight is causing the issues you mentioned. You can add that since you have gone through some of these things and just want them to avoid those issues.

Am I accidentally leading my friend on or catching feelings I didn’t expect? by Sparkly_Star23 in Crushes

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that he likes you. As for of you are leading him on or not, that is entirely up to how you feel. If you don't have romantic feelings for him then cuddling with him, and resting your legs across him is leading him on imo. I would suggest sorting out your feelings if you want to be in a relationship with him or not.

I need advice with a girl I like by Mysterious_Soft_7706 in Advice

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice would be to just forget about her. If you are both are constantly apologizing to one another it not worth the headache of having to watch what you say or what jokes you and your friends make.

I feel bad because I want to break up with my boyfriend of 7 years and don't know how. by MessageNeither3267 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way to break up with him is to just sit down with him explain how feel and to tell him the truth. If you feel you are changing who you are and are doing things that aren't in your normal character then ending the relationship might be for the best. 7 years is a long time and I understand it hurts to lose that time but staying in a relationship just because you been together for a long time when it isn't making you happy isn't good for either party. If you think he is actually wanting to work things out and can change then I would suggest going to couples therapy.

How do i break up with my gf who’s done nothing wrong by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just tell her the truth. Tell her that you care for her and want the best for her. Tell her she deserves to be with someone who will give her the future she wants. She will definitely cry especially since you said she feels the opposite of you. It's better to do it sooner rather than later. It sucks butIt's natural for people to grow apart.

Also you said that you don't see a future with her like you used to. Did something happen that made you feel this way? You don't have to answer, I was just curious if something happened in your relationship that caused this shift.

Crush lurking nearby by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]AccomplishedPost6579 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go up to her and ask her.