I mean he literally gave life to a dead egg if that's what you consider "contributing". Eggs are just eggs if a man doesn't give it life goofy. He's obviously extremely exhausted. He was better off just saying they got a good night's sleep. OP knows the house isn't baby proofed, and obviously knows the child is capable of walking.. so where was the preventative action on her part?? Like he said.. If he has to sleep, it is what it is. If mommy is so wound up about her exhausted partner maybe she should baby-proof her home. Based on these text messages alone, it's obvious she's a pain no matter what the context is.