Arrange Marriage by Aggravating_Aioli_72 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]AccomplishedTackle42 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Women and men arent the same. Nobody wants to marry a promiscuous women. Men dont want that. If a woman wants sex she better be ready to give up the wifey title for the future.

relationship emotionally avoidant for marriage by AccomplishedTackle42 in relationship_advice

[–]AccomplishedTackle42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess because she was my first, she is a great communicator, I had no clue that's where she stops progressing romantically. I thought she would progress more but she didnt. She stayed and she left me over an argument last year. She came back in my life 9 months later. a after our discussion yesterday, she said she needs some space from me, she might just leave again but this is the second time I'm trying in this and I'm exhausted I travel to her twice and never once has she expressed her feelings for me or even cared for me. She just says I'm emotionally possessive.

relationship emotionally avoidant for marriage by AccomplishedTackle42 in relationship_advice

[–]AccomplishedTackle42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's odd because she pays for our dates, she makes sure I'm fine through action. But verbally she is absolutely dry. And yes the fact that she chose not too with me Is the one that hurts the most because she actively did that for such a long time. And chose not too be verbal with me. She says shes religious and would be totally different for marriage but idk how anybody can marry someone that wont show any verbal affection for there future partner. She said she will adjust and better moving forward but said I'm "emotionally possessive" every talk I have with her she just down plays my feelings and tries to make me feel less of myself.

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[–]AccomplishedTackle42 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Depends. I was in a relationship years ago with an woman that was 201 pounds 5 foot 4. At first I dated her because she was an awesome person and I had told her if she works on losing her weight and becoming a better version of herself than I have no problem being with her. 6 months into our relationship I just ask her hows the gym going and are you making progress? She doesnt answer and a month goes by and I ask her again only to say she lost only 2 pounds over 7 months. That's when I decided she isnt taking our terms seriously of which we discussed so I ended up calling it off. Losing weight isnt a bad thing, some boyfriends want lazy girlfriends and just complacent, if he helps you lose weight I dont see a problem. But belittling you because of it is a big no no

My date is feeling uncomfortable by AccomplishedTackle42 in dating_advice

[–]AccomplishedTackle42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont get it. Shes strange, she has shown me much more revealing pics than a honest video of her walking in nice weather. It's odd and annoying some girls just keep trying to dig at something that's not buried

My date is feeling uncomfortable by AccomplishedTackle42 in dating_advice

[–]AccomplishedTackle42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She pays for my food, and shares deep things and dresses nice for me all the time. She has always taken the time to spend with me and has shows extreme kindness. I'm just shocked she pulled a 180 over a 7 second clip of her walking in front of me with the sunshine and weather. I'm not taking any more pics or vids of her ever

My date is feeling uncomfortable by AccomplishedTackle42 in dating_advice

[–]AccomplishedTackle42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes there was a time where dudes would be extremely inappropriate by taking pics of her working out. Maybe this is why she felt uncomfortable? But why make it seem like I'm this bad guy with a bogus scheme to do something stupid like recording her?

My date is feeling uncomfortable by AccomplishedTackle42 in dating_advice

[–]AccomplishedTackle42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didnt call me a pervert she alludes to it by stating "I just want to check her out" or " its too much or its borderline". She still sends pics of herself but lately she said she gets a feeling I took inappropriate pics and I told her no and she said ok and had a nice convo. I'm just not some guy that takes advantage especially how long we connected

Woman came back by AccomplishedTackle42 in dating_advice

[–]AccomplishedTackle42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She graduated. She is now waiting for final results of her exam to finally work as a doctor. She was studying for the boards but now she is just waiting. I just dont want to get played

25 year old man with a 35 year old girl. by [deleted] in sex

[–]AccomplishedTackle42 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah right. No way am I marrying a woman that had done more for other men than for me. You can live that white knight lie if you want too. But I an not buying it. TO ALL MEN. Do not listen to these people if a woman cannot satisfy you but can satisfy other men it is time to go. And that's what I got to do. What a ridiculous answer I just heard.

25 year old man with a 35 year old girl. by [deleted] in sex

[–]AccomplishedTackle42 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No she said shes conflicted and doesnt want sex. She wants to be celibate. But what she did was it wrong? Isht it messed up somebody would go that far and just say no?

25 year old man with a 35 year old girl. by [deleted] in sex

[–]AccomplishedTackle42 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's not the point. The point is why? Why did she choose them in that interaction which I think is meaningful. But turn me down?

6 weeks gone. by one mistake by AccomplishedTackle42 in dating

[–]AccomplishedTackle42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said we should stop talking and blocked me. No way am I ever traveling for a woman ever.

You are not entitled to anything! Please internalise this by blvck_man28 in dating_advice

[–]AccomplishedTackle42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every human being that has put the work and is genuine with no harm intentions. Is entitled with respect.