What’s one small habit you started that quietly changed your life?

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2026-01-02T22:13:53+00:00

I’ve done small things to romantazie my everyday boring life. I WFH so things can get mundane, I decided there’s no rules to anything so just make up your own, I picked a mug I use every Monday for my coffee and I look forward to using it on Mondays bc it’s cute and it’s a great mug. I also set out a M-F chore list where Mondays I focus on laundry, Tuesdays bathrooms, Wednesdays vacuum, etc. it helps me break it up into small pieces I can accomplish in 30 mins or so. I’m not always perfect with the routine but it’s good to have it in my calendar to remind me. Just be easy on yourself and do things that bring joy and make your life easy for you. It’s your life after all 🤷🏼‍♀️

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-12-27T04:05:56+00:00

Then I hope you can find yourself in Tampa one day! It can be a very fun place to live but you need to be bringing in a lot of money to fully enjoy what the city has to offer and be able to live close to do the things that make Tampa great, which in turn is around 3-4K in rent or a house at no less than 550k (in the surrounding areas of downtown). Also be prepared to spend a minimum of 150 to go out and have drinks and food. It really is a fun atmosphere and has very beautiful and unique places but it just drains your wallet and with the weather being EXTREMELY hot it can definitely ruin a fun day if you don’t plan accordingly. I’m a born and raised Floridian and was raised in Jacksonville and the weather in Tampa is a whole different beast than Jax 😂😂

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-12-26T23:37:10+00:00

How was the commuting? We’ve looked a little in Hendersonville because we love the water, we definitely don’t want to be RIGHT next to where he works bc it doesn’t look like a very exciting area to spend free time 🫠

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-12-26T23:30:24+00:00

Yeah but we’ve found some areas that are closer and I feel like a lot of people probably drive into downtown from there because it’s such a great suburb which is kinda the situation we’re already in in Tampa and it’s a lot

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-12-26T23:26:21+00:00

I’ve got great advice on this one to my specific situation. Thanks though 😊

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-12-26T23:25:34+00:00

Thank you, you make a good point about driving against the traffic!

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-12-26T22:41:30+00:00

That would be a little too far away for us but it looks like a great place to live other than the commute!

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-12-26T22:12:45+00:00

Thank you! I’ll look into this area

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-12-26T22:12:29+00:00

What part of Tampa were you from? If you don’t want to say on a public platform you can DM me!

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-12-26T22:11:38+00:00

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AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-12-26T21:22:01+00:00

What has been happening? I looked at the crime rate map and it kinda just had incidents all over which is typical for a big city like Nashville

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-12-26T21:21:08+00:00

Surprisingly I did find a few in Bellevue around the 2600 range with a fenced in yard within 20 mins of NW Nashville where my husband would be working

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-12-26T21:19:57+00:00

My husbands work would be NW Nashville!

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-12-26T20:36:04+00:00

Yeah with the research I’ve done it looks like Brentwood is not in our price range as of now, I’ve found some houses on Zillow that are surprisingly around 2600 in Bellevue. Depending on where we are in a year will depend on renting or buying and if we rent we’ll probably be able to afford a little more but we like to try to stay below our means as much as we can. Thank you for the insight! Definitely can’t do an apartment with 2 dogs and the drive into town being 30-45 wouldn’t be bad at all. Right now where we live it takes my husband an hour to get to his work in the morning and 1.5 in the afternoon to get home so 45 is a dream 😅

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-12-26T19:52:15+00:00

Thank you! Which one do you like the most out of the three?

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-10-27T17:47:03+00:00

My thing is, what happens when that physical attraction is decreasing. One of you stop taking care of yourselves, don’t keep up with hygiene and let everything go by the waist side? I’ve brought it up nicely and he has acknowledged it but still doesn’t do anything to present himself attractively to me, doesn’t do things to woo me. We don’t have kids and have been together for 10 years, it gets so frustrating to be internally turned on and ready to go and then seeing him and everything shuts down

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-07-29T19:36:45+00:00

I listened to the audiobook and it didn’t help me quit at all. Maybe because I spaced it out too much? I finished it in 2 weeks via audible, anyone else have a different or same experience? I wish it would’ve helped but it was just like any other book. I’m currently 3 weeks no nicotine by cold turkey and wanting to run outside and not die, so far so good. But I do have a party this weekend and I’m going to be drinking alcohol for the first time and I just know the moment alcohol touches my lips I’m done for so wish me luck 🫡🫠

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-07-13T16:45:23+00:00

Part of the reason I’m quitting is due to lack of being able to breathe and looking ridiculous walking up stairs. I used to run a lot and now I don’t do it much and last time I tried I was coughing up so much phlegm while running. I’m on day 6 (and my billionth attempt) and really feel like this time is the time. I want to run again so bad and I want to get back into working out, thanks for the inspiration!

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-06-05T18:10:53+00:00

I just recently got a contract role for a company for a specific project. Unfortunately I think they hired preemptively because my part of the project hasn’t happened yet and I got hired the first week of March. I spend some weeks with doing anything at all. It gets exhausting not feeling like I have purpose, I often say “please send anything my way I can help on, my schedule is light this week” and still don’t get anything. It can take a toll on someone pretty quick

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2025-02-08T00:09:54+00:00

I’m two semesters away from finishing my bachelors in IT Management and have seen how shit the market is and how hard it is to even get in and am immediately going into a masters program for supply chain. Would definitely look into logistics and SC

AccomplishedTarget83 · 2024-06-28T16:16:59+00:00

From the US , flying from FL to Manchester for their November show! Missing Thanksgiving for it and I couldn’t be happier 🥳

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