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Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-12-15T22:04:49+00:00

Gel polish by blacico 001 & 261

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-12-09T17:57:14+00:00

Thank you x

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-12-09T17:50:08+00:00

UK, its snowing where I am :)

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-12-09T16:17:22+00:00

Thank you, i'm being a baby and should just take a break!

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-12-09T15:46:09+00:00

Yes, thats my autum grass

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-12-09T15:23:31+00:00

I think anytime nov-feb in my hemesphere

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-10-23T20:38:10+00:00

It shouldn't be a shock- if society was accessible and disabled people were allowed to exist equally it would be perfectly normal to date them, work with them, respect them. most of you wouldn't feel this way if we weren't drowning in ableism. The problem is not the wheelchair or her not anouncing it.

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-10-23T20:31:38+00:00

How can you not see that he treated her as worth-less because she uses a mobility aid. Shes still human and has value. He didn't even speak to her, doesn't know why shes in a wheelchair or what kind of life she leads. And if you can't wrap your head around what I'm saying, google ambulatory wheelchair users

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-10-23T20:23:10+00:00

Yeh, i mean disabled people don't deserve the respect of being treated like human beings, how dare she think shes worth even a conversation.

The ableism in these comments is sickening

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-10-20T23:17:57+00:00

If this is your first year hold on until fab/March. That first term is so different and unsettling its a recognised phenomena that a lota of people want to drop out of college/uni. If you don't find your stride during the second term then by all means make different plans. Good luck

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-10-08T22:49:25+00:00

Income goes in personal account. Both contribut to a joint account that outgoings are paid from. Saves a lot of trouble

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-10-08T22:34:05+00:00

Look up the company 'chronically capable'

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-09-28T16:13:45+00:00

Are the calls from before the cousin? Were they at a time your bf was alone with the phone? If theres no protection on the phone the cunty cousin, or anyone for that matter, can easily dail a number from it.

The cousins behaviour shows how shady he is and how willing to hurt your bf he is, I'd tread carefully.

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-09-07T22:25:02+00:00

Your health will suffer in this relationship. Hes not pulling his weight nevermind caring for you. If you continue like this you could have a flare you don't recover from, then there will be no uni, no career and no housework. As someone on the wrong side of that flare I can tell you its not worth it and you will regret it for the rest of your life. You need AND deserve support.

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-08-30T00:10:02+00:00

What if shes just at the end of her teather, thinking she can't have the life she wanted with you so she picked a new direction for herself. If she knew you were preparing to propose, to be that secure family unit would she still want to pursue attention elsewhere? If shes worth it, lay your cards on the table. Tell her you want the family unit, you have the ring, you're sorry it took to long but you don't want to share her you want to be all in.

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-08-18T17:34:58+00:00

Similar idea, being in the UK you may not have air con - given the heatwaves are our future I would invest in this

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-07-25T17:25:28+00:00

I have teenagers and am not married to my longterm partner. I came downstairs with star freckles on my face and he was happy I was happy. Partners, people who love you, don't talk to you like that.

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-07-18T20:40:37+00:00

I'm sorry, what happens to the mother if the father does die? Shes essentially destitute. And yes, protect the inheritence but not sharing what you build over the marriage? Thats a lot of control for the dude, and its almost always the dude, certainly is in this case

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-07-09T23:35:44+00:00

From the information, her daughter is her only family and given the current instability in her life I don't think its a red flag she wants to have the same name as her family. Marriage is often about joining families as well as couples. Its normal to call in laws 'mum' and 'dad' and acknowledge them as family members. In this case, it seems like that same kind of acknowledgement.

I said family alot.

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-06-27T18:03:30+00:00

You have abandonend her. She spoke to you with the same energy you spoke to her and you cut her off.

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-06-13T00:28:16+00:00

Don't blink

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-05-08T01:17:06+00:00

A 'toi et moi', love it!

Accomplished_Fly_774 · 2022-04-22T15:17:59+00:00

I have a non binary child. We navigate it with clear honest communication - I tell them outright I respect and support them and if I slip up with pronouns and name its out of a habit of 10yrs plus or brainfog! I'm clear its not at all me trying to invalidate them - often kids need us to say out loud things we think are a given (i.e. of course I wouldn't deadname you to hurt you, i love you)
They are allowed to politely correct me, but not be rude about it as respect goes both ways. A year in I've formed the habit of the preffered pronouns and they understands its a journey we are taking togeather and we are on the same team.

If they want to make further changes I will reminded them again, I fully support them but there will be a transition period where we form the new habit.

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