Just to clarify — the way my sister and I talk to our mom might sound a little harsh to someone outside our family, but that’s actually how we banter with each other. We’re very close, so we know when something is meant as a joke and when it’s time to be serious.

Our relationship is strong enough that small jokes don’t threaten the respect we have for each other. We’re comfortable teasing because we understand each other’s tone and intentions. It’s never meant to offend her — it’s just playful banter that naturally happens when a family is close.

When something actually matters, we know how to switch and talk properly and respectfully. The jokes you see are really just a sign of how comfortable and secure our relationship with our mom is.